Nordicel94
Pancake-faced viking-cel
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Incels who have good parents have at least got support from them and a good childhood at home, badparentscels have no where to turn.
Same. As annoying as my parents could get, as much as they had no idea what I was going through out of our home, and even though both of them, but my father more so, have gotten physical a few times with me, in the end, my home was an island of safety and calmness I was always looking forward to returning to from the bully-infested hell that was my school.I definitely agree
I luckily have good parents
I wouldn't be shocked if it were true eitherSame. As annoying as my parents could get, as much as they had no idea what I was going through out of our home, and even though both of them, but my father more so, have gotten physical a few times with me, in the end, my home was an island of safety and calmness I was always looking forward to returning to from the bully-infested hell that was my school.
Also, as painful as it would be to have shitty parents, there's some research showing that being bullied has more negative consequences for someone's mental health than parental abuse. From my own lived experience, I genuinely wouldn't be surprised if it was true, and I'd happily swap being a bullied outcast to having a decent social life but abusive parents.
Bullying does more long-term mental health harm than abuse, study says
The long-term effects of being bullied by other kids are worse than being abused by an adult, new research shows.www.latimes.com
My parents were supportive but my, my, they didn't know how to raise a child for shit.