Blackpill [Brutal] 31-year-old bluepilled Catholic male virgin wonders why he's still single despite being a good Catholic man

[Teutonic Knight]

This is brutal. He probably thought being a good Catholic man will get him a woman eventually. He is so bluepilled on this issue it's sad. These days, even Catholic women only want Chad (even if he's not religious). The Church offers no help to men other than the worst type of bluepill advice. He should simply embrace celibacy and go full monk mode. Unfortunately, you can see bluepilled replies that will just make it worse for him.



Hi all,

Hope I'm posting this in the right section. I found this forum and thought it would be a good place to post and ask for input on my situation.

I am 31 years old, and it seems no matter how hard I try, I just can not find a companion. I have nver been in any kind of serious relationship. I dated one girl for about a month back in 2000, and that is the only time I have ever been involved with someone.

All my life since I was a little boy, I dreamed of meeting someone and getting married, and having a family. I would have never guessed that I would still be waiting for this to happen at 31 years old.

Here is the thing, I am different from the rest of the majority of the people out there. I don't drink, I'm not into partying, doing drugs, sleeping around, or any of that kind of stuff. I never was. When I went off to college, all of my class mates tried getting me into that life style and it just was not me. I never had a drink of beer until my 21st birthday, and I take pride in that, and I never went out sleeping around just to "have fun."

I have stayed a virgin to this day for many reasons, and I took pride in that. I wanted to wait until I found that special someone who would appriciate it. I had the hopes that when I did meet someone, SHE would also be a virgin, and my first time would also be her first time. But the older I get, the more I lose hope because the chances of me finding someone else my age who is also a virgin are very slim.

It makes me sad, because I did what I felt was the right thing and waited. But what did I get for it? I thought I would eventually have kids some day and honestly be able to tell them that I never went out partying, doing drugs, and sleeping around. But in all honesty, if I'd have known that it would get to this point, I would have gone out and had fun and been just like the rest of them. I feel that I have been a good person all my life and it has gotten me nowhere.

And it makes me mad, because if I were to meet that special someone, I would do anything and everything to make sure she was very well taken care of. I would make her feel loved and appriciated. I would never cheat or treat her like garbage like I see so many others out there doing to their partners.

Why is it THOSE kind of people have all ended up in relationships, while I am still waiting?

All of my cousins who are younger than me are all married and starting their families. Everyone I knew growing up, that I went to school with or played with on my street are all married. Even kids I knew that were 5 and 6 years old when I was 13 and 14, I am reading about in the paper that they are getting married.

Am I destined to be single forever? And if so, why did God choose ME to be a person who was never meant to have a partner, instead of someone who was ok with it?

My brother in law has a friend who is in his 40's who has never been married or in a serious relationship, and he is ok with it. I myself, am not ok with it, and to be honest, I don't even want to live to be that age if I don't have a companion.

It is very hard to see all of my friends and family all getting married and starting their families while I have basically just been put up on a shelf and forgotten about. It is especially hard considering my family never exactly was very accepting of me from the time I was very young, and all my life I've had trouble making true friends. It really just makes me feel downright worthless and I wonder why God put me here at all.

I have honestly thought about suicide, but the only reason I don't do it is because I know it will send me straight to hell if I do it. But the older I get and the more trouble I have finding a companion and realizing that it just might never happen just really makes it hard to go on. it's very depressing, and also very saddening considering I have a lot of good qualities and a lot of love to give, but no one wants to see me for that.

Everyone tells me I need to get out more and it will increase my chance of meeting someone. (I am a home body most of the time besides going to work, ETC.) But I personally don't believe that it will help. And the reason I don't think it will, is because most people meet their partner just living their normal course of life. For example, they just so happened to be at this party where this person they met happened to be, or it was a friend's friend, stuff like that.

Why can't I meet someone just living my normal life? Like, say, a cashier at a store, a customer at work, ETC? I worked at a casino a few years back where 5,000 other people worked.....why didn't I meet someone there? On the weekends (for fun) I am a mobile DJ who plays at weddings, campgrounds, and all kinds of other public events - why by now haven't I met someone at one of these parties? A friend of mine is actually a seasonal camper at one of the campgrounds I regularly DJ at and I have stayed there many weekends, and I do go out with guys on occasion, but whenever we go out, I meet no one.

I know for a fact that I'm not the only person out there that's in my situation. Buy why can't I meet somoene like that? Someone who is honest, open, down to earth and genuinely a nice person who also wants to get married?

I will just never understand it. Everyone tellme me not to give up, it will happen some day, etc....but I don't understand why "it" didn't happen years ago like it does for everyone else?

