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Discussion Are foids actually attracted to intelligence or do they just say that??

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VirtualRecluse

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Yeah i don’t know. I have a lot of free time now that I’ve finished school so I’ve been using most of that time to improve on my writing skills because i would like to write a coherent story one day.

Basically i enjoy writing fiction and i think it is cool when people can do creative things because i think it does require intelligence to be able to write something that is not only good quality but also easy to understand.

Even if I am truly not intelligent in their eyes, at least i am trying? I am actively working to improve, so, why doesn’t that count for something? I am learning new skills and for once it is not to impress a foid it is just for myself.

But still the random becky’s i come across online always have shit to say about what i do or do not do in my free time

then again, i am a retarded brainlet so each to their own
 
Smart Chad=So wise and handsome

Smart Incel=Creepy know it all nerd
 
maybe, but its negligible compared to looks

you have to go through the first filter (looks) for any other attributes to matter anyway and once you're past it all other attributes just become bonuses, seasoning basically
 
their attracted to chads who happen to be intelligent, but this is not mandatory
 
Smart Chad=So wise and handsome

Smart Incel=Creepy know it all nerd

Especially when incel has any kind of niche knowledge

Like for example if he says he likes to draw, the female will probably already be suspicious and just assume he is a cumbrained porn artist.
 
Yes, probably, just like a man is interested in an intelligent woman. But if he's ugly, forget it, intelligence alone means nothing, and as women are hypergamous, only if the guy is very good-looking will they take his intelligence seriously.
 
maybe, but its negligible compared to looks

you have to go through the first filter (looks) for any other attributes to matter anyway and once you're past it all other attributes just become bonuses, seasoning basically

I find this to be very frustrating

Because when Chad’s have hobbies and interests and such they are always encouraged and admired. It doesn’t really matter what they are. Chad’s who like video games will be praised by foids but incels who say they like video games will be automatically accused of liking only violent or porn games
 
Only if you look like Henry Cavil or Prime Dolph Lundgren and are intelligent
 
Especially when incel has any kind of niche knowledge

Like for example if he says he likes to draw, the female will probably already be suspicious and just assume he is a cumbrained porn artist.
Impressing girls with art is cope. Drew this shit for my oneitis 6 years ago and she couldn’t stare at me with a colder look before giving me a soft rejection by saying “I’m sorryyyy” after every sentence because she was still with her boyfriend who cheated on her 2 years before. I spent all summer building up the courage to give her this, since she was a girl I was in love with for a long time.
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They're lying
i think it does require intelligence to be able to write something that is not only good quality but also easy to understand.
Also this is very true, whenever I write it always ends up an incoherrent mess to anyone else, making a good story make sense to others that don't have the preconcieved context about that story that you thought up in the process of writing is a very difficult skill, you must be high iq.
 
Yes, probably, just like a man is interested in an intelligent woman. But if he's ugly, forget it, intelligence alone means nothing, and as women are hypergamous, only if the guy is very good-looking will they take his intelligence seriously.
Well-explained:yes:.
 
Impressing girls with art is cope. Drew this shit for my oneitis 6 years ago and she couldn’t stare at me with a colder look before giving me a soft rejection by saying “I’m sorryyyy” after every sentence because she was still with her boyfriend who cheated on her 2 years before. I spent all summer building up the courage to give her this, since she was a girl I was in love with for a long time.
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I assume this is the same drawing from your previous story, brutal that you still have it. Great drawing btw.
 
I assume this is the same drawing from your previous story, brutal that you still have it. Great drawing btw.
That pic was taken years ago. Once I gave it to her idk what happened to it but all I can assume is that it creeped her out and she threw it away.
 
That pic was taken years ago. Once I gave it to her idk what happened to it but all I can assume is that it creeped her out and she threw it away.
Brutal man :feelscry:
 
Impressing girls with art is cope. Drew this shit for my oneitis 6 years ago and she couldn’t stare at me with a colder look before giving me a soft rejection by saying “I’m sorryyyy” after every sentence because she was still with her boyfriend who cheated on her 2 years before. I spent all summer building up the courage to give her this, since she was a girl I was in love with for a long time.
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I think this is a great drawing, but unfortunately because they cannot see past appearance they genuinely cannot recognize talent anymore.

And also, it apparently does not matter if you simply put time and effort into something to make a female happy. If it is bad or ugly in their eyes, they will make that obvious one way or another
 
IIRC there had been studies which said the dumber you are the more likely you are to find sex. If you observe women irl they all flock over to the same kind of low IQ, low inhib criminals and thugs, whereas the STEMcels rot until 30-40 where they finally betabuxx some used up whore (if any).

