Venting Autistcels, healthcels, poorcels, leechcels mistreated by your family or anyone with advice gtfih

[Gyros_Pretcel]

Fuark idk what to do. I probably already wrote it down elsewhere at some point.

My relatives constantly shame, marginalize, attack, threaten me or even scapegoat me for their problems. Anyone with the same problem here?

I mean what do I have to do with the living room renovation not being finished yet for example?

I wash the dishes, bring the trash out, sometimes mob the floor or walk the dog, in summary adding a net benefit. When I don‘t function properly they simply can't comprehend my mental and physical situation. When I go out of my room to stop ldar I get constantly flak.
They wouldn't even have to pay for anything, if they would help me a bit more, so I can deal with the bureaucracy and government officials.

Do you know how I originally found the blackpill? I looked up how to talk to women and normies, because of my problems with my relatives (I was already shut in at this point). Found the redpill through it and shortly afterwards the blackpill.

They marginalize any problem I have and need help with, turning it into a thing about themselves. "We have problems as well, don't be AUtiSTic, gtfo", not literally but ye, you got the point. Pretty much the typical normie depression memes.

I have phases were I am not able to manage anything. In short i am half blind, can't sleep well, in constant physical pain, depressed, sperg, maybe have adhd or borderline with extreme social anxiety with catatonia. If I can't change anything or get thrown out I have to kms. And ye I am ugly.

They also extremely tone and behavior police me. They scapegoat my "bad behavior" as a reason I am wrong in any dispute.
Basically me:


I feel so ashamed of this tbh. I have always been different but shortly after the beginning of puberty I became totally mentally separated from the outer world. After dropping out of high school with 16 I did two years therapy and then went to a boarding school, but I overestimated my capabilities.

Since then ldar. I am an insane 14 yo in a body of a 27 yo.

What can I do.

 

[TheSecondComing]

sounds extremely over for you, I don't see a way out

 

[ThouShallObeyKing]

feel u ive been bullied since years 10 to 20 in schools till i gave up on schools lmao


i can tell u one thing, the problem is within us. i mean within bullies as well, but majority of human population are bullies so you cant really say theyre wrong, cause theyre majority.

the problem with bullying victims like me or you is that we dont have natural defensive instincts and if we dont defend ourselves and trash the attacker verbally or physically at the first time we are attacked, then it will never end

 

[Rassimov]

If people get used to bully you, the more innocent you are the guiltier you will appear to them. Need to set boundaries and come clear with your demands for respect.

 

[deeptroat]

I think u should really aim to find a living on your own, although it's very challenging in those circumstances. I'm not sure, but there is significant difference in how parents give validation and reassurance to their kids and to their adult offsprings. Don't count on that anymore. There would come a time when they expect u to turn the roles and ur current direction may not look promising to them.
Wish I could help u more with ordinary copes, but the biggest issues like health etc are up to ur resolvement.
U need a lot of strength, like myself, to stand against all those bad circumstances and we can't seek it from the outside world, at least the will per se.

 

[DoctorBlythe]

Have you ever been diagnosed with autism? If not, just get the diagnosis. You will probably receive autismbux, especially if you explain your situation in detail. Your family will always bully you no matter what, there's just no solution to that. You are fundamentally different from them, so they will always feel unsettled by your presence.

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

I hate how so many people claim to have depression when they really don´t when they experience said "depression" it is just when when they come down from being high on happiness that they experience all the time they are not depressed they are just not experience the extreme happiness they feel all the time

It's not even that. More like them being pissed about slight inconveniences and blowing them out of proportion so they don't have to listen to anything I say. (like the room mid renovation, despite being fully functional and being their own fault)

I mean my parents were even comparatively privileged. They used to be quite rich and we have a small house (90qm). They just decided to blow the money on things like travel and a now rotten boat/yacht and now making minimum wage after their business failed (they still managed to sell it off for 30k). I mean 90qm is not that much. But we don't live here since yesterday and there are people that have it much worse wtf. (my mom even has the biggest room about 15qm plus the living room (20qm)).
Maybe that's the problem. Them being failed upper middle class...

It's just a hit in your face. Idk how they can have the audacity to compare their situation to mine while living a comparatively normal life. I know this sounds like being ungrateful. But that's just how it is. (I will add specific stuff later maybe).

 

[TheGoodGuy]

It's not even that. More like them being pissed about slight inconveniences and blowing them out of proportion so they don't have to listen to anything I say. (like the room mid renovation, despite being fully functional and being their own fault)

I mean my parents were even comparatively privileged. They used to be quite rich and we have a small house (90qm). They just decided to blow the money on things like travel and a now rotten boat/yacht and now making minimum wage after their business failed (they still managed to sell it off for 30k). I mean 90qm is not that much. But we don't live here since yesterday and there are people that have it much worse wtf. (my mom even has the biggest room about 15qm plus the living room (20qm)).

It's just a hit in your face. Idk how they can have the audacity to compare their situation to mine while living a comparatively normal life. I know this sounds like being ungrateful. But that's just how it is. (I will add specific stuff later maybe).

Yeah some person are like that luckily my parents aren´t they know fully well how bad my physical problems are. It seems like people like your parents who say stuff like "well we haveproblems too" etc. really don´t know what real problems really are, on their worst days they might only have experienced 10% of what you experience but to them it´s hard because they have never experience anything else so obviously it´s subjectively hard for them.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

i always got shat on while i was at home until i finally moved out in my early twenties
then they had to shit on me over the phone but that was pretty easy to tune out lol. that shit will never stop but if it's over the phone just hang up lol.
so basically move out, there's 1000 other problems you need to look into that aren't even on the table if you're still living at home.

