Theory As a guy you have to make good things happen but bad things happen by themselves?

[Hoppipolla]

This has just been my experience.

If I do nothing, over time bad things occur every so often, but good things really never occur.

The only way for good things to happen is if I make them happen.

Do you guys find this too, or?

 

[Martes]

Yes

 

[curryboy420]

How the fuck do you just make good things happen

 

[Hoppipolla]

How the fuck do you just make good things happen

With great difficulty >.<

 

[Puppeter]

Our life is on impossible mode

 

[Righteous Hitter]

Indeed. Normtards would say "dont wait for opportunities, create them" yet by incels luck it mostly goes to worst outcomes and then others will say about waiting in patience without forcing thing just to be avoided by life in general.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Indeed. Normtards would say "dont wait for opportunities, create them" yet by incels luck it mostly goes to worst outcomes and then others will say about waiting in patience without forcing thing just to be avoided by life in general.

Yeah I hide a lot. But then I find that bad things still happen periodically.

They're often really bizarre things too that I could have never seen coming.

I'd say evened out it's about 4 significant things per year. Maybe more. So that's like 1 per season, lol

 

[Hoppipolla]

Now I think about it... all of the bad things that have happened to me between the beginning of 2020 and now have been either related to health (mine or someone else's) or more often other people being difficult.

And nearly all of the examples of the latter were "authoritarians" - people who basically are having trouble staying out of my business! lol

I think authoritarians are part of life though and are usually tricky to avoid, at least entirely.

 

[Righteous Hitter]

Yeah I hide a lot. But then I find that bad things still happen periodically.

They're often really bizarre things too that I could have never seen coming.

I'd say evened out it's about 4 significant things per year. Maybe more. So that's like 1 per season, lol

I understand. Life itself told us to screw ourselves.

 

[Hoppipolla]

I'm actually also wondering if the current turbulent nature of society might be a reason why I feel so much social... heat, from others.

Like... people seem more aggressive? Maybe they're just stressed because of everything going on at the moment.