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Serious Are male instincts easily more influenced than female instincts? (A rambling)

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It seems like alot of men are going against their nature lately and becoming more and more submissive. Femdom Porn searches just hit new high record. I hear all of this talk of ''you can't change biology'' Yet here we are living in a world where men dream about getting ravaged by hot tall amazonian women.
Something totally against male nature hardwired in our brains.

Despite how much society pushes men to be soy-boys and women to be more dominant. Only men are being effected. Soy-boys everywhere but no woman with the desire to physically protect and care for them..
It is almost like society can't change a woman's sexual desire to be dominated, but it can definitely change a mans desire from wanting to dominate and protect, to wanting to be dominated and be protected.

Female instinct is unchangeable, while Male instincts are.
If anything, I hope at least half of all women become physically dominant so they end up finding shortcels sexy.
But that is just a pipe dream I guess.

Having different sexual desires is a male thing. There is only ONE sexual desire women will ever have.. And that is a desire for chad. :feelsrope:
 
The only solution to this is death to all cucks
 
There is only ONE sexual desire women will ever have.. And that is a desire for chad. :feelsrope:
Yes. Yes. No matter how hard they try to virtue signal, deep down they always want chad. JFL if they think we believe they actually like short chubby balding men with soft facial features. Just JFL
 
most men are intimidated and cucked, i would like to be cared for too but only after a long day of work and being a man and respected tbh, i don't understand this cuck shit where you want to abandon all authority and self-respect and debase yourself, cucks need to be annihilated
 
I want to be protected by a Japanese onee chan. This is one of my few life goals.
 
@Blacktarpill
 
most men are intimidated and cucked, i would like to be cared for too but only after a long day of work and being a man and respected tbh, i don't understand this cuck shit where you want to abandon all authority and self-respect and debase yourself, cucks need to be annihilated
indeed people like me need to be wiped out.. but ppl like me torture foids by making them cringe.
foids deserve to suffer by putting up with soyboys like me because of feminism.
Yes. Yes. No matter how hard they try to virtue signal, deep down they always want chad. JFL if they think we believe they actually like short chubby balding men with soft facial features. Just JFL
It is SO weird that you can REWIRE a mans brain to go against his nature.. But not a womans..
 
indeed people like me need to be wiped out.. but ppl like me torture foids by making them cringe.
foids deserve to suffer by putting up with soyboys like me because of feminism.

It is SO weird that you can REWIRE a mans brain to go against his nature.. But not a womans..
it's no good being too submissive and cuckish, it leads to getting literally cuckolded and genetically annihilated
 
Demoralization is more effective than moralization, humans (all living things period), respond more effectively to threat and sabotage, than advisement and support

If you want to get someone to do something, things that affect them negatively will more likely work, than things that affect them positively

Men are being turned into submissives via demoralizing tactics (things that make them feel bad and weak - has no choice):
> Laws favoring women
> Giving women rights and letting them abuse it
> Allowing hypergamy to flourish, labeling acts and words against it as "lacking confidence and being insecure with your manhood"
> Changing the educational system to make it suit women rather than men - notice less men are getting degrees and more women are, that is obviously a huge demoralization to the average man to even pursue or stick to higher education
> Normalizing misandry (which makes men begin to hate masculinity)
> Normalizing feminine practices among men (especially of a sexual nature) - using sex toys, S&M (switching roles), and yes femdom
> Etc

Society is trying to get women to be more dominant via moralizing tactics (things that make them feel good and powerful - has choices):
> "Disruptive Technologies" (dating and hookup apps) which places more of the power of choice in women's hands
> Affirmative action gender quotas for employment
> Normalizing hypergamous behaviors and encouraging them, labeling them as "empowering"
> Etc

If you try to coerce someone into something using "positive coercive methods" there is more room for error, because they feel like they have a choice, and if someone feels like they have a choice, they will look at all the options they have and in some cases act against your intentions on a whim

If you try to coerce someone into something using "negative coercive methods" there is less room for error, because they feel like they have no choice, nor do they feel much of any will power to oppose the coercion

ALSO:

THERE IS NO "MORALIZING" (POSITIVE) WAY TO TURN A PERSON INTO A SUBMISSIVE (NEGATIVE), BECAUSE EVERYTHING ABOUT BEING SUBMISSIVE (NEGATIVE) IS DEMORALIZING (NEGATIVE)

THERE IS NO DEMORALIZING (NEGATIVE) WAY TO TURN A PERSON INTO A DOMINANT (POSITIVE), BECAUSE EVERYTHING ABOUT BEING DOMINANT (POSITIVE) IS MORALIZING (POSITIVE)
 
