Serious Can any philosophycels or highiqcels explain this phenomenon to me.

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

So far in past years maybe even longer I have been getting really angry everytime I see a hot girl. I feel extreme anger and sadness when I see them as it reminds me of something I can’t have while other guys get to enjoy these girls?

Why do I only feel like this with girls and not with money or intelligence.

I don’t feel like anger at the billionaire/millionaire even though I’ll never have his wealth I m ok with it. I don’t feel anger towards the intelligent guy even tho I can’t have his IQ.

It’s just with hot girls. I get so angry that I have block my ears so I can’t hear them and move myself because I start to lose sanity and it drives me nuts.

My explanation to this phenomenon is that in my mind, only thing of value is being able to attract girls and I put that above all the money and intelligence which makes me frustrated.

Second explanation, in society’s eyes, the most successful guy is the guy with the hottest girls and not the guy with high intelligence or the most amount of money. But that can’t be true, because many guys and girls will say a name of non goodlooking rich person when asked who is the most successful person in the world.

 

[Deleted member 8206]

@RegisterUserName might know hes 150 iq tall tbh

 

[Robtical]

My explanation to this phenomenon is that in my mind, only thing of value is being able to attract girls and I put that above all the money and intelligence which makes me frustrated.

Because we have a biological organ made for sex, we don't have one for receiving money or material things. We can't control our biological urges. Animals only fight over food and mates, nothing else.

Second explanation, in society’s eyes, the most successful guy is the guy with the hottest girls and not the guy with high intelligence or the most amount of money. But that can’t be true, because many guys and girls will say a name of non goodlooking rich person when asked who is the most successful person in the world.

They name the ugly rich guys because they're the old farts at the very top. No one wants to be them, they'd rather be a chad celebrity over wrinkled balled bill gates.

 

[Dionysus]

I,a high iq individual, am here to help. Lets unpack this. It's because you are content with your iq and wealth but not your dating situation so you hate the things that remind you of you dissatisfaction. You don't need wealth or iq to live a happy life in your eyes.

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

I,a high iq individual, am here to help. Lets unpack this. It's because you are content with your iq and wealth but not your dating situation so you hate the things that remind you of you dissatisfaction. You don't need wealth or iq to live a happy life in your eyes.

Because we have a biological organ made for sex, we don't have one for receiving money or material things. We can't control our biological urges. Animals only fight over food and mates, nothing else.

They name the ugly rich guys because they're the old farts at the very top. No one wants to be them, they'd rather be a chad celebrity over wrinkled balled bill gates.

Both of these are perfectly reasonable answers

- Me being dissatisfied with my dating but not my iq or money. I am kinda dissatisfied with my iq and money situation but it’s not as bad as my dissatisfaction with dating.

- Biological organ made for sex. That makes sense. So true dissatisfaction in life can only come from not having sex and not having food. If these two needs are met on demand then can we say a man has nothing to complain about?

 

[fOreVER]

Because you are deprived of foids atten you badly want it. Money comes and go but love is a sweetness

 

[Robtical]

So true dissatisfaction in life can only come from not having sex and not having food. If these two needs are met on demand then can we say a man has nothing to complain about?

Yes, and also shelter. Of course a man who has those basic needs fulfilled will be a little jealous over people who are richer and smarter than them, but no where near as much as they'd be angry if they weren't even getting regular sex.

 

[Modus Coperandi]

your brain is "trained" to react this way, that's all there is to it.
could only be untrained by positive experiences with hot foids.
= it's over for you.

maybe escortceling could help as exposure therapy?

 

[oldcel75]

To have sex with an attractive girl is a basic need almost like food and air. To have high IQ or billions, not exactly.

 

[Honeypot]

So far in past years maybe even longer I have been getting really angry everytime I see a hot girl. I feel extreme anger and sadness when I see them as it reminds me of something I can’t have while other guys get to enjoy these girls?

Why do I only feel like this with girls and not with money or intelligence.

I don’t feel like anger at the billionaire/millionaire even though I’ll never have his wealth I m ok with it. I don’t feel anger towards the intelligent guy even tho I can’t have his IQ.

It’s just with hot girls. I get so angry that I have block my ears so I can’t hear them and move myself because I start to lose sanity and it drives me nuts.

My explanation to this phenomenon is that in my mind, only thing of value is being able to attract girls and I put that above all the money and intelligence which makes me frustrated.

