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Serious Can you have real life friends if you are an ugly male?

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Even if you do have an interesting personality,which is something that men actually value,once they realize you are incapable of attracting a female they will (sub)consciously start thinking less of you.At best,they keep hanging out with you to make themselves look better.You end up being the butt of every joke,especially in the presence of women.A lot of us have experienced this.

Is that what friendship is?

Imo,either you luck out with some unicorn pals who wont judge you based on your ability to get with women or you try and befriend other ugly men who are also aware of the unfair nature of life and know that they drew the short straw.This way you can establish a relationship based on mutual empathy,which is barely different from a support group imo,but it's still infinitely better than being mocked all the time.

Can incels have real friends?
 
Not really, they will just throw you under the bus whenever they have a chance to show their superiority.
 
Yes, but you will always be the butt of every joke
 
Yes if you are NT.
 
I don't think so. I think if you lowinhib max you can have a "social circle" of people to laugh at you. not anything genuine. I don't have any friends right now, and looking back at my school years, I never truly did have a friend.
 
Only other incels will have enough things in common with you to be friends at this point.
 
I don't think so. I think if you lowinhib max you can have a "social circle" of people to laugh at you. not anything genuine. I don't have any friends right now, and looking back at my school years, I never truly did have a friend.
I think so too.It's like being a clown at a party without the paycheck at the end.

Yes if you are NT.

They will still look down upon you when they realize you disgust females.

Only other incels will have enough things in common with you to be friends at this point.

My thoughts too.This gets increasingly true the older you get.
 
I think so too.It's like being a clown at a party without the paycheck at the end.
I tried to be the funny guy in hs. had "friends" aka people to laugh at my jokes. none of them invited me to do anything. they never did shit for me. I went home every day and played xbox for 8 hours. fucking hell.
 
Only if you find other ugly males. Every time a "nerdy" guy gets a gf his head explodes with arrogance.
 
Yes, but you will always be the butt of every joke
This. Normies are cruel faggots who treat you like an object to laugh at, pity, and gain an ego boost from all because you can't get a used up bitch due to females' standards being ridiculous. Hypergamy ruined us from the start.
 
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Yes. Well you can make friends with other incels and social outcasts. Don't just expect to be friends with any Chads, normalfags or foids.
 
You can have incel friends
 
Yes, but you will always be the butt of every joke
I've been called cheese pizza (child predator) by my former friend group, they excluded me from hanging out with them, then before they left me, they tricked me into giving them my discord and they banned me.
 
I had a few friends in the many high schools I was at, but they were chadlites and I wasn't in there social circle either
 
My friends were degenerates, not lolicons
 
Of course you can, I have.
 
I would say yes, but it gets annoying over time. They want to go out to clubs and other places you don't belong. At first they'll tell you to be confident and then they'll try to set you up with the most bad attitude hideous type there is, not noticing the venom in her eyes when they introduce you.
 
Yes. Ive seen incel looking guys being real good friends With Chad esque dudes.
 
It’s possible but I’ve found that only 1 out of 35 people wont treat me like shit and that 1 could simply turn out to be a “friend”
 

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