 

[Cuyen]

sounds extremely over for you, I don't see a way out

 

[ShyManlet]

Normies dont care, only if youre lucky your parents will try to really understand where youre coming from, but most parents will reject the blackpill in favor of bluepill, and belive its you whos in the wrong, not the ugly face and non nt brain that youre born with. They just consider you an inconvenient and wish you would gtfo already, my parents are the same for years, but i couldnt afford to move out fortunately its gotten better with time, but theyll never consider me as anything more than a pestering loser. Someone they regret creating, an embarassment.
My ugly parents shouldve never bred, now im paying for their mistake.
And they hate me for the same reason normies do im an ugly loser. They are so condescending towards me.

 

[KingOfRome]

They're doing this to you because you're ugly and disabled. Try to leave them if you can. Definitely apply for state housing if possible.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

Basically me:

 

[Deleted member 17997]

If people get used to bully you, the more innocent you are the guiltier you will appear to them. Need to set boundaries and come clear with your demands for respect.

 

[Neggr]

Tyler1 isnt autistic though

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

Tyler1 isnt autistic though

Tell me more.

 

[Neggr]

Tell me more.

what do you want to hear?

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

what do you want to hear?

He has epilepsy or some shit? Or is this fake?

 

[Neggr]

He has epilepsy or some shit? Or is this fake?

Never heard of it

 

[Fiddlesticks03]

If people get used to bully you, the more innocent you are the guiltier you will appear to them. Need to set boundaries and come clear with your demands for respect.

This definitely works a lot of the time. Other times some people are so toxic you just have to ignore them.

 

[RollD20]

Or is this fake?

T1 is probably fake from what I have seen, he was clearly NT enough for his football team and managed to get a GF.

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

it is over
I don't get the thought process of my parents
my mom does nothing in terms of things like the house treats me like shit and goes ree if you try to talk about ehr about it
then builds a future negative scenario out of the status quo and uses this as excuse why nothing can be done going full circle
while the behavior is the thing in the first place leading to the situation
When I explain her that she is free to solve all these "problems" she sees and that I am hardly stopping her from doing so ldaring
She goes like it's not only that
"every day you complain about the food"
ah okay that's why you have to be like a screeching witch now idk
Because I say my dad should put more veggies in the things he cooks
but that he doesn't listen ornoone listen to things as simple like that to me tbh
doesn't even matter
I mean what can you do other but repeating yourself every day?
parents are idiotic I should have moved out and sued them for child support (parents have to pay here until 25)
But I was to well meaning
They don't have their shit together of their finances anyway...
idk this is prolly some form of narcissism or histrionic personality disorder on their side idk
Idk I wish I just died tbh
she also tried to shame me
the neighbours talk about us...
she threw a fit because I wasn't ready for the diy store jfl
noone told me she comes with us
nobody told me exactly when we go
Couldn't even wait 15 minutes to get ready
when I told her this is bullshit and a waste of fuel and money
THIS IS WHY WE CANT HAVE NICE THINGS YOU HAVE TO DECIDE EVERYThing GYROS
jfl
it's always stuff like this
who is infantile here?
fater I told her, that it wasn't my fauklt
she moves the goalpost
ehh you wake up to lte
dad asks you every day to coem with him (lol never)
He tells me basically I have ti tel him if I want to go with him shopping
But whenn I ask him he dont has time
Do they want me to camp in fron of the car so I can catch him? jfl
she uses this as an argument as well
but the thing is
It has always been as this
so no real argument
fun thing is also after moving the goalpost x times they start over from the beginning. I tel them we had this discussion already you lost the argument. oh "you talk to much"

I just started to participate in life again
try to bend backwards to not be a nuisance
all I get is getting shitted on
every minor rquest like with the veggies is ignored
or that my dad tells me when he drives into the city
but somehow I am the one being asocial
and "causing all the problems"
My mom also likes to shut discussion down through threatening with financial self ruin or suicide
it's sick
I can't do shit man. It's over.
besides ths I don't think anymore that the welfare system is real tbh
in reality it doesn't exist beyond the bare minimum
I will try to sue so I can play minecraft in peace after I lost
I know I will neve r sol ve anything if I start to work now
It's just to much to bear for me. It was the same in school.
To many mental and physical problems
I feel like my mom is playing the victim for some reason. I don't get why not just stop the show and solve the problems? Is she really that stubborn because things like me trying to eat healthy and wanting some support in that?
you prolly have to accept some people are beyong getting helped
ironically they acuse me of refusing to get help
But I don't have to tell you bout the flaws in our mental care system
it's hard for me as an autist to go against the grain enough
I mean the last alternative is threatening people to basically do their job, that would just end in getting me jailed

Normies dont care, only if youre lucky your parents will try to really understand where youre coming from, but most parents will reject the blackpill in favor of bluepill, and belive its you whos in the wrong, not the ugly face and non nt brain that youre born with. They just consider you an inconvenient and wish you would gtfo already, my parents are the same for years, but i couldnt afford to move out fortunately its gotten better with time, but theyll never consider me as anything more than a pestering loser. Someone they regret creating, an embarassment.
My ugly parents shouldve never bred, now im paying for their mistake.
And they hate me for the same reason normies do im an ugly loser. They are so condescending towards me.