>Patriarchal culture and tradition tells men their worth is often directly tied to sexual and romantic success, basically, “you’re only a real man if women want you.” in mass media and pop culture sucessful men are almost always dipicted as either having a stable romantic relationship or possesse control over women either emotinally, physically or materially to a point where they can comfortablly objectify women or forcing the woman to "willingly" objectify herself for him due to various reasons.
>Therefore, when some men don’t achieve that or think the goals to be impossible (due to appearance, social skills, mental illness, disability, etc.), they experience a kind of existential failure. (This is what i have observed.) I've heard their reactions/lashout to be described as entitlement, which I largely agree, but also wish to share a slightly different perspective
Do feminists really believe that our innate biological desires don't actually exist, That men don't naturally want to have sex and relationships with women? I want love because it's literally programmed into my biology not because i want to avoid having a bunch of normalfags looking down upon me with disgust. There is not fucking culture or tradition that is making me angry that i don't have love, It's my fucking biology that says I should be reproducing right now, It's my biology that says i should have something any one to socialize with.
It's not entitlement to want your needs to be met, no one is calling homeless people "entitled" for wanted to have a house to live in. And last time i checked having a house isn't a requirement for being alive.
>Incels often accept the dominant cultural goal: achieving romantic and sexual success, which is heavily tied to social ideals of masculinity, self-worth, and adulthood. ( we all know how fragile those things can be) However, they perceive the legitimate means, such as dating, emotional vulnerability, self-improvement, or respectful social interaction, as either inaccessible or ineffective for them.
Inceldom doesn't have anything to do with cultural expectations. The "legitimate means" literally only work for people who have the toolkit for it, incels don't have the toolkit. This is just a misguided believe but a literal lived experience, You try what others say works for them but it never works for you.
>What’s also especially striking to me personally is the growing prevalence of what I think could be called body dysmorphia, especially in younger men, obsessing over height, jawlines, muscles, etc. Obv women has always been more vulnearble to it due to the male gaze and gender role on female appearence, but its also starting to apear in men and espcially those who consider themselves incels more and more, with many of them hating themselves for their physical apearances usually for being not "maculine" enough.
Feminists can never find fault in women, EVER. "No it's not the thousands of women making social media posts about how ugly/short guys are worthless to them, No it's fucking patriarchy It's the MEN promoting these standards" get fucking real you retard. nobody on this forum cares about how other men perceive their looks
>A lack of resources to help prevent radicalization, gender norms that are aginist men going to theropy, combined with no organic body positivity movement amoung men, and a more "normalized" views on jokes that involve male body shaming in media esp regarding height, penis size or other biological sexual inaquities(which i dont have an issue with) It seems like lots of men who are simply insecure or sexually inexperienced are being radicalized and funnled towards the incel ideology that end up actually reinforces the patriarchal beauty norms which they themselves alreadt suffer from.
And there it is, the magical therapy that foids worship as a cure all to all mental aliments, I was not radicalized by any man no it was the constant barrage of women treating men like sub-human trash with 0 social consequences that pushed me over the edge.
In conclusion, atleast you tried to understand us foid but your devotion to pseudo religion that is modern day feminism has clouded your judgement, You are unable to blame other women for their bad behaviours because you believe in non-existent patriarchy.
