Are you ever afraid of socializing because they will realize youre a loser?

[takurak]

Im gonna be joining a uni in Australia soon and Im scared to death to socialize. I rather be a mystery to anyone by keeping only to myself..than have every lifelesson as an ugly male strike back to me.

You know the stuff..once they know you, you're just a background character to them. Your own crush if you manage to freind her will be talking about your other cute friend. Everyone will see you as a subhuman... they will treat you as such.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Tbh it's a vicious circle.

You're a loser --> Don't socialize --> Ensures that you will remain a loser

and repeat

 

[Themisterpepsi]

Im afraid of talking because I have a speech impediment

 

[takurak]

Tbh it's a vicious circle.

You're a loser --> Don't socialize --> Ensures that you will remain a loser

and repeat

But at the same time, you do and youre trapped.

 

[LeagueEuW]

Yes. I always rather lay low and let people speculate on whether I am a loser or not, than open my mouth and remove all doubt.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

But yes I can relate to your post. I am so depressed in school and just wait until I can come home. I am glad that I can still stay at home until next week....

 

[takurak]

Yes. I always rather lay low and let people speculate on whether I am a loser or not, than open my mouth and remove all doubt.

Exactly.

This is the magnitude of the injustice we face... throughout life I wasnt able to see any other answer than looks. I too tried everything....and I always wondered if anyone else in this world felt like me... not those 'major depression everything is hopeless dudes cuz they got divorced or lost job'.

This place makes you truly understand.

 

[Jockcel]

I avoid socializing because everybody who got to know me treats me like shit, except for my mother.

 

[takurak]

But yes I can relate to your post. I am so depressed in school and just wait until I can come home. I am glad that I can still stay at home until next week....

Yeah... but hey! at least you have us

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I avoid socializing because everybody who got to know me treats me like shit, except for my mother.

Even though they all consider themselves good people

 

[LeagueEuW]

Exactly.

This is the magnitude of the injustice we face... throughout life I wasnt able to see any other answer than looks. I too tried everything....and I always wondered if anyone else in this world felt like me... not those 'major depression everything is hopeless dudes cuz they got divorced or lost job'.

This place makes you truly understand.

Life sucks. You should try phenibut though, it's supposed to help a lot in social situations(calms you down, helps with wordflow and confidence etc). My pills will arrive in a few days, ordered them from iherb.com,

 

[takurak]

Life sucks. You should try phenibut though, it's supposed to help a lot in social situations(calms you down, helps with wordflow and confidence etc). My pills will arrive in a few days, ordered them from iherb.com,

Im too high inhb to try this out Im scared of pills and stuff and think theyll fuck me up for life.

But do let me know how your experience goes with it ...

iherb sounds like a site for herbal products. this shit is a pharmacutical drug

 

[Grotesque]

Are you attractive? Then socializing is easy and fun.

Are you ugly? Socializing is hell because of your bad personality.

 

[Deleted member 2299]

I can't keep a conversation going cause I get lost in thought and don't care about trivial things

 

[Juxtaposition6]

I used to want to socialize but didn't because i feared rejection, i don't anymore because socializing is not what i want to do, i'm most likely gonna get rejected anyway and i've got better things to do than small talk with a bunch of people, small talk is boring.

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

They don't have to realize it, they can just see it right away.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Are you attractive? Then socializing is easy and fun.
Are you ugly? Socializing is hell because of your bad personality.

D
I would acid a bitch if she brought up personhality to me

 

[saddupbro]

I avoid socializing because everybody who got to know me treats me like shit, except for my mother.

#NAWALT

 

[saddupbro]

Im gonna be joining a uni in Australia soon and Im scared to death to socialize. I rather be a mystery to anyone by keeping only to myself..than have every lifelesson as an ugly male strike back to me.

You know the stuff..once they know you, you're just a background character to them. Your own crush if you manage to freind her will be talking about your other cute friend. Everyone will see you as a subhuman... they will treat you as such.

Join a nerdy club with lots of nerdy guys and a few nerdy girls, then be the first to make a move.

 

[Framecel222]

Absolutely. I'm panicking because I have to go to school in a few hours. I need to be put down.

 

[grayjedi90]

Yes im 27 and a friendless virgin incel. Can't get lower than that lol. My biggest problem is that im a complete mentalcel. I just can't socialize with people no matter how hard i try. 

I don't know even where to start meeting other people at my age. Most are in clubs, bars or discos but all these are terrible places for a friendless incel like me.

 

[takurak]

Yes im 27 and a friendless virgin incel. Can't get lower than that lol. My biggest problem is that im a complete mentalcel. I just can't socialize with people no matter how hard i try. 

I don't know even where to start meeting other people at my age. Most are in clubs, bars or discos but all these are terrible places for a friendless incel like me.

Its time to say hi to test E.

 

[TheRealChincel]

I’m 30+ and have never been to a party in my life, never had a friend PERIOD. I have no “benchmark” events since graduating from college. Not afraid of it, there’s just nothing for me to gain. Really don’t care about other people and dislike the lying that seems to be involved in friendships. A life unlived if there’s ever been one, just glad I never had to deal with Tinderellas.

 

[_incelinside]

Yes im 27 and a friendless virgin incel. Can't get lower than that lol. My biggest problem is that im a complete mentalcel. I just can't socialize with people no matter how hard i try. 

I don't know even where to start meeting other people at my age. Most are in clubs, bars or discos but all these are terrible places for a friendless incel like me.

word for word description of my life tbh

 

[SeifEsteem]

People treat me like shit regardless of who .akes the first move

 

[Bri8564]

I'm afraid of socializing whether it be on here, online in general, or irl because the vast majority of people dislike me and will attempt to bully me.