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no i'm so isolated that i forgot how to talk in my own language
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every time I try to socialize my autistic behavior kicks in
Ok GrAYcel
You can only improve up to a certain point.
While my spergy personality over time died off - and I'm a lot more calm, collected, less stuttery, funnier, and confident in the way I talk, posture, etc.,
The reality is that when you are an incel, a deviation of interests happens from the normie. The normie is obsessed with sex, sexual gossip, social status, and what they do in their mundane lives on a day to day basis. When you are an incel, you develop other interests like video games, nerdy movies, philosophy, religion, arts, history, literature, politics, etc.
Eventually, it will dawn on the normie that you never talk about sex, women, and they will cut you off at a certain point or talk down to you / infantalize you. No matter how old they are or young, this always happens. Women are even more acute to this and will smell it right off the bat.
I have a group of normie "friends" I go to the bar with every weekend. Don't know why they invite me, but they aren't even my "friends" - maybe it's pity. Idk.
There's one engaged girl who became very distant from me after a couple of weeks for no reason. No, I didn't say or do anything incelly - we were really bantery with each other and had a good old time. Her attitude changed out of nowhere.
The other dudes took about a month in a half or so, and one guy figured out I don't date and relentlessly banters with me about how I get no action. All of them switched tones from a respectable man to coddling me like a child, like they are grown ups and I'm a little kid, despite me being in my mid 20s.
All they talk about is who is dating who, when the girl is gone they talk about who is fucking who, and other than that they talk about literally every mundane thing they do at work in their day to day lives and the people they see at work.
They have interests only insofar as one popular Netflix show is on.
I literally told one dude personally about my struggles dating and how I only got two Tinder dates after a year's worth of effort and both rejecting me after a single date (one recently).
The group the very next meetup shot up in adrenaline and ecstasy with a positivity I've never seen before, like I told them the answer to world hunger. "You got a date! How was it? Tell me all about it!"
You will never be normal, but you can at least develop into the person who you want to be. Find an archetypal figure and become that person, you will surpass the normie and can become way more interesting.
You just will never be normal. You will be extraordinary or an outcast, and the line between the two is often blurry.
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no i can if i rly want to though
No social skills for your subhuman face, also can you stop spamming shitty threads
No, i'm socially retarded
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I used to be a turbosperg that couldn't hold a conversation except with fellow spergs. The way normalfags talked was like black magic to me. However after wageslaving for many years I got used to it and now I can more or less converse on their level. It's nothing magical after all, most of them just blabber on about mundane shit like the weather, the niggerball game, muh job muh wife muh kids muh bills. Of course it's hard to talk about a lot of stuff since I didn't watch last night's game, I don't know what it's like having a nagging wife, etc. but after a while you learn to amuse them regardless.
Another thing is they tell a ton of stories. Especially older people. This can be a challenge because not only did you not experience it with them but being an incel you probably have very few stories of your own to tell. It got to the point that I had to make up stories so I wouldn't stand out as a complete weirdo. Glad I'm NEET now, I don't have to do that shit anymore.
Another thing is they tell a ton of stories. Especially older people. This can be a challenge because not only did you not experience it with them but being an incel you probably have very few stories of your own to tell. It got to the point that I had to make up stories so I wouldn't stand out as a complete weirdo. Glad I'm NEET now, I don't have to do that shit anymore.
Yeah, I make quick allies with people simply through bullshitting and being assertive
My social skills are worse than ever because i don't give a shit about anything anymore since the blackpill
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no incel has good social skills
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