Discussion Are u unmotivated cuz no gf

[Doomed4ever]

I do observe and wonder why so many incelbros have no motivation to do or complete anything they work on. They lack the desire to do anything productive. When i was in school, foids would always be the most motivated students, they had good relationships and they loved coming to school meeting their bfs and then go to extra coaching or tuition classes where they would sit next to their bf and always be so eager to excel academically. The boys who would suddenly get a gf would also do the same. How much would ur life change if u get a loving gf, would u thrive more working on getting better jobs or performing better academically? We missed out on essential teen love and most of us who are in late 20s are just soulless entities just existing to exist coping not having the most basic thing in life for so long which is a foid's love. I bet this is a huge reason why we are all dead inside, not competitive as we should be nor motivated to do anything big

 

[weaselbomber]

My life is shit and I'm a huge failure, not having a gf is just one of many symptoms

 

[Sonic]

no

 

[Sonic]

im motivated af, check my post next week when i go to do groceries. It will be so cool

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I already made it career wise, so I don’t to put much effort there anymore. But other than that, I just rot. If I were to do it all over again it would be infinitely harder due to knowing I will just rot alone in the end and it’s pointless.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Yes

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Living only for yourself is hollow and boring. I got an honest compliment by a woman a few months ago and it was enough to get me to keep up a healthy diet for an entire week. We are social animals and it's in our nature to do things for others, to earn their respect and climb the social hierachy.

As it is often the case, the common wisdom of "don't let others tell you what to do, it's about what you want" is sabotage. We did not evolve to just create motivation out of thin air - external motivation is the natural state of things that normies follow without thinking about it. Society puts value on presenting as a self-assured individualist, so normies believe that they "don't care what other's think" to go along with what others expect of them. What evolving for competition in the domain of social reality does to a species, JFL.

In short, yes, no longer being alone would make all the diffence.

 

[Doomed4ever]

Living only for yourself is hollow and boring. I got an honest compliment by women a few months ago and it was enough to get me to keep up a healthy diet for an entire week. We are social animals and it's in our nature to do things for others, to earn their respect and climb the social hierachy.

As it is often the case, the common wisdom of "don't let others tell you what to do, it's about what you want" is sabotage. We did not evolve to just create motivation out of thin air - external motivation is the natural state of things that normies follow without thinking about it. Society puts value on presenting as a self-assured individualist, so normies believe that they "don't care what other's think" to go along with what others expect of them. What evolving for competition in the domain of social reality does to a species, JFL.

In short, yes, no longer being alone would make all the diffence.

Well put ser

 

[My Name Jeff]

My life is shit and I'm a huge failure, not having a gf is just one of many symptoms

same.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Well put ser

Thank you

 

[Glerforpus]

I’m unmotivated because I have no real friends. I wish I had someone to talk to

 

[ldargoblin]

Cuz ugly

 

[Quoj]

It's one of the reasons yes, but not the only one.

 

[Therapywasaaste]

Yes

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

I’m unmotivated because I have no real friends. I wish I had someone to talk to

Same. But I'm a very rare trait combination. I'm not sure if there even are people like me anywhere

 

[Slut_Annihilator298]

I do observe and wonder why so many incelbros have no motivation to do or complete anything they work on. They lack the desire to do anything productive. When i was in school, foids would always be the most motivated students, they had good relationships and they loved coming to school meeting their bfs and then go to extra coaching or tuition classes where they would sit next to their bf and always be so eager to excel academically. The boys who would suddenly get a gf would also do the same. How much would ur life change if u get a loving gf, would u thrive more working on getting better jobs or performing better academically? We missed out on essential teen love and most of us who are in late 20s are just soulless entities just existing to exist coping not having the most basic thing in life for so long which is a foid's love. I bet this is a huge reason why we are all dead inside, not competitive as we should be nor motivated to do anything big

Although it does get to me, I refuse to let it control my life because that's exactly what those foids would want. Foids get pleasure from a mans misery, especially a lonely mans misery. Killing yourself would only make them happier. I keep working out and keep learning about history to cope and distract myself from my eternal inceldom, and I think many here should do the same.

 

[Robb97]

Yes

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

Social proof is important, when you have none you become a LDARNEETrotmaxxer, I could probably achieve more then I currently am (that is doing nothing) but I won't because I don't want to, and I don't want to because it's boring and takes energy.

 

[FakeFakecel]

Not necessarily because I have no gf, it's because I'm an unattractive subhuman

 

[No Longer Human]

Your theory is righ. The reason the men of the past built the world was because they ALREADY HAD FEMALES, they used to get married very young, and the motivation the females gave them was what they used to build the world. Now it has completely changed, they expect us to work in order to get females, but the normal thing was to already have a female to have a family with. That's why our motivation sucks.

 

[Antifem Lord]

Yes because I'm a subhuman with no value to anyone other than being a wageslave. I layed in bed all day and didn't eat anything.

 

[Linesnap99]

top 10 brutal post on .is

 

[Thaway]

Society puts value on presenting as a self-assured individualist

So true. Men especially do this because they try to fake being an independent high status male. Seen it mutliple times, a simple offer of help turning into a battle of egos somehow. Humans are retarded lmao...

they expect us to work in order to get females

Which, as we black pilled folks know, is not how it works. It all went wrong when we stopped treating foids as what they really are, breeding cattle and nothing else.