On the positive side.......many people I know have been divorced after being married after only a few years, and I don't want that. My parents have been married for more than 40 years, and that's what I want to happen to me.

I just don't understand what is wrong.

Any input is appriciated. Sorry for such a long post.

Why am I still single at 31?

Hi all, Hope I’m posting this in the right section. I found this forum and thought it would be a good place to post and ask for input on my situation. I am 31 years old, and it seems no matter how hard I try, I just can not find a companion. I have nver been in any kind of serious...

forums.catholic.com

 

[ItsAllOverButTheCry]

If only God had blessed him with good looks instead.

 

[theundeadburg]

If only God had blessed him with good looks instead.

jfl

 

[Total Imbecile]

LOL @ taking pride in being a virgin, rapists are more respected than us.

All that matters is how good looking you are, nothing else, also were already in hell, cant get any worse

 

[acnescarcel]

lol “on a positive note many people i know who got married have gotten divorced”

 

[Mewcel]

If you just attend Mass like a good boy you will get a gf eventually

 

[WawelDragon1683]

rapists are more respected than us.

If they're attractive than sure. Ugly male < rapist in womens eyes

 

[TheSecondComing]

I have stayed a virgin to this day for many reasons, and I took pride in that. I wanted to wait until I found that special someone who would appriciate it. I had the hopes that when I did meet someone, SHE would also be a virgin, and my first time would also be her first time. But the older I get, the more I lose hope because the chances of me finding someone else my age who is also a virgin are very slim.

It makes me sad, because I did what I felt was the right thing and waited. But what did I get for it? I thought I would eventually have kids some day and honestly be able to tell them that I never went out partying, doing drugs, and sleeping around. But in all honesty, if I'd have known that it would get to this point, I would have gone out and had fun and been just like the rest of them. I feel that I have been a good person all my life and it has gotten me nowhere.

And it makes me mad, because if I were to meet that special someone, I would do anything and everything to make sure she was very well taken care of. I would make her feel loved and appriciated. I would never cheat or treat her like garbage like I see so many others out there doing to their partners.

Why is it THOSE kind of people have all ended up in relationships, while I am still waiting?

All of my cousins who are younger than me are all married and starting their families. Everyone I knew growing up, that I went to school with or played with on my street are all married. Even kids I knew that were 5 and 6 years old when I was 13 and 14, I am reading about in the paper that they are getting married.

Am I destined to be single forever? And if so, why did God choose ME to be a person who was never meant to have a partner, instead of someone who was ok with it?

just lol at this entire part, hope he's not looking for his age matched because the ONE women that exists in the world that is a virgin at 31 is because chad never came along and broke her weak will, because she was ugly, majorly over for this guy.
best he can hope for is to get extremely luck and get a younger virgin, if he does not just rot until he dies alone or ropes, then i see him getting cucked by im a blowjob giving, anal sex having virgin teehee

 

[Teutonic Knight]

This part is also brutal. This is so true, these things happen spontanouesly. Either you're good looking and you click with women or you don't. It's funny how some people think this is rocket science. It's not. If it didn't happen to you spontaneously, you're ugly and will remain single or become the most pathetic betabuxxer.

Everyone tells me I need to get out more and it will increase my chance of meeting someone. (I am a home body most of the time besides going to work, ETC.) But I personally don't believe that it will help. And the reason I don't think it will, is because most people meet their partner just living their normal course of life. For example, they just so happened to be at this party where this person they met happened to be, or it was a friend's friend, stuff like that.

Why can't I meet someone just living my normal life? Like, say, a cashier at a store, a customer at work, ETC? I worked at a casino a few years back where 5,000 other people worked.....why didn't I meet someone there? On the weekends (for fun) I am a mobile DJ who plays at weddings, campgrounds, and all kinds of other public events - why by now haven't I met someone at one of these parties? A friend of mine is actually a seasonal camper at one of the campgrounds I regularly DJ at and I have stayed there many weekends, and I do go out with guys on occasion, but whenever we go out, I meet no one.

I know for a fact that I'm not the only person out there that's in my situation. Buy why can't I meet somoene like that? Someone who is honest, open, down to earth and genuinely a nice person who also wants to get married?

 

[Shigechi]

I go sometimes to a presbyterian church. Things are not much different there, a bunch of subhumans playing the clown for women who basically ignore them. The result? Women go find dick in other places, that dick usually belonging to some Chad. Religion in a matriarchy doesn't work, it's just for appearances to women, to find a rich betabuxx when old or play the nice religious girl in front of her parents.

