So as those who know me know, my dad is a wealthmaxxed Jew (part of the 0.1% financially) who married a Stacy (inb4 """JEW"" since my mother isn't jewish im not accepted in the tribe) in the 90s and he is is both bluepilled and blackpilled at the same time. He agrees with me when I tell him how looks are all the matters, give evidence based on Darwinian evolution, and all the tinder experiments. It always ends with my dad agreeing 100% and saying it's something he's always known but never conceptualized it. Next time i speak to him he asks why I don't have a girlfriend and says I need to work on my personality JFL. I remind him that it's because of looks but he always talks about "hey im not the prettiest guy and i married your mother". I told him it was different in his day and even then, it was after she was done with a bunch of Chad athletes before she settled with him. He then told me its unhealthy for me to have this attitude and asks if there's any way I can drop it. I told him I would get laid if he flew me over to Europe to get laid in Germany where prostitution is legal. He said the idea was the most outrageous thing he's ever heard and walked away (this happened probably five months ago)
Two days ago he came back and told me he supported the idea but only because it would get over my anxiety of girls. But then told me never to kiss a prostitute and if I do never on the lips or he would never see me the same. I say "oh yeah because of oral herpes but I heard those are no big deal and 90% of people have them, and it's not like I'll be spreading it to anyone else haha". My dad says "No, that's not my concern. These women ideally dont want to be there. They are doing it for money, having sex with men they don't desire is how they get the money, that doesn't mean they should put their mouths anywhere near anyone they don't truly love". I ask him to clarify. My dad goes on about how men value sex but women don't, to a women a kiss is the most important thing. He says that to a women it is tramatizing to kiss someone they don't truly love, claims that men don't even like kissing but just do it to please women, so men who kiss women who aren't desiring them are simply sadists and do it to torture women. I told him that's silly because clearly men like to kiss too and women make out all the time with random people in the club. My dad insisted that they are simply looking for love, and only homosexual men actually enjoy kissing women, he then gets very angry because he thinks im going to try to kiss a prostitute in Germany and raises his voice shouting "back in the 80s men didn't kiss hookers because we were men, we were civilized, we weren't scumbags who enjoyed torturing women, thats all prostitution is now a days, people in my day only did it for personal pleasure and respected boundaries". I said "it sounds a lot like you did this when you were younger" and he said "not me I mean "we" as in my generation I would never do it". I try to say "yeah sure" but he cuts me off and says "you know what, just get the hell out of here".
I really don't understand his logic or what is going through his brain? Any conventional answers and any blackpilled answers?
Two days ago he came back and told me he supported the idea but only because it would get over my anxiety of girls. But then told me never to kiss a prostitute and if I do never on the lips or he would never see me the same. I say "oh yeah because of oral herpes but I heard those are no big deal and 90% of people have them, and it's not like I'll be spreading it to anyone else haha". My dad says "No, that's not my concern. These women ideally dont want to be there. They are doing it for money, having sex with men they don't desire is how they get the money, that doesn't mean they should put their mouths anywhere near anyone they don't truly love". I ask him to clarify. My dad goes on about how men value sex but women don't, to a women a kiss is the most important thing. He says that to a women it is tramatizing to kiss someone they don't truly love, claims that men don't even like kissing but just do it to please women, so men who kiss women who aren't desiring them are simply sadists and do it to torture women. I told him that's silly because clearly men like to kiss too and women make out all the time with random people in the club. My dad insisted that they are simply looking for love, and only homosexual men actually enjoy kissing women, he then gets very angry because he thinks im going to try to kiss a prostitute in Germany and raises his voice shouting "back in the 80s men didn't kiss hookers because we were men, we were civilized, we weren't scumbags who enjoyed torturing women, thats all prostitution is now a days, people in my day only did it for personal pleasure and respected boundaries". I said "it sounds a lot like you did this when you were younger" and he said "not me I mean "we" as in my generation I would never do it". I try to say "yeah sure" but he cuts me off and says "you know what, just get the hell out of here".
I really don't understand his logic or what is going through his brain? Any conventional answers and any blackpilled answers?
