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Serious Biggest MGTOW/manosphere myth ever: "male friendships are superior than female friendships"

Teutonic Knight

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JFL at this coping.

Men suck at being friends with other men. This is why most male loners out there are not just lonely because they don't have girlfriends/wives but also because they have hardly any or zero male friends.

Women form better friendships with each other. They often compliment each other and give each other validation, they talk about intimate things and trust each other more. MGTOW coper types mock this and say that they backstab a lot, but ultimately they still have friends and they seem to get along well. Also male "friends" will backstab you just the same too.

The only types of "friendships" men have with each other this days are centered around specific activities or when one is some sort of mentor and there is a clear dominant friend. Usually after you switch your environment and do some new hobby, you will lose your former friends as well after some time.

If you're an unattractive and low status man with not much to offer, other men will not give a shit about you. But it's not entirely the same dynamic with women, I remember there were popular Stacies who had "loser" female friends and helped them out. It doesn't really happen with men. Men bully low status men unless they can use them for something.

Even if you have some male friends, those male friends will value women over you as soon as they get a girlfriend or a wife. JFL if you think your "best friend" male wouldn't trade your friendship for a relationship with some Stacy. On the other hand women will easily dump you if her female friends don't like you and find a new male.

There were statistics that clearly showed that heterosexual males have by far the least friends.
 
Seems to be the case. I have no friends whatsoever. My sister has like 20. And they are extremely close. Talk to each other daily. My brother had like 2 firends but he dropped them the second he got a girlfirend.
 
Evolutionarily, friendship between the alpha male of the tribe and the betas or the omega male cannot form. It makes no sense. Friendship between women sounds more logical since they are happier sharing a man, in contrast with men who want to impregnate as many wombs as they can and leave none to the other males.
 
JFL at this coping.

Men suck at being friends with other men. This is why most male loners out there are not just lonely because they don't have girlfriends/wives but also because they have hardly any or zero male friends.

Women form better friendships with each other. They often compliment each other and give each other validation, they talk about intimate things and trust each other more. MGTOW coper types mock this and say that they backstab a lot, but ultimately they still have friends and they seem to get along well. Also male "friends" will backstab you just the same too.

The only types of "friendships" men have with each other this days are centered around specific activities or when one is some sort of mentor and there is a clear dominant friend. Usually after you switch your environment and do some new hobby, you will lose your former friends as well after some time.

If you're an unattractive and low status man with not much to offer, other men will not give a shit about you. But it's not entirely the same dynamic with women, I remember there were popular Stacies who had "loser" female friends and helped them out. It doesn't really happen with men. Men bully low status men unless they can use them for something.

Even if you have some male friends, those male friends will value women over you as soon as they get a girlfriend or a wife. JFL if you think your "best friend" male wouldn't trade your friendship for a relationship with some Stacy. On the other hand women will easily dump you if her female friends don't like you and find a new male.

There were statistics that clearly showed that heterosexual males have by far the least friends.

all my male friends cockblocked or shamed or ruined my reputation or bullied me at some point. thats why i ceased interaction
 
"Male relationships are superior than female relationships"

It's just very false, also that sounds very gay as fuck, sometimes I think MGTOW are closeted gays to be honest
 
Women can't be friends. They don't even understand what friendship is.
 
Epic cope, bro. Women don't have friendships, they are selfish and narcissistic by nature, and don't care about others unless it benefits them one way or the other.

I had a friend who got up at 2am and drove 200km to pick me up cos I drove my car into a fucking boar. Another one literally saved my life.
I bailed a friend out of jail and physically fought countless times for friends who were attacked by gangs of feral ethnics.

In my 37 years, I've never seen a foid do anything similar. The best they can do is give a hug or make a cute comment on Instagram.

I'm sorry for you if you don't have friends but men do indeed form strong friendships and "bros before hoes" isn't simply a cute rhyme.
Yes, there are men who backstab of course, they usually end up as lonely fuckers unless they are rich and can buy attention, just like foids.
 