 

[ItsAllOverButTheCry]

This part is also brutal. This is so true, these things happen spontanouesly. Either you're good looking and you click with women or you don't. It's funny how some people think this is rocket science. It's not. If it didn't happen to you spontaneously, you're ugly and will remain single or become the most pathetic betabuxxer.

True, in over 20+ years of my life not a single girl has chosen me. Sad.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

Look at this bluepilled naive guy... A lot of Catholic men are like this...

Almost 40 and still single. Is there any hope? Someone PLEASE help

Doing things like holding hands and walking along a beach. Cuddling while watching a fireworks show, rather than just riding along with someone else’s family and being a third wheel, or listening to the fireworks going off at my house, because I didn’t bother to go because I didn’t want to go by...

forums.catholic.com

One of the replies:

Back when I was going to tech school, all my friends and room mates ever wanted to do was go out and party and hook up with grils. I had no interest in that. COUNTLESS times, I had opportunties to go out with them. Many times I heard the whole “Hey man…if you ever want to get laid or go out and party with us, You’re welcome to come on out, we’ll hook you up!” I turned them down every time they offered this, and they always made fun of me for it. But my mentality back then, was “I don’t WANT to “Get laid”, I want to SAVE myself for that special person that will one day be the love of my life, and be able to give her a special gift of her being my first”. At the time, I was very young, and had hopes of me also being HER first and having that “Special thing” together. (I mean seriously, anyone reading this who is a girl, wouldn’t you appreciate it if your mate came along, and he told you he’d been saving himself all that time because he knew one day that his special someone would come along, and that special someone was YOU?)
Had I known I would be where Im at now, I would have let them hook me up, and go out and partied with them.


This is because the Church doesn't want to blackpill men on the state of modern women (including Catholic women) and bluepill them about virgin Catholic women who want virgin men.

 

[wizardcel]

I clicked on the link and this is the first I read lmfao:

"“Everyone” is right. It really doesn’t sound like you are trying very hard, because it seems that you’re saying you just want to meet the woman of your dreams without stepping one foot outside of your comfort zone. "

What do normies expect the man to do? he has already done enough. He doesn't have many options anymore. Women around his age bracket have already had multiple relationships. Some of them have even lived with a man. Meanwhile, he hasn't even had sex. 20-something girls who were raised with social media will not go for him either.

You can't create attraction, it's either there or it isn't. It's not a matter of going out more or getting hobbies. It's all due to how good-looking you are.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

I clicked on the link and this is the first I read lmfao:

"“Everyone” is right. It really doesn’t sound like you are trying very hard, because it seems that you’re saying you just want to meet the woman of your dreams without stepping one foot outside of your comfort zone. "

What do normies expect the man to do? he has already done enough. He doesn't have many options anymore. Women around his age bracket have already had multiple relationships. Some of them have even lived with a man. Meanwhile, he hasn't even had sex. 20-something girls who were raised with social media will not go for him either.

You can't create attraction, it's either there or it isn't. It's not a matter of going out more or getting hobbies. It's all due to how good-looking you are.

Unless you're working on improving yourself 20 hours a day, you're not trying hard enough as a man.

Meanwhile Chad can sleep 16 hours a day and be on welfare and still fuck PRIME women.

 

[_wifebeater_]

JFL@ 'god'

 

[Currycel abomation]

In a sane world he would have a wife right now so his faith is not the problem
Unfortunately we live in clown world

 

[Cuyen]

If only God had blessed him with good looks instead.

 

[wizardcel]

Look at this bluepilled naive guy... A lot of Catholic men are like this...

Almost 40 and still single. Is there any hope? Someone PLEASE help

Doing things like holding hands and walking along a beach. Cuddling while watching a fireworks show, rather than just riding along with someone else’s family and being a third wheel, or listening to the fireworks going off at my house, because I didn’t bother to go because I didn’t want to go by...

forums.catholic.com

One of the replies:

Back when I was going to tech school, all my friends and room mates ever wanted to do was go out and party and hook up with grils. I had no interest in that. COUNTLESS times, I had opportunties to go out with them. Many times I heard the whole “Hey man…if you ever want to get laid or go out and party with us, You’re welcome to come on out, we’ll hook you up!” I turned them down every time they offered this, and they always made fun of me for it. But my mentality back then, was “I don’t WANT to “Get laid”, I want to SAVE myself for that special person that will one day be the love of my life, and be able to give her a special gift of her being my first”. At the time, I was very young, and had hopes of me also being HER first and having that “Special thing” together. (I mean seriously, anyone reading this who is a girl, wouldn’t you appreciate it if your mate came along, and he told you he’d been saving himself all that time because he knew one day that his special someone would come along, and that special someone was YOU?)
Had I known I would be where Im at now, I would have let them hook me up, and go out and partied with them.


