Serious can somebody explain

[jerrycan dan]

a lot of the women in the pornography I masturbate to look like a younger version of my mother
I can't unsee the connection and it's made me so ashamed that I have doubled down on masturbating with a blanket over my screen cause i havent moved out of her house yet
I kind of resent my mother tho
is there a connection? what is the psychological mechanism that leads to this?
I don't want to fak my mader that's disgusting

 

[startcel]

That's some Siegmund Freud shit, ask him

 

[GermanCel27]

it happens. (not in my world) - but it happens

 

[vodkacel]

alabamacels

 

[jerrycan dan]

That's some Siegmund Freud shit, ask him

he's dead

 

[BummerDrummerOG]

Based to jerk off to your mom tbh. But it could mean that you are sexually attracted to your mom, which means you might have not gotten the parent kind of love. That's why people have MILF fetishes. I saw it in my rehab. Alot of peoples moms abandoned them/didn't give them love so they were kind of fucked up.

 

[Newbie17]

You took the Oedipuspill

 

[startcel]

he's dead

mogs me

 

[jerrycan dan]

alabamacels

i am repulsed at the thought of actually doing that though
i am just aroused by women that look like my mother but are less repulsive, physically and as human beans

 

[Uglyethnicrat]

That's fucked up. Good thing im ethnic. No way i can see my mom looking like these whores

 

[vodkacel]

i am repulsed at the thought of actually doing that though
i am just aroused by women that look like my mother but are less repulsive, physically and as human beans

we are not psychologists but maybe because she had a strong emotional influence when you were young (mommy issues?)

 

[jerrycan dan]

we are not psychologists but maybe because she had a strong emotional influence when you were young (mommy issues?)

i don't really remember
what would qualify as strong emotional influence

 

[Purveyoroftruth]

I’m not attracted to how my mom looks in any way. Every woman I watch in porn is much more attractive than her. I also love Asian women.

 

[mentalcel666]

a lot of the women in the pornography I masturbate to look like a younger version of my mother
I can't unsee the connection and it's made me so ashamed that I have doubled down on masturbating with a blanket over my screen cause i havent moved out of her house yet
I kind of resent my mother tho
is there a connection? what is the psychological mechanism that leads to this?
I don't want to fak my mader that's disgusting

how do you see your mother right now, whats your relationship with her, how do you feel about her? you idolize her? love her?

because for me i am disgusted by my mother, dont want to be near her or talk to her, and it makes me feel bad everytime im exposed to her for a longer time, idk but thats not normal,
normal is having a loving relationship or at least accepting, and afaik sexual attraction to your mother is normal, oedipus komplex, maybe read up on that, you might find some answers

Oedipus complex - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

 

[jerrycan dan]

how do you see your mother right now, whats your relationship with her, how do you feel about her? you idolize her? love her?

because for me i am disgusted by my mother, dont want to be near her or talk to her, and it makes me feel bad everytime im exposed to her for a longer time, idk but thats not normal,
normal is having a loving relationship or at least accepting, and afaik sexual attraction to your mother is normal, oedipus komplex, maybe read up on that, you might find some answers

Oedipus complex - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

im in same boat as you

 

[Blacktarpill]

alabamacels

 

[Deleted member 6214]

That's some Siegmund Freud shit, ask him

 

[FukFeminism]

That's some Siegmund Freud shit, ask him

 

[zangano1]

Post pictures of your mom, or at least the pornstars that look like her

 

[TINMAN]

alabamacels

 

[Infinite LDAR]

You should give more info so we can make some hypothesis, why you resent your mother ? She dominated you ? You search for foids who dominated you like your mother ?

Maybe your problem is because your mother is only women with whom you had a minimal emotional connection so you think women who look like your mother can develop a true connection with you if you saw them IRL. I think it's probably something like this because you don't even really know if you resent her or if she did something bad.

Imo, it's either due to the perceived better "accessibility" of women who look like your mother (the unconscious made the connection "this pornstar-> my mother-> proximity-> possibility of having a genuine emotional connection contrary to other women"), domination or searching for the affection/protection she gaves you (same connection as before but instead of "possibility of having a genuine emotional connection contrary to other women", you have a final different goal), or a mix of the three