As mentalcel i hate the advice from normies to go out and "socialize" more

[grayjedi90]

Im 27 no friends and no girlfriend either. When it comes to looks im a bit below average and could possible reach low tier normie level if i had the energy and motivation. Im more of a mentalcel, people generally dont like me no matter what i try or do. If i somehow get a conversation going people make it obvious that they don't like me and end it quickly no matter what i try i can't hold conversations that are longer than 2-3 minutes at best.

Normies always tell me bruh you need to get out and "socialize" more. How the hell should i "socialize" and get my social skills if nobody likes me or invites me to shit? They always say dude hit the bar, club, disco or whatever alone, but to be honest. I can't think of a worse place for a friendless and socially awkward incel like me. If you are incel that shit just doesn't work. I tried it for a year at one time until i couldn't take it anymore, everytime i went somewhere it was complete suicidefuel for me and got me to the verge of a mental breakdown.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Sorry man but below average means you are ugly. Don't cope.

 

[jamho22]

Im 27 no friends and no girlfriend either. When it comes to looks im a bit below average and could possible reach low tier normie level if i had the energy and motivation. Im more of a mentalcel, people generally dont like me no matter what i try or do. If i somehow get a conversation going people make it obvious that they don't like me and end it quickly no matter what i try i can't hold conversations that are longer than 2-3 minutes at best.

Normies always tell me bruh you need to get out and "socialize" more. How the hell should i "socialize" and get my social skills if nobody likes me or invites me to shit? They always say dude hit the bar, club, disco or whatever alone, but to be honest. I can't think of a worse place for a friendless and socially awkward incel like me. If you are incel that shit just doesn't work. I tried it for a year at one time until i couldn't take it anymore, everytime i went somewhere it was complete suicidefuel for me and got me to the verge of a mental breakdown.

i have the same problem...Never developed social skills. Autistics in here are deluded into thinking that good looking social retards can still get laid.

 

[Deleted member 1627]

And the older you get the harder it is to make friends

 

[whogivesafucc]

well i applaud you for actually trying, id never have the balls to go to a club or bar alone

 

[grayjedi90]

well i applaud you for actually trying, id never have the balls to go to a club or bar alone

I would not recommend, wasn't any fun. I was still kinda bluepilled at the beginning before i gave up and became blackpilled.

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Sorry man but below average means you are ugly. Don't cope.

Nah man if i would actually hit the gym and lose my chubbiness i could reach low tier normie level, my face isn't too bad. My bigger problem is that im a mentalcel.

 

[Battlefield3cel]

Im more of a mentalcel, people generally dont like me no matter what i try or do. If i somehow get a conversation going people make it obvious that they don't like me and end it quickly no matter what i try i can't hold conversations that are longer than 2-3 minutes at best.

Normies always tell me bruh you need to get out and "socialize" more. How the hell should i "socialize" and get my social skills if nobody likes me or invites me to shit? They always say dude hit the bar, club, disco or whatever alone, but to be honest. I can't think of a worse place for a friendless and socially awkward incel like me.

 

[Sub8Hate]

The thing about socializing is that it's only going to gain you friends, not a girlfriend.

You need to be direct and ask foids out. You need to make it clear that your intentions are to date, not
make new friends.

"Hey, I'd love to take you out on a date sometime."

Not

"Want to grab some coffee sometime?"

The second phrase may be interpreted as a request for friendship.

 

[grayjedi90]

The thing about socializing is that it's only going to gain you friends, not a girlfriend.

You need to be direct and ask foids out. You need to make it clear that your intentions are to date, not
make new friends.

"Hey, I'd love to take you out on a date sometime."

Not

"Want to grab some coffee sometime?"

The second phrase may be interpreted as a request for friendship.

Do you really think i didn't try that lol. Im pretty direct when it comes to such things (sometimes maybe too direct haha) but i always faced rejection.

Also lol at "socializing gets you only friends" most people get their partner through friends

 

[SupremeLeader]

u should try dating simulators they have the same effect but personally i prefer the 2d waifus

 

[Jockcel]

We mentalcels have it hardest. I see ugly dudes dating hot girls all the time. They all have one thing in common: they have good social skills and entertain girls.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

Right now there is a currycel in India shitting in the streets right next to his looksmatch, about to be her bf by the end of the day. Fuck normies telling me to socialize, that shit is on hard mode in The West. We need a fucking Blackstar Liner for Incels to go get third world gfs, we can call it chivalry. JBW tryhard it too.

 

[whogivesafucc]

We mentalcels have it hardest. I see ugly dudes dating hot girls all the time. They all have one thing in common: they have good social skills and entertain girls.

People here think you have to be a legit top tier male model just to get a girlfriend lmao. All you need are above-average social skills

8/10 dudes I see in college are incel subhuman tier and they ALL talk to girls, the girls laugh while talking with them, etc, etc. It's literally rigged

 

[grayjedi90]

People here think you have to be a legit top tier male model just to get a girlfriend lmao. All you need are above-average social skills

8/10 dudes I see in college are incel subhuman tier and they ALL talk to girls, the girls laugh while talking with them, etc, etc. It's literally rigged

What i hate the most is the catch 22. You need to have friends to meet other people and get into social circles at events otherwise as foreveralone guy you truly are screwed.

 

[dr-problematic]

What i hate the most is the catch 22. You need to have friends to meet other people and get into social circles at events otherwise as foreveralone guy you truly are screwed.

feel u brother, i dont see any escape from this loop

its all about those old high school friends, old neighborhood friends, all karate training where u went @ 9 yo friends, those college friends.

if you dont have deep ties with people you are basically fucked, both socially and romantically, also social side affects career development significantly, not only indirectly as of inner energy levels, but also with your status halo.