This is because the Church doesn't want to blackpill men on the state of modern women (including Catholic women) and bluepill them about virgin Catholic women who want virgin men.

HAHAHA. He thinks women like male virginity. Women are repulsed by male virgins. They get turned off by it. They want a guy with a lot of sexual experience because it's proof that the guy is desired by other women. That religious idiot never stood a chance in the real world.

 

[Currycel abomation]

Unless you're working on improving yourself 20 hours a day, you're not trying hard enough as a man.

Meanwhile Chad can sleep 16 hours a day and be on welfare and still fuck PRIME women.

Yes some is true for attractive women she can snort drugs sleep all day and still get sex form male model looking guys
Sexual attraction has nothing to do with how u behave or how ur lifestyle is its all about looks

 

[Ignas]

Why can't I meet someone just living my normal life?

Poor catholicel that part really breaks my heart. He basically cries why he can't have normal life like other guys. Why he can't get that love and excitement that just happen spontaneously and naturally.

This is because the Church doesn't want to blackpill men on the state of modern women (including Catholic women) and bluepill them about virgin Catholic women who want virgin men.

The church just did a sin there; deluding, lying, in other words bearing false witness, which violates the eight commandment

 

[Teutonic Knight]

HAHAHA. He thinks women like male virginity. Women are repulsed by male virgins. They get turned off by it. They want a guy with a lot of sexual experience because it's proof that the guy is desired by other women. That religious idiot never stood a chance in the real world.

Catholic men think Catholic women like virgin men. In reality, they don't unless they are really good looking and desirable. A well socialized Catholic Chadlite could pull off being a 23-ish male virgin and still get some Catholic woman, but normie and incel looking dudes are damned. Those Catholic women would rather find a non-religious virgin and try to "convert" him then complain how her partner is not a good Catholic while they ignore virgin practicing Catholics.

 

[mentalcel]

There is no god. Pure chaos and jungle rules on this world. This whole system is an illusion to supress the 90% incel men population. The whole world is their harem and they don't want other men to know it. They afraid as fuck that incel rebellion on mass scale begins. They are afraid we will collapse their shiny religous buildings and steal their wives.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

The church just did a sin there; deluding, lying, in other words bearing false witness, which violates the eight commandment

The priests are handing out bluepills these days like it's eucharist.

They don't want the adress the nature of modern women. They don't do anything to help men.

 

[kvn]

JFL@ 'god'

our lives are proof that god doesnt exist, or if he does hes a sadistic fuck

 

[Teutonic Knight]

@mylifeistrash This is what sub8 men are asking themselves these days:

"Why can't I meet someone just living my normal life?"

 

[Shigechi]

our lives are proof that god doesnt exist, or if he does hes a sadistic fuck

 

[ThouShallObeyKing]

jfl hes gonna have his first time with 200kg landwh0re

 

[Deleted member 14382]

If only God had blessed him with good looks instead.

 

[GoonCel]

If only God had blessed him with good looks instead.

 

[Deleted member 19971]

God doesn’t exist, if he does exist he put us here to suffer. God, next to females and chads is an incel’s worst enemy

 

[kingturtle]

If only God had blessed him with good looks instead.

lol. This guy is bluepilled max. Everyone knows God is massive cope. He should convert to Islam and fuck some muslim

 

[thebuddhacel]

Too brutal, I feel for him. I have a catholic cousin who is 21 and have the same thinking as this guy. But I will never discourage him.

 

[Ignas]

The priests are handing out bluepills these days like it's eucharist.

They don't want the adress the nature of modern women. They don't do anything to help men.

Yeah lol. I'm disappointed in that too. Not giving real help, but only bluepills

 

[Lewis Carroll]

all of my class mates tried getting me into that life style

WHERE THE FUCK ARE THESE GUYS IN MY CLASSES???

 

[Deleted member 14382]

You can't create attraction, it's either there or it isn't. It's not a matter of going out more or getting hobbies. It's all due to how good-looking you are.

That right there summarizes the Black Pill. For any naysayers out there, ignore these words at your own risk.

 

[Akhnai]

They don't do anything to help men

Your priests are (voluntary) celibate;how are they supposed to know about female nature when they never know a woman?
I mean,we here have tried to approach several women in the past,so we know about how they react and their mentalities;priests do not

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

If only God had blessed him with good looks instead.

