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Whether it's trying to write or speak (but especially when speaking), I have trouble forming my thoughts into well expressed sentences which creates a rather awkward environment whenever I speak to someone, especially strangers. Just start to murmur and stumble on my words like some idiot...Anyway else have that?
I don't think this is some cognitive problem as I know many people who one could consider mentally retarded but are a lot more well spoken than I.
 
Relatable, my handwriting looks like complete garbage and I speak like I have 7 marbles in my mouth
 
I'm very well spoken. But that's from years of practice. When I was under 16 I could hardly speak properly when put on the spot.
 
Do u read books?
 
I'm very well spoken. But that's from years of practice. When I was under 16 I could hardly speak properly when put on the spot.
How did you develop your verbal communication?
Do u read books?
Yes, the issue is that I have a lot of thoughts in my mind that are all floating around and make absolute sense, but whenever I try to put them on paper...They end up sounding a lot more simplistic. However, this is a minor issue, the main one is when speaking with someone, which is when I really get into trouble with my words.
 
How did you develop your verbal communication?

Yes, the issue is that I have a lot of thoughts in my mind that are all floating around and make absolute sense, but whenever I try to put them on paper...They end up sounding a lot more simplistic. However, this is a minor issue, the main one is when speaking with someone, which is when I really get into trouble with my words.
Practicing in front of a mirror mostly. Talking to myself out loud.

And by practicing irl when I was in school still
 
I can’t talk in public to save my life. I’m a stuttering mess and my voice goes really high pitched due to nerves.
 
I am on full autopilot as soon as I start talking. It is a 50/50 whether the sentence that comes out of my mouth makes sense or not. Sometimes I do not even remember what I said at all or wonder why I just said that. But that is probably because of social anxiety and stuff I guess.
 
me. im just socially retarded all around tbh.
 
I move my hands around when I speak, people have mocked me for it a few times. My speech can be too fast sometimes and I have a hard time connecting things I have to say, i.e. when I have a thing A and a thing B to say, it's easy to express A and B but segwaying from A to B is something I do awkwardly. Also, a lot of people told me I have a really monotone voice.
my handwriting looks like complete garbage
Same
 
I mumble and speak really fast when I'm nervous. The thought of speaking to a large crowd is terrifying.
 
I speak in unintelligible noises apparently.
 

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