Men suck at being friends with other men.

This is absolutely true. I could actually make a thread about this one.

Even if you have some male friends, those male friends will value women over you as soon as they get a girlfriend or a wife.

To be honest, it is not only about that. Male friends are just shitting on each other for no reason at all. It is about being dominated by other men within the own group or they make fun of you directly and/or behind your back while talking trash to you and dodging a real conversation.
 
True that's a huge cope tbh.
 
As if femoids understood friendship jfl, female friendships are double-faced and filled with petty lies
 
No, I agree with them fully. Females NEVER have best friends, or well they say they are, then 2 years later they dont even talk with eachother.

Male friendships are 100% better, more loyal and way way WAY stronger. We are evolutionary programmed for it, femoids are not.

Stop being such a fucking SJW cuck.
 
Male friendships are 100% better, more loyal and way way WAY stronger. We are evolutionary programmed for it, femoids are not.

Stop being such a fucking SJW cuck.
Truth. Foids cannot have friendships, their relations with other foids consist of being depraved and fucking chad, like hyenas hunting in a pack.
 
Epic cope, bro. Women don't have friendships, they are selfish and narcissistic by nature, and don't care about others unless it benefits them one way or the other.

I had a friend who got up at 2am and drove 200km to pick me up cos I drove my car into a fucking boar. Another one literally saved my life.
I bailed a friend out of jail and physically fought countless times for friends who were attacked by gangs of feral ethnics.

In my 37 years, I've never seen a foid do anything similar. The best they can do is give a hug or make a cute comment on Instagram.

I'm sorry for you if you don't have friends but men do indeed form strong friendships and "bros before hoes" isn't simply a cute rhyme.
Yes, there are men who backstab of course, they usually end up as lonely fuckers unless they are rich and can buy attention, just like foids.

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Made me lulz, good job

It was posted both in jest and in all seriousness.

You absolutely understand friendship, and have restored some of my faith in humanity.
 
JFL at incels here denying reality and coping that male friendships are better when they have literally zero male friends who give a shit about them. Meanwhile a low tier becky gets invited by her Stacy friend on a party for high status people. "b-b-but women are backstabing though, men have such good friendships" It's nothing but cope, boyos. If your male friends really cared about you, you would not be posting here.
 
As if femoids understood friendship jfl, female friendships are double-faced and filled with petty lies
Absolutely. As a non NT guys i obsviously i don't have many friends among guys but the only friends i have happen to be guys
 
Absolutely. As a non NT guys i obsviously i don't have many friends among guys but the only friends i have happen to be guys

No one is talking about men being friends with women. Women are good friends to other women.
 
No one is talking about men being friends with women. Women are good friends to other women.
What i was saying is the ones who are more accepting toward me or who happens to befriend me are other guys who tend to be non NT or non conformists
 
Friendship is just another fucking meme just like love.
 
I mean you have better odds of having a deep, satisfying friendship with a dude than you would with a chick. But it seems like people in general are just extremely self-centered nowadays so of course lots of men would make shitty friends
 
Most women have some degree of bisexuality. They are always caressing and touching each other.

Men are not like this, for both cultural and biological reasons. If you're an ugly man, absolutely no one wants to touch and caress you.
 
I disagree. That's a result of non chad men not being socialized properly due to feminism. I'm pretty sure that in scenarios like the military or the mafia men form strong bonds with each other. Women have "friends" because they understand that social acceptance is very important to reach your goals.
 
Good male friends are very achievable if you're not autistic or so low value that people outright ignore you.

Which is the case for many here including me.
 
No, I agree with them fully. Females NEVER have best friends, or well they say they are, then 2 years later they dont even talk with eachother.

Male friendships are 100% better, more loyal and way way WAY stronger. We are evolutionary programmed for it, femoids are not.

Stop being such a fucking SJW cuck.
 
OP is a faggot, I cannot imagine any logical way for you to come to that conclusion. Male friendships are 100x more real and honest than females. Men have fucking DIED IN WAR together since time immemorial, and you think our bonds are weaker than women's?

