Experiment Are you currently still approaching or have you given up?

[femcelbreedingnig]

I’ve always wondered how many cels here have given up making the first move, or are still actively willing to put themselves through the dating market wringer. Or are planning to give up, but not after a couple more test-approaches / curiosity -approaches (this especially applies to cels who have never approached). There are also people who truly gave up, and wouldn’t date a foid even if one seemed to show interest in them (the least inkwell of them all tbhimo).

 

[Grodd]

No i've given up

 

[Skelly]

what is oldmaxxing

 

[femcelbreedingnig]

what is oldmaxxing

OLD = Online Dating

 

[femcelbreedingnig]

No i've given up

Grodd​

Discord: doom_4628, Foids add me​

★★★★★

 

[Chingaquedito]

still trying

 

[Grodd]

Grodd​

Discord: doom_4628, Foids add me​

★★★★★

Ok GrAY

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[LeFrenchCel]

I gave up and accepted I'll never have a gf

 

[Castaway]

I don't consciously plan like I used

 

[FunkyMonk]

I gave up a long time ago & don't plan on pursuing knowing that women are always repulsed by me. Also I'm old to experience a relationship, wouldn't know what to do.

Not to gatekeep but if you are truly blackpilled you know your place regarding approaching. It never began.

 

[Window]

Approaching is Russian roulette with a fully loaded gun.

 

[TheCatMan]

Everyone has a boyfriend so no point in approaching.

 

[daydreamER]

Where is the never tried option.

I knew it was over from the start.

 

[justuseless]

I never approached or tried with a foid. They rejected me as soon as they saw me.

 

[Popovshishman]

I'm trying actively in terms of looksmaxxing and socialskillmaxxing currently but only passively actually pursuing anything because don't want to feel the pain of rejection and can't handle it currently with my mental state.

For looksmaxxing, I've cut out all the junk food I've been eating and also realised a lot of the pre-made sauces for things like pasta and curry are STUFFED to the brim with salt so stopped eating like 12g of salt a day. Also started working out, so we'll see where that goes. Joined some skincare discords to ask about helping to reduce pore sizes + improving jawline and teeth (going to work extra to try get invasalign + teeth whitening, might help if it doesn't that's gonna be quite a big chunk of money wasted)

Ig for socialskillmaxxing trying to learn guitar (far more acceptable than 40k which I do currently, people in general don't like men who paint miniatures from my experience + women don't like it) and just spending more time outside doing stuff like reading or just wandering around even if it's without purpose and trying to make small-talk with people in places like book stores (building up confidence).

Lack the confidence to approach so I guess passively trying but working on building confidence with the 2 things above. Don't want to give up yet, only 18 there's still hope even if some of us have missed out on teenage love I'd like to think. Constantly getting friendzoned hasn't helped with this, have had one girl literally say to me word for word (kind of hard to forget that tbh cut deep) "You know I only love you platonically right, I'd never feel that sexually or romantically ew" so that wasn't great for self-esteem. Did try ask a girl out once, the rejection wasn't pleasant in the slightest (partially because they attacked some of my flaws which was obv a bit of a cruel thing to do).

Some advice from me would be to keep trying to do something, if not for anyone else, for yourself just consistent small improvements to try increase your own QoL as misery breeds misery and it is truly over if people see you as miserable (you will be abandoned by all those around you, even if they're close friends)

 

[Cincel]

Fighting an unfair war, just accept your fate. Never get up, just rot.

 

[Popovshishman]

Fighting an unfair war, just accept your fate. Never get up, just rot.

However unfair and unjust the war may be, the battle carries on and I will fight to the bitter end. Sieg oder tod! (Victory or Death!)

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Gave up putting effort in but will absolutely accept if a foid makes the first move. I don’t have the life energy to keep trying

 

[Popovshishman]

Gave up putting effort in but will absolutely accept if a foid makes the first move. I don’t have the life energy to keep trying

Try to reignite the fire within, I'd recommend watching Bowden! A Nietzschean Testament on youtube and see if you still lack the life energy within you. Besides, it's only 6 minutes and 50 seconds of your time, why not just give it a go? Lmk what you think of it.

 

[Qizarate]

I will probably turn insane in this year.

I tryhard to the max meanwhile I could.

 

[harambey]

I've approached many women, starting from the age of 17 all the way until now. When I see a particularly attractive foid( especially one with a big shapely ass ), I HAVE to approach. I will literally stop in my path and change direction or deliberately miss my bus stop so that I can get off at the same bus stop she does. and then follow her. A woman of any enthnicity who has a nice big ass is appealing to me, be it asian, black, white, even seen indians with big asses.

