Story Bluepilled father: a different reality.

[IncelCatechumen]

I don´t usually directly vent in front of my dad. I find it deeply disrespectful and it only adds insult to injury: I don´t want to invite my dad to think that he did something wrong, to delegitimize his parenthood even if he sometimes, effectively, thinks this way. Nothing is more hurtful for a caring parent to think that he failed his son.

Hence why when I "vent" in front of him I usually do it through small passive-aggressive remarks veiled with "facts-based" comments. This type of language is ultimately ironical and hard-to-take seriously, which is why sane people ignored it.

Yesterday I went to an event with him, and while riding back home I made a comment in reference to dating while being a NEET, it went along these lines: "It´s simply not possible for me to find a gf while being a 22 years old NEET, there are effective material issues related to the question of love, any counter-statement suffers from romantic idealism; love is filtered through class and bio-physical dynamics that are simply out of our control. This is why people usually marry across class-lines, only vulgar nouveau riche would argue against it."

His response left me astonished: "love is not like that." There is simply an irremediable conceptual distance between us: we simply live in different realities, how can he think this way? An absurdity.

 

[Govid_Dorious]

 

[FastBlast]

It is useless trying to explain your situation to your parents. They will never understand you because they have never been in your shoes. They only people who can honestly relate to you are fellow incels. I had to learn this the hard way.

For anyone reading this who is thinking about venting to someone about their inceldom: DON'T DO IT

 

[IncelCatechumen]

It is useless trying to explain your situation to your parents. They will never understand you because they have never been in your shoes. They only people who can honestly relate to you are fellow incels. I had to learn this the hard way.

For anyone reading this who is thinking about venting to someone about their inceldom: DON'T DO IT

I agree. I think he´s fairly biased: he was, to a certain extent, in a hypergamous relation with my mom, not anymore tho: their jobs are intertwined, but when he meet her she was certainly at a higher class status than my dad (who was a pseudo-hippie at that time). In this sense, I am a product of a maladaptive marriage (lower-class male with higher-class women), which might explain my perverse constitution.

 

[eldercelder]

"It´s simply not possible for me to find a gf while being a 22 years old NEET, there are effective material issues related to the question of love, any counter-statement suffers from romantic idealism; love is filtered through class and bio-physical dynamics that are simply out of our control. This is why people usually marry across class-lines, only vulgar nouveau riche would argue against it."

Sounds like a very pretentious way of saying, "Dad, I'm a loser without a job, And I'm not good-looking enough that my looks alone will carry me. What woman in her right mind is gonna want me?"

 

[IncelCatechumen]

Sounds like a very pretentious way of saying, "Dad, I'm a loser without a job, And I'm not good-looking enough that my looks alone will carry me. What woman in her right mind is gonna want me?"

Well exactly. I am confident about one thing, that is, that i am a loser

 

[Intellectual]

I don´t usually directly vent in front of my dad. I find it deeply disrespectful and it only adds insult to injury: I don´t want to invite my dad to think that he did something wrong, to delegitimize his parenthood even if he sometimes, effectively, thinks this way. Nothing is more hurtful for a caring parent to think that he failed his son.

Hence why when I "vent" in front of him I usually do it through small passive-aggressive remarks veiled with "facts-based" comments. This type of language is ultimately ironical and hard-to-take seriously, which is why sane people ignored it.

Yesterday I went to an event with him, and while riding back home I made a comment in reference to dating while being a NEET, it went along these lines: "It´s simply not possible for me to find a gf while being a 22 years old NEET, there are effective material issues related to the question of love, any counter-statement suffers from romantic idealism; love is filtered through class and bio-physical dynamics that are simply out of our control. This is why people usually marry across class-lines, only vulgar nouveau riche would argue against it."

His response left me astonished: "love is not like that." There is simply an irremediable conceptual distance between us: we simply live in different realities, how can he think this way? An absurdity.

You're not correct about class.

If you were Chad girls wouldn't care if you had no money.

 

[IncelCatechumen]

You're not correct about class.

If you were Chad girls wouldn't care if you had no money.

Brute chads almost have no contact with high-class women. Yes, it is still possible that they might have an escapade or two, but chadness is subservient to class: there are high class chads, middle class chads, and poor chads (gangsters). Simultaneously, there might also chads among the class of dancers, of humanities doctorates, and so on.

A high-class women would always choose a high-class chad over a poor chad, there even might be morally repulse by the latest (although, as we know, being angry and horny are the same thing in women´s parlance). Reductive corporeism is simply a sign of stupidity and lack of judgment. Would you rather be a poorcel or a richcel? Answer this question while having the potentialities of the richcel to "ascend" in mind (seamaxxing, access to high quality gyms and plastic surgery, while simultaneously participating from the sensual mystique of having money)

 

[IncelCatechumen]

Talking with parents is useless not because you are dmarter than them but because our times are 180 degrees different than theirs

I agree. My intention was not to appear as an intellectual patronizer, I just wanted to highlight that temporal distance.

 

[Intellectual]

Brute chads almost have no contact with high-class women. Yes, it is still possible that they might have an escapade or two, but chadness is subservient to class: there are high class chads, middle class chads, and poor chads (gangsters). Simultaneously, there might also chads among the class of dancers, of humanities doctorates, and so on.

A high-class women would always choose a high-class chad over a poor chad, there even might be morally repulse by the latest (although, as we know, being angry and horny are the same thing in women´s parlance). Reductive corporeism is simply a sign of stupidity and lack of judgment. Would you rather be a poorcel or a richcel? Answer this question while having the potentialities of the richcel to "ascend" in mind (seamaxxing, access to high quality gyms and plastic surgery, while simultaneously participating from the sensual mystique of having money)

What do you mean high-class woman?

Why would you want a rich foid? Ironically they are very trashy

 

[IncelCatechumen]

What do you mean high-class woman?

Why would you want a rich foid? Ironically they are very trashy

When did I said that I wanted a "rich foid"? And no, I don´t think they´re "trashy": they tend to have different sensibilities.

I am a declased individual: i don´t have an organic connection with anything at all.

 

[Intellectual]

When did I said that I wanted a "rich foid"? And no, I don´t think they´re "trashy": they tend to have different sensibilities.

I am a declased individual: i don´t have an organic connection with anything at all.

You said you wanted a high class woman, and then defined class by wealth.

 

[IncelCatechumen]

You said you wanted a high class woman, and then defined class by wealth.

Oh yes, I get it. Yeah, I think there is a discontinuity between class and wealth in certain cases. Now, I never said I wanted a "high class women"