Gay thread.
 
I partly agree, there are lots of backhanded compliments and other catty passive-aggressive crap in the femsphere that color female friendships, Stacy's probably just inviting the femcel to the party to look better by comparison, et cetera. But at the same time, men really are a bunch of thirsty simping vultures who'll drop you the minute someone with more value than you comes along, and a foid has more value to him in a hair on her forearm than you ever will no matter what you do.
 
Yeah this is 100% true.
Male friends dont really give a shit about eachother and wont actually help eachother if they are in a bad situation.
If a Male cant get laid his friends will call him a gay retard and tell him to man up .
A females friends however will actually console her if she cant get chad
 
I partly agree, there are lots of backhanded compliments and other catty passive-aggressive crap in the femsphere that color female friendships, Stacy's probably just inviting the femcel to the party to look better by comparison, et cetera. But at the same time, men really are a bunch of thirsty simping vultures who'll drop you the minute someone with more value than you comes along, and a foid has more value to him in a hair on her forearm than you ever will no matter what you do.
This is the sad truth.

I've only met two dudes in my entire life who wouldn't backstab me instantly for a crumb of female validation or status boost..only two. the rest, would literally drive over me a car if it means Stacy giggles at them for half a second.
JFL at incels here denying reality and coping that male friendships are better when they have literally zero male friends who give a shit about them. Meanwhile a low tier becky gets invited by her Stacy friend on a party for high status people. "b-b-but women are backstabing though, men have such good friendships" It's nothing but cope, boyos. If your male friends really cared about you, you would not be posting here.
My male friend pretty much bought me hundreds worth of food when I was broke. Him and one other are the only ones who made me think maybe not even breathing person is a maggot.

however you're not considering the fact that girls only do shit like that because of the social game. Remove that, and things would be very different.. I'm assuming you didn't have any sisters.
 
I disagree. That's a result of non chad men not being socialized properly due to feminism. I'm pretty sure that in scenarios like the military or the mafia men form strong bonds with each other. Women have "friends" because they understand that social acceptance is very important to reach your goals.
Its amazing how retarded OP's post is. Male friendships are so strong they support illegal multibillion dollar industries, run political and financial schemes that control the world, and fight and survive countless bloody wars.

Female friendships aren't friendships as males understand them. They are simply being used to broaden access to chad and obtain emotional and social support. Male friendships are more based off of mutual interests for the betterment of both parties. I have a feeling many of the men here who feel negatively towards inter-male friendships never really had any. They had acquaintances that were formed out of social pressure, not mutual interest. "Loners sit with loners" and all that.

Evolutionarily, friendship between the alpha male of the tribe and the betas or the omega male cannot form. It makes no sense. Friendship between women sounds more logical since they are happier sharing a man, in contrast with men who want to impregnate as many wombs as they can and leave none to the other males.

Perhaps the dumbest post in this thread. Evolution encompasses more than just sexual competition. Alphas need to have the trust of their betas for cooperative activities like hunting or war. This can be seen in chimps. They also need to be assured that they won't be backstabbed by their own men. War/fighting and food/protein gathering are what motivate sexual attractiveness in males. That is why foids desire chad's features. They signal the ability to fight and hunt. But instead of one male doing the fighting and hunting, why not two or three or more? That is where the male evolutionary justification for friendship lies.
 
People are just shitty in general unless they have a ulterior motive to be nice to you. Rich, good looking guys have more friends on average for a reason.
 
Yeah this is 100% true.
Male friends dont really give a shit about eachother and wont actually help eachother if they are in a bad situation.
If a Male cant get laid his friends will call him a gay retard and tell him to man up .
A females friends however will actually console her if she cant get chad

Disagree entirely, I think most of the people here who think that way just had shit friends due to autism/uglyness/bad luck/etc.

I have been fortunate to have had some really close friends in my life, and never in a million years will I think that women are better friends with each other than men are.

Again, men died in wars together for millennia. Men built this world, together. Women cannot come even comprehend the level of bonding that men throughout history have gone through.
 
