Toxic Femininity Anyone else get treated rudely when dining alone in a sit-down restaurant?

[IncelGolem]

I'm curry and I went to a curry restaurant. I thought I would bring a notebook with me and review some research notes for a presentation to pass the time while I waited for my food. A curry waitress comes and looks absolutely DISGUSTED by me sitting in a booth alone.

OK, maybe she's just has a resting bitch face. But no - moments later she takes an order from a group of 4 white people with a big goofy smile on her face and cheerful tone. WTF? The kicker is one of the guys in the group comments that he should have no problem with Indian spice because "his parents are from Britain and so we basically owned India". How tf does some 20-something peasant traveler from UK own India?

 

[Med Amine]

all curry whores are white worshipping and they will treat a white man 10 times better than a curry man.
the fact that the white man is present in the restaurant make it even worse 4 u. but she would have treated you the same way even if he wasn't present.

 

[Psychcel]

The kicker is one of the guys in the group comments that he should have no problem with Indian spice because "his parents are from Britain and so we basically owned India".

Holy shit
You should leave an exaggerated Yelp review and mention this.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Foid just being foid.
Nothing surprising here unfortunately.

 

[Pancakecel]

If you were attractive she would have been polite

Foid just being foid.
Nothing surprising here unfortunately.

 

[LifeMaxxer]

If you were attractive she would have been polite

This

 

[Mango]

Probably A and B tbh. If I had to pick one, probably B

I used to do restaurant copes a lot but I got tired of watching sexhavers have lively conversations while I awkwardly ate in silence or stared at my phone. Better to just cook at home or order takeout/delivery

 

[IncelGolem]

whitoids when they kang for their ancestors accomplishments bitch you didn't own shit, you're a corporate wageslave who is owned by jewish bankers

Right. But not even his ancestors. In all likelihood his ancestors during the time of the British Raj were peasants or merchants in Manchester. They were wageslaves to the British Empire then, and wageslaves to Jewish Bankers now.

 

[BornToLose]

I used to do restaurant copes a lot but I got tired of watching sexhavers have lively conversations while I awkwardly ate in silence or stared at my phone. Better to just cook at home or order takeout/delivery

Yeah it seems like a masochistic kind of cope to me.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

I've run into similar issues if u go thru my past threads. It's what us ugly older curries go thru. They expect lower tip from u and since ur ugly lonely man they hate u

 

[JudeoBiden]

I hope you didn't tip. I would have gotten up and left.

 

[real_blackcel]

Maybe she thought you were a food critic

 

[IncelGolem]

Maybe she thought you were a food critic

Wouldn't they be nicer if they thought you were a food critic?

 

[The Abyss]

Dining alone in a restaurant tells normies that you're low value as you couldn't get anyone to go with you. Don't forget they don't see eating as just that, for them it means incessant chatter with no option to escape.

 

[Sigma]

IDK why you would ever do that to yourself
Not once have I ever considered dining alone in a sit-down restaurant with waiters

 

[asocialcel]

it's cause you're ugly

 

[TheSwagapino]

if ur an ethnic going into a predominantly white staffed dining establishment, or any place in america that is mainly white, dont be surprised if they treat you like you aren't human. it doesnt apply in ur case that you stated but rule of thumb that i live by.

 

[Mango]

Yeah it seems like a masochistic kind of cope to me.

It is. I tried going to a few '"social" things like car meets and food festivals alone but I ended up feeling like absolute shit.

Gotta have friends or a girlfriend to do those kinds of things.

 

[depressedblackcel]

You’re ugly, you came alone which further confirms you’re ugly. That’s why

 

[Emba]

Shit under the table!

Tell her it's her tip!