Lv99_BixNood
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My 47M husband flipped out this weekend when my daughter mentioned that half of the girls in her class had been sexually assaulted or raped.
My husband turned this into- " you're saying half of all men rape women?". This is not what she said and not what she meant. He then got angry with me for not correcting her. I tried to but he then started to cuss both of us out and tell us to forget about men and find other "women to lick".
He told me it wasn't right that I was teaching her that all men are horrible and that half of them sexually assault women. I NEVER told her this. She exaggerated the number of claims in her class, although the number of sexual assault incidents is higher than average.
I tried to get my husband to calm down so I could explain to him that 1 in 4 women will be sexually assaulted. When I told him this- he asked by who- and then turned it around to me saying that 25% of men are rapist. I don't know who's sexually assaulting these women, but I think it's safe to say it's mostly done by men.
1 in 4 women will have sex with Chad and regret it after he dumps them
I told him my own SA story- a boyfriend that I repeatedly told that I did not want to have sex with him, got me drunk and had sex with me- while he was sober. I don't know if you classify this as rape or sexual assault, but I never wanted to have sex with this guy and told him before I started drinking. He promised he wouldn't try anything and took advantage, I never gave consent. My husband believes it was my fault for getting drunk with the guy.
Daily reminder this is what roasties mean when they claim they got "raped" jfl