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Blackpill Being friendless is the worst feeling ever

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I'm stuck awake in the middle of the night looking back on my life.
I think about how much time has passed in my life and how nothing has changed. My whole life being crippled by social anxiety has completely ruined my life.
I look back and cant remember any memories of fun times. Nothing in highschool, and now nothing in college.
Its especially depressing when I'm outside at the park and I see tons of people my age hanging out with their friends. I think about how something like that should be so normal for a human being, but for me it cannot ever happen.
I just want to end it all. I can't bear the thought of becoming older and wageslaving. My whole life has passed me by and I havent done anything with it.
I dont even care about sex or romance, I just want to feel like a normal socializing human.
 
No it's not, lmfao fuck off with this bullshit, you can have all of my friends instead so you'll stop saying dumb shit like this. :feelsautistic:
 
All of the friends i had (like 3 people) left me after I graduated high a school. I have heard from others on here that it only gets worse, and i mean obscenely worse for incels who have no social circle to speak of when they hit 30 or so. Scares me to reach that age ngl.
 
No it's not, lmfao fuck off with this bullshit, you can have all of my friends instead so you'll stop saying dumb shit like this. :feelsautistic:
BASED LMAO.

All "friends" have ever done for me is use me, betray me, and hold me back. Humans are not capable of being friends.

This isn't anime

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I dont even care about sex or romance, I just want to feel like a normal socializing human.
The problem with this is that most prospective friendships require you to possess the former so that your tentative "friends" will accept you, thereby fully reaping the benefits of the latter. To truly enjoy being friends with normalfag sexhavers is contingent upon social proof in which you must match their pace our outmog them completely in your success with women. Failing to do so will simply relegate you to the bottom where they treat you as nothing more than a punching bag until you either get fed up and leave or they ghost you. Your only chance to have satisfactory real life friendships is finding other blackpilled incels, which is a mission in and of itself.
 
I only have one guy I'd call a friend. It's honestly a chore to even talk with him. Boring and I'd rather be on my own most of the time. Just find shit you like to do on your own and you'll be good.
 
All of the friends i had (like 3 people) left me after I graduated high a school.

Don't let reddit discussions fool you, this isn't normal for regular people unless their reputation was ruined.

Many failed normies that aren't incels have this kind of thing happen though.
 
Don't let reddit discussions fool you, this isn't normal for regular people unless their reputation was ruined.

Many failed normies that aren't incels have this kind of thing happen though.
I could have been more specific. Having friends leave me has happened many times throughout my life. Id argue they werent friends at all, just people who tolerated me because we were stuck in the same building for 8 hours a day
 
best thing I can say to you is get over it, being friendless is actually good for your mental health. They only exist to insult or make fun of you or other low tier males. Cope? Probably but I'd rather be alone than in bad company
 
I could have been more specific. Having friends leave me has happened many times throughout my life. Id argue they werent friends at all, just people who tolerated me because we were stuck in the same building for 8 hours a day

Yeah as unloyal as normie's friends are they aren't that unloyal.

It's like you said, just people talking to you because you were in the same building as them for 8 hours a day.

Even if incels got friends they wouldn't be able to keep them because you feel uneasy about people being friendly with you when you haven't had that kind of interaction lead to anything positive in the past.
 
BASED LMAO.

All "friends" have ever done for me is use me, betray me, and hold me back. Humans are not capable of being friends.

This isn't anime
Normoids and foids can NEVER be your friends that actually give support. Once they see the chance they will kill you and tear your corpse in a thousand pieces in a heartbeat, and then they will celebrate it with a party.
 
Normoids and foids can NEVER be your friends that actually give support. Once they see the chance they will kill you and tear your corpse in a thousand pieces in a heartbeat, and then they will celebrate it with a party.
Exactly.

Its sad really. But its human nature

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I met a lot of people at work and at various local bars that I go to. I have added them on facebook but I wouldn't call them friends by any means. As in I would hangout with them outside of work or at the bars where I met them.

I have 3 friends from high school I hang out with several times a year but thats it. And If it were up to me I would hang out with them even less because they do hard drugs.

I heard of a saying recently (I think it was on here but I can't remember), that said you are in between your 4 closest friends in terms of personality and status in life and I have found this to be true at least in my case.

If you don't want potential conflict either with yourself or others, always choose friends that are your looks, status, and personality match. Always. And even then your friends will often compare themselves to you and either keep you down at times or at other times help you up.
 
