I think about fags who were able to get married, but still wanted to fuck men. In some ways, I'm jealous of their ability to get a foid. They were normie enough to pull a foid, but DIDN'T REALLY WANT ONE. Meanwhile, I want one but can't get one. It's unfair. So, those fags weren't ugly, they were able to "get the girl." But they still wanted to fuck men. I don't think they chose it. They fought to force themselves to be normal for society's sake. Irony - those of us here want to be normal and truly desire a foid, but are rejected. Fags with girlfriends/wives have the opposite problem.
Not as easily as a Chad. But from an incel perspective, the fact that normies take having/having had girlfriends for granted would certainly qualify as "with ease" compared to my pathetic truecel situation. I was never even given the opportunity to struggle to KEEP a girlfriend like normies do. I was never able to GET one in the first place. Yes, I say with ease comparatively and stand by it.
Well, I like to drink. So, I have to be careful with alcohol. Whereas, for me, gambling doesn't do anything for me at all. I can put a coin in a slot machine and quickly get bored. Someone who's prone to desire gambling may slip off the rails. Though that same person may be able to have one drink and stop.
Yes, vices can lead to a slippery downhill slope, but only if there's an initial interest there to begin with. For me, one drink can easily turn in to many more. But a slot machine and a lottery ticket are meaningless. Someone may have the opposite problem. Spending hours at the craps table, but still sipping that one beer. Not all vices affect every person the same way.
Sounds to me like you're saying you have the same problem when it comes to your homosexual desires. It's something you have to watch yourself over, or you'll turn full-blown fag. For me, faggotry is on par with a casino = zero interest.