Im starting to believe that this Life is just a Test for us .
Will we give up or be strong despite all those stones on our path ?
This Life feels like Limbo , like our soul is being judged by how we handle adversity .

And by this logic , the ones with the most problems are actually the most blessed ,
cause they can show their worth to God when they die and be rewarded for it .

I know , its giga cope , but its actually the best cope i found til now , even better than bluepill honestly .

 

[Akhnai]

hes a sadist

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

God doesn’t exist, if he does exist he put us here to suffer. God, next to females and chads is an incel’s worst enemy

This is the question .
SHould we abandon God , or should we believe in him even stronger ?

Are we Gods unwanted children or are we actually the chosen Ones meant to suffer and show their worth ?
SHould we let this world burn or try to be a good person ,.

maybe he was right all along , and giving up hope is freedom .
I guess we have to try every cope there is .

 

[oldcel75]

Volcel if you ask me.
Incels are not invited to parties.

 

[Zod]

Im starting to believe that this Life is just a Test for us .
Will we give up or be strong despite all those stones on our path ?
This Life feels like Limbo , like our soul is being judged by how we handle adversity .

And by this logic , the ones with the most problems are actually the most blessed ,
cause they can show their worth to God when they die and be rewarded for it .

I know , its giga cope , but its actually the best cope i found til now , even better than bluepill honestly .

God wants you to go ER, the reward for doing so is 72 virgins waiting for you in heaven

 

[ItsAllOverButTheCry]

Im starting to believe that this Life is just a Test for us .
Will we give up or be strong despite all those stones on our path ?
This Life feels like Limbo , like our soul is being judged by how we handle adversity .

And by this logic , the ones with the most problems are actually the most blessed ,
cause they can show their worth to God when they die and be rewarded for it .

I know , its giga cope , but its actually the best cope i found til now , even better than bluepill honestly .

By that logic

-if Chad can't get to heaven its not fair to him because he didn't experience enough hardship to be able to show his worth.
-if Chad gets to heaven its not fair to the incel who had to endure more hardship
-if Incel can't get to heaven its not fair because he had to ensure more hardship

Basically, giga cope.

 

[Akhnai]

God wants you to go ER, the reward for doing so is 72 virgins waiting for you in heaven

 

[needsolution]

JFL@ 'god'

 

[Deleted member 10124]

LARP or massive JFL.

 

[kingturtle]

Look what this foid advises:

2) Don't get too hung up about marrying a virgin. It's not the end of the world if your wife to be is someone who has made mistakes in the past, as long as they have learned from them. I'm sure you haven't always been perfect yourself (because none of us are, all of us sin), you wouldn't want her to rule you out just because of some private fault of your past. I'd hate to think I had blown my chance because of the mistakes in my past.

3) Have you ever thought about becoming a priest? I know you say you imagine marriage, but think about what you really want, is it a life of prayer and devotion with the companionship of others who are similarly devoted to the Lord? Is it a life that has purpose and bears fruit in love? It may be that you could find those things in a religious order. It may not be. You know your own heart in these matters.

So that is what the foid says to do. Marry a Stacy whore--after all, this foid would hate to think that she blew her chances because she was a past whore.

And if marrying a whore dosen't work for you, become a priest. That is right: Become a priest you incel virgin shit.

See here: This foid only cares about herself.

 

[Shigechi]

Look what this foid advises:



So that is what the foid says to do. Marry a Stacy whore--after all, this foid would hate to think that she blew her chances because she was a past whore.

And if marrying a whore dosen't work for you, become a priest. That is right: Become a priest you incel virgin shit.

See here: This foid only cares about herself.

JFL. Catholics worship women more than Jesus, see the whole Mary cult. Religious in general are pussy starved and worship women more than Jesus.

 

[kingturtle]

LARP or massive JFL.

I am from a Catholic family. Sadly, it is JFL. Catholics are delusional to the extreme.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

I am from a Catholic family. Sadly, it is JFL. Catholics are delusional to the extreme.

That's because the Church is feeding them bluepills even more often than the eucharist.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Look what this foid advises:



So that is what the foid says to do. Marry a Stacy whore--after all, this foid would hate to think that she blew her chances because she was a past whore.

And if marrying a whore dosen't work for you, become a priest. That is right: Become a priest you incel virgin shit.

See here: This foid only cares about herself.

Massiv(er) fuel...

I am from a Catholic family. Sadly, it is JFL. Catholics are delusional to the extreme.

Omg. That's all I can say.