Discussion Are you an Outsider to your Family?

[Incelius Savage]

I've always been an outsider and felt weird since i was born. My whole family is white and i'm mixed so i've dissociated from them my entire life. Felt good to have no burden to talking and being around them for a while but it got old. Plus i got to work on myself and figure out my passion that takes most people until their 30's to late 40's.

 

[Selbsthass]

Not at all. I was considered the future wonder as I had pretty well off parents, good education and had artistic achievements. My family is mostly broken up or dead anyway and all the younger ones are pretty much all different level of failure (I'm the only incel though).

 

[Ika-Sama]

My parents hate me for being retarded and not achieving anything in life, while they praise my Chadlite brother even though he's mediocre.

 

[Lolimancer]

I am the only one with bad looks

 

[Deleted member 39786]

I am the only one with bad looks

 

[Black Soul]

I've always been an outsider and felt weird since i was born. My whole family is white and i'm mixed so i've dissociated from them my entire life.

Are they making you feel this, or it is your decision?

I was considered the future wonder as I had pretty well off parents, good education and had artistic achievements.

mogs me to pluto and back

 

[Incelius Savage]

Are they making you feel this, or it is your decision?

Little bit of both. When I was younger I felt that way plus with a few events but when I got older and more disassociated it felt like they made me feel this way (obviously due to no interacting with them of course they will treat you different)

 

[Incelius Savage]

Bumpity bump

 

[Pareg]

Not completely. For context, my mother and my father are divorced. I live with my father and my MIL.

On my mother side, I definitely am an outsider. I mean, they all accept me (FIL, his family too, and my brother who lives there), especially because I'm doing well in uni.
However they definitely do not have any clue about me posting here, having the mindset that I have now, etc. They would tear me apart if they knew, so I can't say I well identify with them and their life experiments.

On my father side, well things are colder - and not necessarily in a bad way. While my family on my mother side would be the type to ask me questions like "hey do you have a girlfriend now" or shit like that, my father and MIL are not asking me. Which is good for my own sake I guess.

One thing though is that my grandparents believe I'll be the one carrying our family name later. JFL they have no idea

 

[thevenon]

I've always been an outsider and felt weird since i was born. My whole family is white and i'm mixed so i've dissociated from them my entire life. Felt good to have no burden to talking and being around them for a while but it got old. Plus i got to work on myself and figure out my passion that takes most people until their 30's to late 40's.

I was always an outsider in my family. Other men are chads and my sister is stacy. My mother was also stacy. My father was a normie. I'm the worst member of my family.

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

I've always been an outsider and felt weird since i was born. My whole family is white and i'm mixed so i've dissociated from them my entire life. Felt good to have no burden to talking and being around them for a while but it got old. Plus i got to work on myself and figure out my passion that takes most people until their 30's to late 40's.

Same here, I have a White family and a Jewish Black Latino (Zambo) family, I deliberately associate myself with Asian culture because I have been dismissed by both groups growing up, I was also "too nerdy" for the Nigs, if you live in Europe not being White automatically makes you "a foreigner" even if your ancestors have lived there as long as the rest and carry a Germanic Y chromosome, you're just not "one of us".

I remember very well when I was 10~12 visiting a Colombian relative of mine and playing with her sons and three distant female cousins of ours and the girls all praying that we shared absolutely no relationship because I was "weird" and "goofy", it's something that has stayed with me all my life.

To strangers I look "Egyptian" so if someone asks me where I'm from I will commonly claim to be a Copt just to disassociate myself from my family. Being mixed means that you don't belong in either world.

Also, Foids have very strong in-group biases so if they can't place you in their in-group you are bannished to their out-group and unless you're an ethnic Chad you're sub-human to most. I don't keep to myself because I want to, I keep to myself because I'm always "the outsider". I just don't talk to any family members of mine at all, even those that welcome me view me as an outsider. When my father died I lost contact with my White family and to my mother's family I'm "a Black Makamba" (Makamba = White Monkey, how they refer to White Dutch people but is never seen as racist when they call us this).

I'm not saying that I'm alone solely because of my race, I have a cousin who's a Chandlet lawyer that found another Mulatta, another cousin also married a Mulatta with a White father and literally walking stereotype Black mother (even in daishiki with Chiquita Banana hat), but they simply aren't as ugly as I am. I think that my ugliness is why everyone always rejects me.

 

[CrackingYs]

My parents will often go on day trips like to the beach and stuff with my brother and his wife & kids. I'm not even invited and later would see them posts stuff on Facebook that they didn't even mention to me.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

J.G was adopted into a White family. He was rejected by White femoids.

 

[Antisocialloner]

Yes. The ultimate outsider amongst family and soyciety

 

[Black Soul]

Little bit of both. When I was younger I felt that way plus with a few events but when I got older and more disassociated it felt like they made me feel this way

They don't have the right to treat you like that just because you have a different color. What is the problem with a different color? Sometimes children inherit traits from the grandparents’ genes that are not found in the parents, and this is scientifically known.

Are you mixed tend to black and they are racists? Also, are you sure that your father is your biological father? Because if not, that explains a lot of things tbh.

(obviously due to no interacting with them of course they will treat you different)

You're not wrong, you can't blame a child with this logic.

To strangers I look "Egyptian" so if someone asks me where I'm from I will commonly claim to be a Copt just to disassociate myself from my family.

I'm curious what you look like, and your story is so sad man. btw if you are black, No one will be convinced that you are a Coptic So it is better to pretend that you are an Egyptian Muslim.

@tehgymcel420, any thoughts for a new fesikh brother?

 

[Mecoja]

Yes, mom's side of the family accept me and we used to hang out but they are closer between themselves. Dad's side always hated my guts for no reason at all.

 

[Loner94]

Not completely

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

I'm a sperg so anything done with and for me is a token gesture, I'm not a full person.