There's a reason why the two smartest people in history, Isaac Newton and William James Sidis remained lonely virgins until the day of their death. Intelligence is negligible in terms of SMV, dare I say even detrimental.
 
I find this to be very frustrating
yeah it is and I had to learn it the hard way jfl. it was such a brutal realization that any virtue I had would be negated by my looks.

at first I didn't know it was my looks, but I knew there was something essential that tainted the view of my virtues
 
Impressing girls with art is cope. Drew this shit for my oneitis 6 years ago and she couldn’t stare at me with a colder look before giving me a soft rejection by saying “I’m sorryyyy” after every sentence because she was still with her boyfriend who cheated on her 2 years before. I spent all summer building up the courage to give her this, since she was a girl I was in love with for a long time.
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Yes, I've fallen into that trap too. I wasn't ugly or anything in my youth, I was a 6/10 - if you're very generous, a 6.5/10 at most - and I thought I could conquer women through other means, art, texts... no need to say it didn't work. I'm not a proponent of the theory that Chad's beauty is the only factor at play here, but the point is that it's useless to have an incel spirit and be intelligent.
 
IIRC there had been studies which said the dumber you are the more likely you are to find sex. If you observe women irl they all flock over to the same kind of low IQ, low inhib criminals and thugs, whereas the STEMcels rot until 30-40 where they finally betabuxx some used up whore (if any).

There's a reason why the two smartest people in history, Isaac Newton and William James Sidis remained lonely virgins until the day of their death. Intelligence is negligible in terms of SMV, dare I say even detrimental.
Back in ancient times a large penis was a sign of being uncivilized. Now I understand why, they were trying to tell us that low inhib savages are retarded. It sucks that they get to have one of the greatest pleasures of life but nonNTs are struggling.
 
No, Exact opposite actually. Intelligence is one of the few traits where women tend to display hypogamy instead of hypergamy. Although they would still fuck high IQ Chad ofc
 
Smart Chad=So wise and handsome

Smart Incel=Creepy know it all nerd
But what exactly is intelligence? I was the best student in high school, with the best grades and everything, when I went to college I got nowhere and I'm currently a neet, because I can't talk without stuttering or looking people in the eye, while the well-rounded, even if they cheat, do their course with their ass, study the minimum, they get the best opportunities and jobs because of their social skills. Of course, social skills aren't everything, it's no use being a social machine and being stupid, you need a middle path, as Aristotle would say, but intelligence, knowledge and the like are worthless on their own.
 
But what exactly is intelligence? I was the best student in high school, with the best grades and everything, when I went to college I got nowhere and I'm currently a neet, because I can't talk without stuttering or looking people in the eye, while the well-rounded, even if they cheat, do their course with their ass, study the minimum, they get the best opportunities and jobs because of their social skills. Of course, social skills aren't everything, it's no use being a social machine and being stupid, you need a middle path, as Aristotle would say, but intelligence, knowledge and the like are worthless on their own.
Maybe real intelligence is accepting what you can control as well as what you can’t. That’s why we stopped lying to ourselves
 
IQ is negatively correlated with getting laid in college (at least, those are where the studies are focused).

Perhaps women wish they were actually attracted to intelligence, perhaps they just say that to keep the billy-betas at the grindstone to act as backup after their epiphany phase, perhaps they're just lying for funsies.

But there's no evidence women find intelligence attractive.
 
Yeah i don’t know. I have a lot of free time now that I’ve finished school so I’ve been using most of that time to improve on my writing skills because i would like to write a coherent story one day.

Basically i enjoy writing fiction and i think it is cool when people can do creative things because i think it does require intelligence to be able to write something that is not only good quality but also easy to understand.

Even if I am truly not intelligent in their eyes, at least i am trying? I am actively working to improve, so, why doesn’t that count for something? I am learning new skills and for once it is not to impress a foid it is just for myself.

But still the random becky’s i come across online always have shit to say about what i do or do not do in my free time

then again, i am a retarded brainlet so each to their own
Intelligence is below 50 other traits that women do find attractive. Height, status, money, looks, self confidence.

So in short no they don't give a fuck about intelligence.

I'm also a fiction writer and I love it
 
Impressing girls with art is cope. Drew this shit for my oneitis 6 years ago and she couldn’t stare at me with a colder look before giving me a soft rejection by saying “I’m sorryyyy” after every sentence because she was still with her boyfriend who cheated on her 2 years before. I spent all summer building up the courage to give her this, since she was a girl I was in love with for a long time.
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Bro, that is beautiful. Damn, you are a romantic. I used to be like that.

Quite frankly, the bitch doesn't deserve you. More than not the outer shell doesn't properly reflect what's on the inside.
 
IQ is negatively correlated with getting laid in college (at least, those are where the studies are focused).

