[blackpill] relationships come naturally for everyone else

[Minjaze]

There seems to be this idea in our society that relationships are the result of rigorous self-improvement, but the thing is - flawed people get into relationships all the time. Depressed/mentally ill people, awkward people, misogynistic people, etc. 

This isn't some romantic comedy where the girl changes her mind and finally accepts the guy after he gets a makeover, (Seriously, it's not like getting a haircut will suddenly make you look completely different) this is real life. Do you think that 12 year old had to put in when he got his first girlfriend? He simply asked her out and she said yes.

That's why whenever you ask normies about how they met their SO, they say "it just happened" because when it comes down to it, relationships are the result of two people finding each-other attractive. We never had that though, no girl ever looked at us and thought "he's kinda cute" due to our ugliness. As such, we never had the opportunity to naturally enter a relationship as normal people do. 

Those who want to discredit us claim that personality is what truly matters, but the thing is - everyone starts off as a complete stranger. In order for romance to blossom, she needs to be willing to give you a chance in the first place instead of outright dismissing you upon sight.

 

[Kointo1]

Normies actually have to put in effort to get relationships though. They need to be in a significant amount of social circles and have some connections.

 

[Minjaze]

Normies actually have to put in effort to get relationships though. They need to be in a significant amount of social circles and have some connections.

Tell that to all the attractive aspies who still get female attention.

 

[Kointo1]

Normies actually have to put in effort to get relationships though. They need to be in a significant amount of social circles and have some connections.

Tell that to all the attractive aspies who still get female attention.

I said normies, not attractive people

 

[NYincel]

Tell that to all the attractive aspies who still get female attention.

So, if they can't act on it? What if someone walks up to you and tells you in some African language they want to give you a million dollars.

 

[Kointo1]

Tell that to all the attractive aspies who still get female attention.

So, if they can't act on it? What if someone walks up to you and tells you in some African language they want to give you a million dollars.

How is that at all comparable to being a mentalcel? Mentalcels don't speak an entire different language.

 

[NYincel]

How is that at all comparable to being a mentalcel? Mentalcels don't speak an entire different language.

It is if a woman shows interest and you have no clue or don't know what to say.

 

[WorldRulerAisha]

It is if a woman shows interest and you have no clue or don't know what to say.

if shes attracted you wont have to put in much effort. You must be legit autistic.

 

[Crustaciouse]

Normies actually have to put in effort to get relationships though. They need to be in a significant amount of social circles and have some connections.

Tell that to all the attractive aspies who still get female attention.

I knew a 7/10 Latino and he had to try for months just to get one girl. He spent almost a year on her.

 

[BlackPill47]

Brutal Black Pill.

 

[Cynistic]

It is if a woman shows interest and you have no clue or don't know what to say.

if shes attracted you wont have to put in much effort. You must be legit autistic.

 

[Deleted member 3129]

yep, this also applies to things outside of relationships too

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Wrong. People actively pursue relationships. It doesn't fall into their laps as they do nothing. It's usually the guy who puts in all the hard work, but if you're a top-tier looking guy, the girls will do the work for you. You just have to be not extremely mentally ill.

 

[satoshisacuck]

Wrong. People actively pursue relationships. It doesn't fall into their laps as they do nothing. It's usually the guy who puts in all the hard work, but if you're a top-tier looking guy, the girls will do the work for you. You just have to be not extremely mentally ill.

This is mostly true, this is why normies should x-Max if they want a girl.

But the Blackpill is that Chad and other high tier normies or Chadlites can easily have a girl reciprocate while you have to do all the work.

 

[NYincel]

if shes attracted you wont have to put in much effort. You must be legit autistic.

I'm not trying to stir the pot, but this happened many years ago.
What if a girl asked you to tutor her. I told her I'm very busy, she said I really explain it well, and she improved her grades.
You came to her house, you sat alone.
She put her hand on yours for a whole hour while you gave her the lesson. She always smiled and made big eyes.
The girl is also religious, that is a pretty big stretch.
Chick also kept saying all her friends are pairing off (people in those circles got married younger).

I had no fucking clue what to do next. When I was done with the lesson, she paid me and I saw sadness in her eyes.

Chances of this chick making more of a move is the same as me getting a call to be a CEO of Google. 

I could have at least said lets get coffee or something, but I never talked to her again. She asked me once more to tutor her, same shit happened.

 

[IronMike]

LOL all my Chad former roomate did to get his current LTR was DM a girl on instagram "Whatsup?"

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

LOL all my Chad former roomate did to get his current LTR was DM a girl on instagram "Whatsup?"

Fuck living as a non chad

 

[Tuttle]

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I like your anigif sig.

 

[Newbie17]

LOL all my Chad former roomate did to get his current LTR was DM a girl on instagram "Whatsup?"

Haha, it is so easy to be Chad. I want to be Chad for a day. Well, who doesn`t, right?...

 

[Kointo1]

I like your anigif sig.

 

[GeneticFilth]

Girl did all the work even said the guy was neurotic and self conscious.
https://www.bing.com/search?pc=cosp&ptag=AD6C08C471A&form=CONBDF&conlogo=CT3210127&q=did%20I%20date%20an%20incel
can't link there directly, just click the first link

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