Some of these foids give me insta but never reply. All the dates in my life I've gotten by approaching. Some of them get close, but never had P in V YET. I always get rejected in some shape or another so inb4 you accuse me of fakecel. But the fact that I've acquired many dates from doing this keeps me hopeful and continuing in my efforts. I plan on going for as long as I feasibly can. I understand there's approach anxiety and high inhib cels here, that's why I recommend to overcome this by using your lust to motivate you. The woman should be so attractive to you that lust and excitement propels you to talk to her. if she's not, then she's not worth approaching.

 

[femcelbreedingnig]

Where is the never tried option.

I knew it was over from the start.

I realized this too late. I expected everyone who never tried to at least once approach to see how it goes AND THEN give up (because they know they’re giga truecels).

The thought of someone never making a move once never crossed my mind because I always believed a blackpilled man must approach at least once to solidify his belief in the blackpill.

The thought of never approaching at all gives us a bad reputation imo, because it technically cannot be an involuntary celibacy if you die never trying to not be celibate

 

[Cincel]

However unfair and unjust the war may be, the battle carries on and I will fight to the bitter end. Sieg oder tod! (Victory or Death!)

if you still believing you got a chance thats pretty fakecel

Tells us if you achieve getting a girl, mods gladly will ban you

 

[daydreamER]

I realized this too late. I expected everyone who never tried to at least once approach to see how it goes AND THEN give up (because they know they’re giga truecels).

The thought of someone never making a move once never crossed my mind because I always believed a blackpilled man must approach at least once to solidify his belief in the blackpill.

The thought of never approaching at all gives us a bad reputation imo, because it technically cannot be an involuntary celibacy if you die never trying to not be celibate

Not approaching seems like the logical thing to do in my situation as an ethnic balding manlet in the west. Approaching would be contrary to everything I have learned from the BP, it would even border on delusional.

I’ll ask you this: if you could go back in time and tell yourself to never do those futile approaches in the first place, would you?

 

[CuntHater]

I'm a burn victim... you can probably fill in the blanks.

 

[Anthrofurrcel]

I'm a burn victim... you can probably fill in the blanks.

Brutal

 

[Popovshishman]

if you still believing you got a chance thats pretty fakecel

Tells us if you achieve getting a girl, mods gladly will ban you

I will, gladly. I hope I will be here temporarily and not permenantly. That should be the goal for all of us shouldn't it? To be able to leave eventually.

 

[JKlancecaster069]

Gave up permanently.

 

[KinkyKanga]

Gave up permanently.

 

[Cincel]

I will, gladly. I hope I will be here temporarily and not permenantly. That should be the goal for all of us shouldn't it? To be able to leave eventually.

I don't know how you make it to sound so positive but hopeless at the same time

Nah bud, it's done for me. I have tried and all the times I tried I failed. So tbh I am better this way, rotting alone and not hurting anybody else

 

[over768]

Gave up permanently.

 

[DieVoGel]

I’ve always wondered how many cels here have given up making the first move, or are still actively willing to put themselves through the dating market wringer. Or are planning to give up, but not after a couple more test-approaches / curiosity -approaches (this especially applies to cels who have never approached). There are also people who truly gave up, and wouldn’t date a foid even if one seemed to show interest in them (the least inkwell of them all tbhimo).

I honestly don't want to date since women are evil leeches that drain you. However if a girl were to talk to me first and actively socialise me in her free time I would almost definitely consider dating her.

 

[Popovshishman]

I don't know how you make it to sound so positive but hopeless at the same time

Nah bud, it's done for me. I have tried and all the times I tried I failed. So tbh I am better this way, rotting alone and not hurting anybody else

One must imagine sisyphus happy as it were. Like I said, I don't intend to remain here long but that's not up to me, that's ultimately in the hands of other people's decisions. Can only try to influence and sway said decisions.

 

[Cincel]

One must imagine sisyphus happy as it were. Like I said, I don't intend to remain here long but that's not up to me, that's ultimately in the hands of other people's decisions. Can only try to influence and sway said decisions.

I like you frend, don't let the hope die until you decide its done

 

[femcelbreedingnig]

I fucked up the poll by allowing multiple votes (idk how) and not having a “never tried at all and I truly don’t know if I’d want to ascend yet” option.

Also no deadline needed, and weird view results.

 

[Wolnir]

I approached a female co worker last summer, made friends with her but she started ignoring me at work after I asked her out on a date, shit was brutal. I haven't spoken to her ever since even though we see each other 3 times a week at work. I've gotten over it now, but it's brutal seeing how cold foids are when they aren't attracted to you.

 

[TheJester]

Gave up temporary. Last time was a week before joining the forum.

 

[Popovshishman]

Gave up temporary. Last time was a week before joining the forum.

Similar boats then, what you doing to try get out of the rut?