I don't think I can be assed to sit through this entire video, bit I'll at least refute his first point
"Studies show that being an attractive man only buys you 30 to 45 additional seconds when approaching a woman, therefore you personality/charisma needs to be on point"
How in the world do we even being to quantify personality? Anyways, it is obvious that what constitutes "having a good personality" for an attractive person is much lower than that for an average or unattractive person and this is scientifically proven by the Halo effect. A phenomena that has been far more rigorously tested than some "approach time alotment relative to looks" studies.