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Society is trying to get women to be more dominant via moralizing tactics (things that make them feel good and powerful - has choices):
> "Disruptive Technologies" (dating and hookup apps) which places more of the power of choice in women's hands
> Affirmative action gender quotas for employment
> Normalizing hypergamous behaviors and encouraging them, labeling them as "empowering"
> Etc
None of it is physical female dominance. Only social dominance. In fact, all of that makes women more sexually submissive
Men are being turned into submissives via demoralizing tactics (things that make them feel bad and weak - has no choice):
> Laws favoring women
> Giving women rights and letting them abuse it
> Allowing hypergamy to flourish, labeling acts and words against it as "lacking confidence and being insecure with your manhood"
> Changing the educational system to make it suit women rather than men - notice less men are getting degrees and more women are, that is obviously a huge demoralization to the average man to even pursue or stick to higher education)
> Normalizing misandry (which makes men begin to hate masculinity)
> Normalizing feminine practices among men (especially of a sexual nature) - using sex toys, S&M (switching roles), and yes femdom
> Etc
When I was a young teen I stopped wanting to protect women and wanted to be protected by women. I wasn't guilted into anything. I didn't know anything about feminsm. I dont know for sure what happened. But I can guess that when I got beat up by a girl at school and after that MY WHOLE GENETIC PROGRAM DID A FLIP FLOP and I get turned on by strong women
So why does my genetic program TURN UPSIDE DOWN but not women's?
 
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But I can guess that when I got beat up by a girl at school and after that MY WHOLE GENETIC PROGRAM DID A FLIP FLOP and I get turned on by strong women

This is quite literally my point, you were shamed and humiliated and had your masculinity tarnished, that is something demoralizing. Your spirit was broken and like a coping mechanism you took on this fetish to rationalism the event, you made something you disliked into something you could enjoy because that makes it more tolerable

If you ever want to go back to normal, you are going to have to find the girl who beat you up and dominate her in some form or fashion, for example, this will never happen, but if you could get that girl to fuck you (maybe try sabotaging her finances and then offering to pay for sex), and you could dominate her in the bedroom, you'd likely lose this fetish

You really got fucked up, its like you had a psychotic break, at first I thought you were just some pathetic cuck, but now I feel sorry for you, there's actually a reason you got this messed up, good luck recovering
 
None of it is physical female dominance. Only social dominance. In fact, all of that makes women more sexually submissive

When I was a young teen I stopped wanting to protect women and wanted to be protected by women. I wasn't guilted into anything. I didn't know anything about feminsm. I dont know for sure what happened. But I can guess that when I got beat up by a girl at school and after that MY WHOLE GENETIC PROGRAM DID A FLIP FLOP and I get turned on by strong women
So why does my genetic program TURN UPSIDE DOWN but not women's?
Its male vulnerability need; the desire to be emotional, brotherhood and intimacy. I used to feel like that as well with a girl I had a crush on in highschool but then I realized she had a dozen other orbiters and I noped the fuck out of there
 
I have the same problem/fetish and i think mine slowly started by watching a movie as a kid. I guess it wasnt that bad back then.
But i think i truely changed when i got a female bully when i was 10 or 11.
 
Demoralization is more effective than moralization, humans (all living things period), respond more effectively to threat and sabotage, than advisement and support

If you want to get someone to do something, things that affect them negatively will more likely work, than things that affect them positively

Men are being turned into submissives via demoralizing tactics (things that make them feel bad and weak - has no choice):
> Laws favoring women
> Giving women rights and letting them abuse it
> Allowing hypergamy to flourish, labeling acts and words against it as "lacking confidence and being insecure with your manhood"
> Changing the educational system to make it suit women rather than men - notice less men are getting degrees and more women are, that is obviously a huge demoralization to the average man to even pursue or stick to higher education
> Normalizing misandry (which makes men begin to hate masculinity)
> Normalizing feminine practices among men (especially of a sexual nature) - using sex toys, S&M (switching roles), and yes femdom
> Etc

Society is trying to get women to be more dominant via moralizing tactics (things that make them feel good and powerful - has choices):
> "Disruptive Technologies" (dating and hookup apps) which places more of the power of choice in women's hands
> Affirmative action gender quotas for employment
> Normalizing hypergamous behaviors and encouraging them, labeling them as "empowering"
> Etc

If you try to coerce someone into something using "positive coercive methods" there is more room for error, because they feel like they have a choice, and if someone feels like they have a choice, they will look at all the options they have and in some cases act against your intentions on a whim

If you try to coerce someone into something using "negative coercive methods" there is less room for error, because they feel like they have no choice, nor do they feel much of any will power to oppose the coercion

ALSO:

THERE IS NO "MORALIZING" (POSITIVE) WAY TO TURN A PERSON INTO A SUBMISSIVE (NEGATIVE), BECAUSE EVERYTHING ABOUT BEING SUBMISSIVE (NEGATIVE) IS DEMORALIZING (NEGATIVE)

THERE IS NO DEMORALIZING (NEGATIVE) WAY TO TURN A PERSON INTO A DOMINANT (POSITIVE), BECAUSE EVERYTHING ABOUT BEING DOMINANT (POSITIVE) IS MORALIZING (POSITIVE)
THANK YOU. I'm tired of people assuming that women are naturally stronger and socially smarter than men.
 
THANK YOU. I'm tired of people assuming that women are naturally stronger and socially smarter than men.

Soyboys with femdom fetishes want to believe this so badly so they can rationalize their pathetic ways JFL
 
Soyboys with femdom fetishes want to believe this so badly so they can rationalize their pathetic ways JFL
I don't believe that... Its just a lie I tell myself.. Like how I make myself believe there are women who don't care about physical strength or male dominance..
 

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