Second explanation, in society’s eyes, the most successful guy is the guy with the hottest girls and not the guy with high intelligence or the most amount of money. But that can’t be true, because many guys and girls will say a name of non goodlooking rich person when asked who is the most successful person in the world.

I feel the same but before knowing this place I didn't.

Your life is focused in inceldom.

 

[Robtical]

Always remember maslow's hierarchy of needs.

https://incels.is/threads/sex-is-at...s-heirarchy-stay-away-if-avoiding-rope.94607/

 

[Deleted member 6018]

Think about how romance is plastered everywhere. Movies,books,music,and social media are all full of it. Its shown to be so widely available, and people taught that everyone is expected to experience it at least once. But the problem is you CAN’T experience this one simple thing that some middle schoolers get every single day. The reason it makes you angry is because it’s 100% expected of you, while the majority of the population doesn’t care if you have money or a high iq

 

[oldcel75]

Always remember maslow's hierarchy of needs.

https://incels.is/threads/sex-is-at...s-heirarchy-stay-away-if-avoiding-rope.94607/

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I think we are talking here about sexual intimacy, and not bare sex that anyone can get with an escort.

 

[Remyx]

My explanation to this phenomenon is that in my mind, only thing of value is being able to attract girls and I put that above all the money and intelligence which makes me frustrated.

You answered your own question. Also

Think about how romance is plastered everywhere. Movies,books,music,and social media are all full of it. Its shown to be so widely available, and people taught that everyone is expected to experience it at least once. But the problem is you CAN’T experience this one simple thing that some middle schoolers get every single day. The reason it makes you angry is because it’s 100% expected of you, while the majority of the population doesn’t care if you have money or a high iq

 

[needsolution]

@RegisterUserName might know hes 150 iq tall tbh

wish i had that high iq, right now i have like half of this

 

[Insomniac]

@RegisterUserName might know hes 150 iq tall tbh

He didn’t explain

@RegisterUserName fraud exposed

 

[Guest2]

He didn’t explain

@RegisterUserName fraud exposed

No sex=sad

 

[jackwolfskin999]

No sex=sad

 

[Deleted member 20056]

This is similar to the phenomenon that turns incels and uglies into trannies. For ugly trannycels, they see an attractive woman and they feel positive feelings towards her like any normal man would. Much like when you see someone you admire, you wish to possess whatever makes you admire them (looks, status, skill). Trannycels want to possess the power that attractive women have over them, so they try to embody them with the expectation that men will feel towards them as a woman how they felt towards women as a man. A trannycel considers unattractiveness failed femininity because for them femininity is synonymous with the power that attractive women have.

In your case you see an attractive woman and you have positive feelings towards her, but what is she a symbol for? You cannot help but affirm her despite how you view her intellectually. She occupies your thoughts, you look at her and see what's she's doing, etc. Can you possess this woman and is her power to your benefit? No, it's the opposite. You cannot possess an attractive woman (not just THIS attractive woman) because you are unattractive so she's a representation of unrequited affection while also being a symbol for your own unaffirmed desires. You also feel the appeal that you're lacking when you look at her. Your feelings tell you that she is valuable for being attractive, but equally there's an implication that you lack value for being unattractive, or you even have negative value. Your approval of her is one side of a coin, on the other is disapproval of yourself. Similarly, disapproval of her is in some way approval of yourself, so it's a good cope. In a word, you've been afflicted with 'ressentiment'.

As for why you feel this way about attractive women but not money or intelligence, neither money or attractiveness are necessary to affirm your most powerful drives. It's as simple as that. You don't really want money or intelligence badly.

 

[sepelion]

You want what you can't have. You want a woman, but there's a lot of broke Chads who have no problems fucking sluts at bars on the weekend, who hate their job and want financial freedom more than pussy.

Sexual deprivation is the financial equivalent of unemployment, homelessness, etc. You don't care as much about money because you have a roof over your head and food in your belly: you have the financial equivalent of "pussy now and then".

If society breaks down tomorrow and your house burns down, and you are a week without food and a shower, you won't be thinking about pussy. You'll be starving and smelling like shit and eating scraps of weeks old garbage in dumpsters, getting sick, feeling like death.

You have your survival covered, so your next operative goal is companionship.

Money is a tool for survival; after that's established, it's a tool for control to maximize access to vagina and/or to oppress groups. In a just economy it's a representation of legitimate labor, but since the Jews still exist, that's not the case.