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Tbh I never even had much friends at all. I only had 2 people I would consider friends. One of them is just a friend I had on PlayStation. I am not in contact with any of them as we drifted apart. But my PlayStation friend would probably be the only person I know outside this forum that wouldn’t mind if I was an incel.
No it's not, lmfao fuck off with this bullshit, you can have all of my friends instead so you'll stop saying dumb shit like this. :feelsautistic:
Brutal
 
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Honestly, I would say the inverse is true. Having friends is a pain in the ass, they are always excluding me from their circle.
 
This is exactly the worst problem with being an incel. Sure it sucks not scoring with girls but we have escorts for that, other aspects of life however are not so easy to make your way around like that if you're an incel, your bad looks will make EVERYTHING in your life worse, the way you're treated, job opportunities, friends... All of these things are fucked up, we'll be treated like trash everywhere. This is also why I think we all become mentalcels sooner or later, one can't simply come unscathed from all this shit over his whole life
 
I wouldn't mind having no friends as long as I had a loyal Stacy
 
This is exactly the worst problem with being an incel. Sure it sucks not scoring with girls but we have escorts for that, other aspects of life however are not so easy to make your way around like that if you're an incel, your bad looks will make EVERYTHING in your life worse, the way you're treated, job opportunities, friends... All of these things are fucked up, we'll be treated like trash everywhere. This is also why I think we all become mentalcels sooner or later, one can't simply come unscathed from all this shit over his whole life
Precisely, alot of these guys are coping by trying to act like having friends doesnt matter. It's the same thing as a Chad saying "having sex isnt important"
 
Nobody has time for male friends. Men are a waste of time, space, and energy
 
You went full retard with those last sentences. However, I have no friends and it’s so fucking boring being all alone all the time.
 
fuck friends, I just need pussy
 
I'm stuck awake in the middle of the night looking back on my life.
I think about how much time has passed in my life and how nothing has changed. My whole life being crippled by social anxiety has completely ruined my life.
I look back and cant remember any memories of fun times. Nothing in highschool, and now nothing in college.
Its especially depressing when I'm outside at the park and I see tons of people my age hanging out with their friends. I think about how something like that should be so normal for a human being, but for me it cannot ever happen.
I just want to end it all. I can't bear the thought of becoming older and wageslaving. My whole life has passed me by and I havent done anything with it.
I dont even care about sex or romance, I just want to feel like a normal socializing human.
I have 0 good memories of school all the way up to college. Nothing. My only good memories in life involve me coping with video games
 
@starcrapoo the guy who said the quote u be thinking of is the darkwebmarket owner maxxed guy :feelsthink:
 
Most "friends" you have at school are only your friends coz they are forced to be in the same class with you.

Once you graduate, if you don't have any strong bonds holding you, there's no reason for them to stick with you when they have their own path to pursue
 
Nah every friend will use and betray you.
All I ever wanted was to have a girl who loves me.
 
The problem with this is that most prospective friendships require you to possess the former so that your tentative "friends" will accept you, thereby fully reaping the benefits of the latter. To truly enjoy being friends with normalfag sexhavers is contingent upon social proof in which you must match their pace our outmog them completely in your success with women. Failing to do so will simply relegate you to the bottom where they treat you as nothing more than a punching bag until you either get fed up and leave or they ghost you. Your only chance to have satisfactory real life friendships is finding other blackpilled incels, which is a mission in and of itself.
I just find other subhumans to make friends with.
 
Being lonely can lead to death
 
College is especially hard for subhumans like us, because its so big its impossible to find the other incels/autists like in high school. I just ldar in my room in college when I see others with their friends :cryfeels:
 
Yeah, it fucking sucks.
I'm in the same situation that you're in, right now.
 
College is especially hard for subhumans like us, because its so big its impossible to find the other incels/autists like in high school. I just ldar in my room in college when I see others with their friends :cryfeels:
Idk if iys worse for dormers like you or for commuters like me.
At my commuter school everyone just goes to class and leaves, there is no social scene, not even for normirs
 
best thing I can say to you is get over it, being friendless is actually good for your mental health. They only exist to insult or make fun of you or other low tier males. Cope? Probably but I'd rather be alone than in bad company
 
It's all about the mog and social standing competition and/or resources.

If you can be happy as a punching bag you can have many friends. But if you have any personal dignity you will stand alone.
 

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