Disagree entirely, I think most of the people here who think that way just had shit friends due to autism/uglyness/bad luck/etc.

I have been fortunate to have had some really close friends in my life, and never in a million years will I think that women are better friends with each other than men are.

Again, men died in wars together for millennia. Men built this world, together. Women cannot come even comprehend the level of bonding that men throughout history have gone through.
Sadly nowadays men are fighting with the other 80% of men for bottom of the Barrel female scraps so this heightened competition has caused men to immediately put down any other guy that's below him in any way, to try and elevate themselves
 
Sadly nowadays men are fighting with the other 80% of men for bottom of the Barrel female scraps so this heightened competition has caused men to immediately put down any other guy that's below him in any way, to try and elevate themselves

Of course that can be and probably always has been the case. It's not like men are without fault, and men have never been thirstier for pussy so they cuck and backstab like never before thanks to hypergamy and a decaying, hedonistic society.

But that still doesn't come close to negating the incredible things men have done and the things we are capable of when we work together. Just look at the recent Survivor shows when it was men vs. women. Within like 1 or 2 days the men had an entire village put together and women were still walking around in circles looking for water.

Women are a meme.
 
JFL at all the copers here. Like I said this is one of the toughest blackpills to swallow and a big myth that persists so I'm not even surprised at the bluepilled coping reaction.

Also LOL at people bringing up mafia as example of male "friendship". Those guys kill each other and rat on each other all the time. They'll send your best friend to kill you.

Disagree entirely, I think most of the people here who think that way just had shit friends due to autism/uglyness/bad luck/etc.

I have been fortunate to have had some really close friends in my life, and never in a million years will I think that women are better friends with each other than men are.

You're contradicting yourself. The very fact that so many men are friendless proves that men are shit at being friends with other men. Statistics don't lie. Female friendships last way longer and are vastly more numerous. It has been proven statistically. Most men in society are completely lonely.

If your close friends were actually your close friends and those relationships were meanginful, you wouldn't be posting here. You would be happy that you don't have a girlfriend keeping you away from hanging out with those male friends. Also you would be able to talk about your problems to your friends and you wouldn't need to talk on random stranger autists only.

JFL at anyone who posts here claiming they have great friendships unless fakecel.

Again, men died in wars together for millennia. Men built this world, together.

This has nothing to do with friendship. You're confusing cooperation with friendship.
 
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JFL at this coping.

Men suck at being friends with other men. This is why most male loners out there are not just lonely because they don't have girlfriends/wives but also because they have hardly any or zero male friends.

Women form better friendships with each other. They often compliment each other and give each other validation, they talk about intimate things and trust each other more. MGTOW coper types mock this and say that they backstab a lot, but ultimately they still have friends and they seem to get along well. Also male "friends" will backstab you just the same too.

The only types of "friendships" men have with each other this days are centered around specific activities or when one is some sort of mentor and there is a clear dominant friend. Usually after you switch your environment and do some new hobby, you will lose your former friends as well after some time.

If you're an unattractive and low status man with not much to offer, other men will not give a shit about you. But it's not entirely the same dynamic with women, I remember there were popular Stacies who had "loser" female friends and helped them out. It doesn't really happen with men. Men bully low status men unless they can use them for something.

Even if you have some male friends, those male friends will value women over you as soon as they get a girlfriend or a wife. JFL if you think your "best friend" male wouldn't trade your friendship for a relationship with some Stacy. On the other hand women will easily dump you if her female friends don't like you and find a new male.

There were statistics that clearly showed that heterosexual males have by far the least friends.


my only friends are from playing basketball so I guess this sums me up perfectly

honestly men fucking hate each other simply because they're competition for women
 
You're contradicting yourself. The very fact that so many men are friendless proves that men are shit at being friends with other men.

If your close friends were actually your close friends and those relationships were meanginful, you wouldn't be posting here. You would be happy that you don't have a girlfriend keeping you away from hanging out with those male friends.