Perhaps women wish they were actually attracted to intelligence, perhaps they just say that to keep the billy-betas at the grindstone to act as backup after their epiphany phase, perhaps they're just lying for funsies.

But there's no evidence women find intelligence attractive.
Women don't find anything but actual physical appearance attractive. Money, status and all that are just a means to survive.

Money doesn't get her wet, neither does status.

It ensures survival or the likelyhood of it.

But good looks, now that gets her ozing pussy juice.
 
Impressing girls with art is cope. Drew this shit for my oneitis 6 years ago and she couldn’t stare at me with a colder look before giving me a soft rejection by saying “I’m sorryyyy” after every sentence because she was still with her boyfriend who cheated on her 2 years before. I spent all summer building up the courage to give her this, since she was a girl I was in love with for a long time.
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It's actually beautiful, and I think she should at least have to say thank you because you must have taken great care to create this painting. I'm sad why do incels always meet cruel foids
 
Bro, that is beautiful. Damn, you are a romantic. I used to be like that.

Quite frankly, the bitch doesn't deserve you. More than not the outer shell doesn't properly reflect what's on the inside.
I appreciate it, I truly loved her. All I am saying is that if women can turn gentle hearted boys into hateful, miserable, depressed men, then they are worse than whatever that man became. I don’t apologize for the way I think now, no matter how crude my words could be. Who is more evil, the bomb that blew up or the person who activated it?
 
I appreciate it, I truly loved her. All I am saying is that if women can turn gentle hearted boys into hateful, miserable, depressed men, then they are worse than whatever that man became. I don’t apologize for the way I think now, no matter how crude my words could be. Who is more evil, the bomb that blew up or the person who activated it?
True words. I has taken me around 32 years to touch the Black Pill. And then it has taken me another 5 years to fully accept it.

Foids have had a lot of time to prove it wrong. If anything, they drove me into it.

I really wanted it all to be wrong and just be corrected by someone. Yet whenever I listen to the gaslighting from these bluepillers they contradict themselves so much that it is impossible to not notice it.
 
True words. I has taken me around 32 years to touch the Black Pill. And then it has taken me another 5 years to fully accept it.

Foids have had a lot of time to prove it wrong. If anything, they drove me into it.

I really wanted it all to be wrong and just be corrected by someone. Yet whenever I listen to the gaslighting from these bluepillers they contradict themselves so much that it is impossible to not notice it.
Maybe the reason men are discovering blackpill at younger ages nowadays is because everyone is collectively waking up to it. Every decade you go back in time it got easier for men like us to find love. That’s not to say incels didn’t exist in the past, but by the time you get to let’s say the 1960s you would have to be beyond subhuman not to find at least a girlfriend. Nowadays women are showing their true colors more than ever and men are noticing.
 
Maybe real intelligence is accepting what you can control as well as what you can’t. That’s why we stopped lying to ourselves
Yes, I agree, I'm not intelligent or anything, I'm lazy, dumb and have a low IQ. But I see a cope out there, especially in Chans and more right-wing anti woke environments. People think they're intelligent because of certain visions, opinions and something else, but they're not, there are a lot more of normies and Chads in positions of power and making money. Anyway, I think it's a form of cope, we lose out to Chad in everything, but at least we think we're more intelligent than them. But, to be honest, I don't even think that's true.
 
Yes, I agree, I'm not intelligent or anything, I'm lazy, dumb and have a low IQ. But I see a cope out there, especially in Chans and more right-wing anti woke environments. People think they're intelligent because of certain visions, opinions and something else, but they're not, there are a lot more of normies and Chads in positions of power and making money. Anyway, I think it's a form of cope, we lose out to Chad in everything, but at least we think we're more intelligent than them. But, to be honest, I don't even think that's true.
Maybe we are, I mean if my brain can’t even manage a normal conversation with people I don’t know then how the fuck am I smarter? Maybe the whole “Smarter people doubt themselves more” is a cope aswell. Look at any inventor, they didn’t create new technologies by doubting themselves.
 
It is possible in Asian countries (like China, Japan and Korea), but only in middle school and high school, even if the guy with good grades is not good-looking and tall, he will have girls to talk to him, such as asking him math problems, buying him a bag of milk as a thank you, going to the cafe to do homework together on the weekend or other shit. But after college, it's almost useless
 
No. Foids are attracted to men with superior BONE structure. Women have not evolved to find traits like high iq (which matter in the modern world) to be suitable for their offspring.
 
It's one of the few traits they're actually hypogamous for.
 
No. Foids are attracted to men with superior BONE structure. Women have not evolved to find traits like high iq (which matter in the modern world) to be suitable for their offspring.
 
Nah, only if it comes with tons of money.
 
Basically, all your good traits will be seen as bad if she finds you unattractive
 

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