 

[QuantumDummy]

I think my voice doesn't match the way I look, just by looking at myself and hearing myself speak, to noticing the faces people make when they hear me talk. I know I'm not attractive but like other dudes have said, I've seen lots of other not-so-good-looking guys with gfs and hanging around women. My voice has a flat tone that I consciously have to tweak, and I have retard-level social skills. No clue how to pick up or ask chicks out.

 

[NekoStance]

It's really easy to find friends (ppl you know would be more honest these days) tbh

find online events, attend, talk, etc.
I even made friends from cold approach in my PUA days tbh

But yeh going to random bar or club alone is not good lol that is bad advice

 

[KV-]

The problem with socializing is that it builds on itself and status begets more status. I'm happy I managed in high school because otherwise I'd be alone.

 

[gstvtrp]

Im 27 no friends and no girlfriend either. When it comes to looks im a bit below average and could possible reach low tier normie level if i had the energy and motivation. Im more of a mentalcel, people generally dont like me no matter what i try or do. If i somehow get a conversation going people make it obvious that they don't like me and end it quickly no matter what i try i can't hold conversations that are longer than 2-3 minutes at best.

Normies always tell me bruh you need to get out and "socialize" more. How the hell should i "socialize" and get my social skills if nobody likes me or invites me to shit? They always say dude hit the bar, club, disco or whatever alone, but to be honest. I can't think of a worse place for a friendless and socially awkward incel like me. If you are incel that shit just doesn't work. I tried it for a year at one time until i couldn't take it anymore, everytime i went somewhere it was complete suicidefuel for me and got me to the verge of a mental breakdown.

Dude, I can relate to all of this so much. It's exactly what I go through.

Turning 27 in a couple of months.

 

[gstvtrp]

The thing about socializing is that it's only going to gain you friends, not a girlfriend.

You need to be direct and ask foids out. You need to make it clear that your intentions are to date, not
make new friends.

"Hey, I'd love to take you out on a date sometime."

Not

"Want to grab some coffee sometime?"

The second phrase may be interpreted as a request for friendship.

are you speaking from experience?

 

[Framecel222]

People here think you have to be a legit top tier male model just to get a girlfriend lmao. All you need are above-average social skills

8/10 dudes I see in college are incel subhuman tier and they ALL talk to girls, the girls laugh while talking with them, etc, etc. It's literally rigged

This 100%. I was in a basketball class last term and some dude on my team was a 3/10 framecel manlet. I thought he was an incel like me but as we're walking down the stairs after class I see his 6/10 girlfriend waiting for him in the cafe. This was my reaction:

It's completely rigged, we must've died and went to hell or something.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I've lost the ability to socialize. Anxiety is no longer an issue, and my social skills have always been pretty solid. I just don't have anything to say these days. Every interaction feels forced.

 

[Richard spencer]

We mentalcels have it hardest. I see ugly dudes dating hot girls all the time. They all have one thing in common: they have good social skills and entertain girls.

It's hard for mentalcels but nowhere near being a 1-2truecel.

 

[Sub8Hate]

are you speaking from experience?

Yes, why?

Although I do most of my approaching online so I'll usually skip the date part and just say that I'd love to take them out sometime.

 

[gstvtrp]

Yes, why?

Although I do most of my approaching online so I'll usually skip the date part and just say that I'd love to take them out sometime.

I've done both and neither worked.

Also you're a fakecel.

 

[Sub8Hate]

I've done both and neither worked.

Also you're a fakecel.

That sucks. 

Thank gawd, I wouldn't want to be a truecel.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

This 100%. I was in a basketball class last term and some dude on my team was a 3/10 framecel manlet. I thought he was an incel like me but as we're walking down the stairs after class I see his 6/10 girlfriend waiting for him in the cafe. This was my reaction:

It's completely rigged, we must've died and went to hell or something.

So, looks theory destroyed?

 

[Framecel222]

So, looks theory destroyed?

Or maybe I'm just even uglier than I think I am.

 

[KyloRen]

Im 27 no friends and no girlfriend either. When it comes to looks im a bit below average and could possible reach low tier normie level if i had the energy and motivation. Im more of a mentalcel, people generally dont like me no matter what i try or do. If i somehow get a conversation going people make it obvious that they don't like me and end it quickly no matter what i try i can't hold conversations that are longer than 2-3 minutes at best.

Normies always tell me bruh you need to get out and "socialize" more. How the hell should i "socialize" and get my social skills if nobody likes me or invites me to shit? They always say dude hit the bar, club, disco or whatever alone, but to be honest. I can't think of a worse place for a friendless and socially awkward incel like me. If you are incel that shit just doesn't work. I tried it for a year at one time until i couldn't take it anymore, everytime i went somewhere it was complete suicidefuel for me and got me to the verge of a mental breakdown.

This probably isn't going to sound very reassuring, but you will make friends naturally. In my experience, "birds of a feather flock together" is a very true idiom. I'm consistently amazed at how my friends have the same issues dating and have the same blackpill thoughts as I do. We enjoy the same things, the same games, movies, etc. We're not the type of guys to get blacked-out drunk or do crazy shit like that. And that's fine if you do that stuff or not. 

The key thing is that it happened naturally. Since your 27, it'll be a lot harder to make friends since you're not in an setting with people your same age. A lot of folks find success in joining hobby groups in their local cities (eg. basketball, kickball). Identify something you enjoy doing and search the internet for groups that share that same interest. Meet up and talk. You'll be anxious and all, but give it a shot.