 

[InternetSupremeBoss]

I Just eat and sleep basically

 

[Bats]

I would have been more motivated in life. This is very true, In school there was a lot of foids who were motivated and graduated early. The ones who didn't graduate early were too busy partying with chads at night. Meanwhile all I had was depression and low IQ back then lol.

 

[Sanega Salt Nigga]

I'm going through the same shit, the only reason I am still showering, brushing my teeth, going to the gym and other BS is because discipline is the only thing keeping me going but it's only going to last so long before it dies out.

 

[incelsexaddict]

Brutal but true. Normies enjoy going to school and succeeding because all their friends and girlfriend are there and they all have fun talking and studying together. Plus after school they all hang out together and make amazing young adult memories.

If you're alone and miss out on all these normal human behaviors it's natural to feel unmotivated

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

im motivated af, check my post next week when i go to do groceries. It will be so cool

lmao

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

People aren't going to put in as much effort when the end-result is being treated like shit and being an outcast anyway

 

[Friezacel]

Most unmotivated people are like that because they have nothing else to life for. Just look at Maslows pyramide, if you don't need meet your social needs (social circle and girlfriend) you will never be self confident and find self actualization

 

[Buried Alive 2.0]

Yes, very much so. Very apt observation and based thread.

Romantic relationship are both cause and consequence. We never had teen love or nay relationship so we don't feel motivated and don't perform better and then we can't get relationships because our lives are destroyed without anything good in them.

 

[Lawrence]

im motivated af, check my post next week when i go to do groceries. It will be so cool

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I mean somewhere there's probably a foid who gets paid on OnlyFans for people to watch her do groceries...- might as well try it yourself
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[Buried Alive 2.0]

Yes, of course, there's no reason to motivate yourself when you don't get external motivation for it. People who say "motivate yourself to reach your own goals, and then others will follow you, and you'll get external motivation" are just coping. It's the same as the "just be confident" argument. People achieve things in their lives not because they're self-motivated robots, but because other people have followed and admired them since childhood. This positive reinforcement fills their lives with motivation, and achieving things comes naturally to them. Incels don't have this because they have no incentive to be motivated when their lives are ruined. Never in the history of mankind has a man had to spend a decade looksmaxxing to attract a foid. It's complete nonsense and wastes his potential to contribute to society. Of course we don't contribute, because doing so would be going against ourselves since society and women hate us.

Think about it like this: If you don't have a girlfriend, why should you be motivated? For what? You won't get love, affection, intimacy, sex—nothing. You won't procreate, so your contributions won't benefit your offspring. You're basically motivating yourself just enough to get some copes, and that's it. That's not life and it's not enjoyable in any sense. You were robbed of your best years and experiences, and there's no motivation for you to do basically anything at this point. You're not part of society; you're an unwanted outcast that nobody cares about and nobody wants as a partner. This is not really the mindset one needs to have motivation in life.

King of based.

 

[w1818alone]

I think yes

 

[Siegfried]

I have little motivation because girls will never love me

 

[Nikalas]

Obviously yes

 

[SociallyStupid]

I have been motivated without a GF for a long part of my life ... what really demotivated/depressed me was the pandemic.

 

[erenyeager]

Yes because I'm a subhuman with no value to anyone other than being a wageslave. I layed in bed all day and didn't eat anything.

 

[erenyeager]

People aren't going to put in as much effort when the end-result is being treated like shit and being an outcast anyway

 

[leafblown]

I don’t rope because I know the world wants me dead. Hatred is my only motivation.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Yes, of course, there's no reason to motivate yourself when you don't get external motivation for it. People who say "motivate yourself to reach your own goals, and then others will follow you, and you'll get external motivation" are just coping. It's the same as the "just be confident" argument. People achieve things in their lives not because they're self-motivated robots, but because other people have followed and admired them since childhood. This positive reinforcement fills their lives with motivation, and achieving things comes naturally to them. Incels don't have this because they have no incentive to be motivated when their lives are ruined. Never in the history of mankind has a man had to spend a decade looksmaxxing to attract a foid. It's complete nonsense and wastes his potential to contribute to society. Of course we don't contribute, because doing so would be going against ourselves since society and women hate us.

Think about it like this: If you don't have a girlfriend, why should you be motivated? For what? You won't get love, affection, intimacy, sex—nothing. You won't procreate, so your contributions won't benefit your offspring. You're basically motivating yourself just enough to get some copes, and that's it. That's not life and it's not enjoyable in any sense. You were robbed of your best years and experiences, and there's no motivation for you to do basically anything at this point. You're not part of society; you're an unwanted outcast that nobody cares about and nobody wants as a partner. This is not really the mindset one needs to have motivation in life.

 

[Skoga]

No pussy = no work

 

[BPJ]

My life is shit and I'm a huge failure, not having a gf is just one of many symptoms

 

[lifefuel]

Now that I think of it, I would've done much better in school if I had a gf

 

[erenyeager]

Now that I think of it, I would've done much better in school if I had a gf

 

[Blackpill Monk]

My life is shit and I'm a huge failure, not having a gf is just one of many symptoms

Not having a gf is main reason why I am failure

 

[Blackpill Monk]

Yes

 

[Logic55]

It's sickening that women enjoy the privilege of having a loving and caring boyfriend to stay motivated while we incels are condemned to a life of lonliness and constant suffering. There is no justice In this evil society that treats us like scum

 

[ForgoneFrequency]

Yep relationships above all

 

[Antifem Lord]

I NEED THAT TOUCH OF A WOMAN MOTHERFUCKER