I voted no but I don't even know. I'm taken to the example of a friend I once had online I met talking about video games - you know he's incel when you look at him, he's damn ugly and invisible to women, but back in high school he got lucky - he had a trashy neo-Nazi girlfriend he nevertheless had fun with bonding over shit they liked, he had to break up with her though because his parents forced him to as she was bad influence, then he had a second girlfriend who was a fanfiction writing Sonic fangirl that never as much as touched him and dumped him for a wigger Chad. He hasn't been able to get anyone since and is extremely depressive and suicidal nowadays to the point of experiencing hallucinations and he has a look in his eyes that looks like a soldier who's been through horrors of at least two wars.