Discussion Attraction is organic and cannot be forced, Human relations do not follow a meritocratic logic or anything like that

[Limitcel]

This is the mistake that bluepills and redpills make, thinking that through merits you will make someone attracted to you.

No amount of healthy habits or personality traits can guarantee that someone will be attracted to you, people make this mistake because their lives are so bombarded with meritocratic propaganda that they start to think that all of reality is based on it, but reality can be quite random and indifferent, physical appearance generates feelings in people, natural feelings in our genetics, appearance generates chemical processes in our brain, in the same way that people like drugs and sex, they will like beauty

No amount of advice online or anywhere else will make you get girls, it either happens or it doesn't, it's natural

Regarding the PUA and Redpill techniques, what they basically say is that you have to do everything to get women's attention, but what makes you think that getting their attention would change the way they see you? What makes you think that before they ignored you but now that you used a YouTuber's technique they will want you?

You are not a main character in the world and no one is hiding anything from you, you are simply not attractive, no one wants to be around you.

 

[Paladin]

"attraction is organic" ORGANIC DECTECTED @erenyeager

 

[Limitcel]

"attraction is organic" ORGANIC DECTECTED @erenyeager

Erenyeagerpilled

 

[Darth Aries]

Our heightened intelligence often complicates people’s perception of attraction and what’s necessary to attract a female. In reality we are no different than any other primate in terms of how our brains select a mate, we just created extra steps the more we advanced. Humans are animals that can speak and that’s about it. Our ability to use our hands to build things and our communication allowed us to become the dominant species of our planet, sure. But who’s to say a fucking giraffe isn’t as self aware as we are? They simply wouldn’t use their awareness for anything other than mating and survival, and since they lack the mobility we do they simply remain wild animals. We are animals too, and the mating choices of our females are just as cruel as any other animal. Only the strongest genes will pass on

 

[Limitcel]

Our heightened intelligence often complicates people’s perception of attraction and what’s necessary to attract a female. In reality we are no different than any other primate in terms of how our brains select a mate, we just created extra steps the more we advanced. Humans are animals that can speak and that’s about it. Our ability to use our hands to build things and our communication allowed us to become the dominant species of our planet, sure. But who’s to say a fucking giraffe isn’t as self aware as we are? They simply wouldn’t use their awareness for anything other than mating and survival, and since they lack the mobility we do they simply remain wild animals. We are animals too, and the mating choices of our females are just as cruel as any other animal. Only the strongest genes will pass on

Yes, humans go crazy with how simple things are, they always resort to transcendentalisms.

 

[Darth Aries]

Yes, humans go crazy with how simple things are, they always resort to transcendentalisms.

The way we think helped us survive in the wilderness, but in modern life those same brains overcomplicate simple aspects of human nature.

 

[Based NaziCel]

Attraction is simply generically hardwired