JFL at anyone who posts here claiming they have great friendships unless fakecel.



This has nothing to do with friendship. You're confusing cooperation with friendship.


I'm going to go ahead and assume you either had shit friends or no friends in your life, is that correct? I'm not shaming, I just want some perspective. If you had friends, did you get shit on or backstabbed by a lot?

Like I said I was fortunate to have good friends over the years and I still have one good friend to this day though we never see each other, we just talk on the phone a lot (he is married and moved away.)

I'm also 32 years old with a career... so my time is limited as it is, plus my other friends marriages/divorces, jobs, and everything else in life naturally caused us to drift apart. My friends didn't play a part in the reason why I post here, my shitty life did. So assuming that's why I am here is also incorrect. If I'm a fakecel because I still have one good friend in my life, then I guess I'm a fakecel.

On your last point - cooperation in stressful times requires ultimate trust, which leads to bonding, which leads to friendships that can never truly be broken. It's not the only way men become friends, but it's a way men form friendships that doesn't even exist in a woman's life. Go and see how many women would be willing to die for another woman. The answer is 0.
 
The problem with male friendships is once one gets a girlfriend it's over. All their attention has to go on the woman.

Men can only be friends when theres no women around.
 
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Spoken like a truecel with no friends, I'm sorry mate but you are coping to make yourself feel better about having no friends by claiming female friendships are better than male ones.
Friendship and brotherhood among men is much stronger and deeper than female friends, you are the same type of person to call foids shallow and 1 dimensional yet you make these claims?
I do feel bad for the incels here that never managed to make a real friend, my 3 school friends made school life 100x better for me, without them idk how fucked I would be mentally.
I'm sorry to say this but it is very clear you are coping to justify being a loner.
 
Because women can do it too.
This is prehistoric/pre-agriculture humanity. About 10,000 to 50,000 years ago. Are you seriously suggesting we send out our egg carriers/human producers on high risk operations with high probability of death or capture?
 
This is prehistoric/pre-agriculture humanity. About 10,000 to 50,000 years ago. Are you seriously suggesting we send out our egg carriers/human producers on high risk operations with high probability of death or capture?
Assuming they're not pregnant. Like how female lions do.
 
The problem with male friendships is once one gets a girlfriend it's over. All their attention has to go on the woman.

Men can only be friends when theres no women around.
The first part is due to society no longer pressuring women to stay loyal. Now she can make demands and suck up massive amounts of male attention unimpeded. I agree though that men perform at their best when women aren't present.
 
I'm going to go ahead and assume you either had shit friends or no friends in your life, is that correct? I'm not shaming, I just want some perspective. If you had friends, did you get shit on or backstabbed by a lot?

I was in different social circles, when I moved on to other things the contact with those people faded away completely. We stopped calling each other.

Like I said, male friendships almost always revolve around a specific activity. They don't last and they aren't particularly deep. I never discussed any personal things with those friends.

Like I said I was fortunate to have good friends over the years and I still have one good friend to this day though we never see each other, we just talk on the phone a lot (he is married and moved away.)

Well there you go.
 
Assuming they're not pregnant. Like how female lions do.
Except we aren't lions. Our females aren't as equally as strong as we are.
Like I said, male friendships almost always revolve around a specific activity. They don't last and they aren't particularly deep. I never discussed any personal things with those friends.
Why not discuss things with them?
 
The first part is due to society no longer pressuring women to stay loyal. Now she can make demands and suck up massive amounts of male attention unimpeded. I agree though that men perform at their best when women aren't present.

It might have made it worse but women have always been super demanding and controlling. They hate male spaces and don't like their boyfriend or husband giving attention to anyone but them.
 
Our females aren't as equally as strong as we are.
We don't need much strength to climb trees and eat tropical fruits. It's not like humans are carnivores or something.
 
It might have made it worse but women have always been super demanding and controlling. They hate male spaces and don't like their boyfriend or husband giving attention to anyone but them.
True, but in the past men could just tell them to fuck off and go out and do male stuff.
 

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