Can't afford to live alone at 25, this sucks

[Deleted member 7448]

A 25 year old man living with his parents is very, very pathetic. Not only that, privacy is basically non-existent, and you can't really do anything you want to do. Curse my retardation, my shit job and low wages, and the shitty country that has such a low GDP.

I really don't like these people. I did a lot of shit when I was an alcoholic so now I'm regretful and I'm sorry for all that I did to them. But when I forget about being sorry, I'm reminded yet again how much I actually fucking dislike these people. if they weren't my parents we wouldn't even talk.

Ohh, and since I was 14 I think I never went 1 year without getting into a fight with my parents where we didn't talk to each other for more than 3 months. Once we didn't even talk for 1 year. Sometimes I wouldn't talk to my mother, sometimes wouldn't talk to my father.

 

[Akkadian]

Just live at your parents boyo end of the day they're the only ones willing to help you. No one else will help you boyo.

 

[Gepard]

Just live at your parents boyo end of the day they're the only ones willing to help you. No one else will help you boyo.

This is true, I myself am worried about graduating, not being able to find a job and having to move back in with them

 

[Deleted member 7448]

This is true, I myself am worried about graduating, not being able to find a job and having to move back in with them

Believe me, do what you can to be able to afford to live alone. Do your homework, hell, do it twice. Work your ass off man, you don't want to end up like me.

 

[Uglyman]

Living alone sucks. You deprove yourslef of the only people that like you

 

[Initium]

Living alone is okay, definitely has its drawbacks ie rent money out the ass and nobody to talk to.

Just stay with your folks and savingsmaxx untill you can afford to get a small house or condo where the payments will be super low

 

[Mickeyonacid]

As opposed to living alone with no one to speak with?

 

[everythingislava]

Living alone sucks. You deprove yourslef of the only people that like you

 

[Potbellypos]

Try to find a job that includes free rent as part of your income, like working for an apartment complex as maintenance or management, or you can join the military. Management are glorified secretaries and maintenance work is a lot easier than it looks. Lie on your resume, make up bullshit about years of experience. You can google any problem you have and see how it generally boils down to taking stuff apart and putting stuff back together. I went into a maintenance job knowing nothing and now I've done heater repair, plumbing, sewer, electrical, lawn mower repair, I've built furniture, built fences, remodeled homes. All this experience even gave me the confidence to take my computer apart and learn how to fix my overheating issues that I've been dealing with for years. You just have to be ready to work hard and prove yourself. If you're afraid of getting covered in shit or you're too lazy to dig a trench in 100 degree heat, then you'll never get anywhere. Once they saw that I don't do drugs, that I bust my ass, and I'm reliable, they gave me a management position and now I sit in an air conditioned office all day doing jack shit.

 

[visage]

thats fucked boyo

do whatever you need to do to gtfo of your parents house. Staying with parents after 18 becomes like quicksand, the longer you stay the harder it is to get out. move out to a share house at the very least.

srs do WHATEVER it takes. work extra hours, get welfare money, take out a loan. i dont know.
living alone kinda gives you motivation to do shit, but more importantly privacy. you can bring hookers home, get drunk/high whenever you want. so many perks ngl. i hate living with people so i couldnt do the share house thing but it is better than living with parents

 

[BrendioEEE]

Part of me really wants to live alone, but one time I autistically tripped and fell and almost died and if my parents weren't home I prob would be dead right now.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

parents are gonna die one day

yikes thats gonna suck

 

[BrendioEEE]

parents are gonna die one day

yikes thats gonna suck

Brutal blackpill. I have constant anxiety about that because I keep getting job applications denied. 70+ applications straight up denied, hundreds never even got a reply to, my savings is fucking pathetic because I have to sell shit and scrounge for money on my own. Living in L.A is brutal, I have no monetary fallback atm.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Between a rock and a hard place for sure. I hope you find a decent solution but having to work simply to live alone, sounds like an internment camp.

 

[incel-american]

Between a rock and a hard place for sure. I hope you find a decent solution but having to work simply to live alone, sounds like an internment camp.

Legit. The only reason I want to leave home (I'm in early 30s) is because of an alcoholic brother.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Legit. The only reason I want to leave home (I'm in early 30s) is because of an alcoholic brother.

Yeah, I can understand that, that's "toxic" unlike any other use of the word outside of poison.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

I really envy people that have good relationships with their parents. They can still go out and get laid without having to pay exuberant amounts of rent. And they can continue growing their relationship with their parents while they live at home.

 

[th62eathhts2]

This is true, I myself am worried about graduating, not being able to find a job and having to move back in with them

As soon as you graduate go around to local trade unions and ask for an apprenticeship. Plumber, electrician, carpenter doesn't fucking matter they all pay decently well. Advice i wish i would have followed rather than wasteing my life and parents money at college.

 

[Zaetheus]

Try to find a job that includes free rent as part of your income, like working for an apartment complex as maintenance or management, or you can join the military. Management are glorified secretaries and maintenance work is a lot easier than it looks. Lie on your resume, make up bullshit about years of experience. You can google any problem you have and see how it generally boils down to taking stuff apart and putting stuff back together. I went into a maintenance job knowing nothing and now I've done heater repair, plumbing, sewer, electrical, lawn mower repair, I've built furniture, built fences, remodeled homes. All this experience even gave me the confidence to take my computer apart and learn how to fix my overheating issues that I've been dealing with for years. You just have to be ready to work hard and prove yourself. If you're afraid of getting covered in shit or you're too lazy to dig a trench in 100 degree heat, then you'll never get anywhere. Once they saw that I don't do drugs, that I bust my ass, and I'm reliable, they gave me a management position and now I sit in an air conditioned office all day doing jack shit.

Sounds pretty sweet tbh

 

[InMyCellInHell]

In my 30s same position man. It's shameful and pathetic. I'll never really know what a proper life was or how it was supposed to be lived. I also can't find any good job since I'm too old and don't have any real experience doing something besides shit min wage jobs. I probably would have offed myself by now but
a) I can't get a gun legally where I live
b) I don't want to be a burden to my parents (even as shitty as they can be)

Good luck escaping. It really will get worse until you escape.

 

[BlackPilledKira]

Living alone sucks. You deprove yourslef of the only people that like you

 

[Peter Pan]

Save money by living with your parents so you save enough to go to SEA to ascend or rope trying

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

The relationshipwith my parents got less tense since I moved out. Come on dude work for it, find a tiny apartment by the sewer, but the earlier you leave the better you will all be.