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Anyone else feel like they wasted their youth?

Minjaze

Minjaze

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I'm at that age where it feels like there's no going back. I've stopped growing and developing as a person since middle school and there's no way I can make up for those lost years. I am a child in a grown man's body.

It's fucking over.
 
Of course. If you are incel, and your youth is over, you objectively wasted your youth.
 
I'm at that age where it feels like there's no going back. I've stopped growing and developing as a person since middle school and there's no way I can make up for those lost years. I am a child in a grown man's body.

It's fucking over.
Smh youth includes those rites of passage and love. Did you know that childhood is actually a rather new concept? Previously there was no such as a child just smaller adult that's why it was legal to put them to work. Now childhood has been created as an experience to protect and nurture children to be healthy well adjusted adults. I can't speak for you but I didn't have a childhood and definitely no youth since I never had those rites of passage. So don't even say you had a youth destined to fail, rope is all that's left.
 
Ohhhh yeah. I think about being old, and wasting my prime years, every single day.

And the longer I go without being properly socialized the weirder I seem to my peers. And not to mention I still want to date fuck school girls, not women my own age (not that it matters since no female will even talk to me). I've taken to labeling myself an elderly adolescent.

One thing you can take for relief is knowing that there was never any chance of success. The moment you were born, god immediately said, "YOU LOSE!"
 
Smh youth includes those rites of passage and love. Did you know that childhood is actually a rather new concept? Previously there was no such as a child just smaller adult that's why it was legal to put them to work. Now childhood has been created as an experience to protect and nurture children to be healthy well adjusted adults. I can't speak for you but I didn't have a childhood and definitely no youth since I never had those rites of passage. So don't even say you had a youth destined to fail, rope is all that's left.
You're right, we never even had a youth to begin with.
Also, I like your name. "one bad day" or rather "one bad life" can certainly drive a person to madness.
 
Ohhhh yeah. I think about being old, and wasting my prime years, every single day.

And the longer I go without being properly socialized the weirder I seem to my peers. And not to mention I still want to date high school girls, not women my own age. I've taken to labeling myself an elderly adolescent.

One thing you can take for relief is knowing that there was never any chance of success. The moment you were born, god immediately said, "YOU LOSE!"
Dude, I feel the same way.
We'll always be behind our peers, we'll never feel like real adults.

The fact that I'm attracted to younger girls makes me feel even more pathetic, lol.
 
You're right, we never even had a youth to begin with.
Also, I like your name. "one bad day" or rather "one bad life" can certainly drive a person to madness.
Joker has never been more right lol, except I've had more than just a bad day and I have some sanity left.
 
Joker has never been more right lol, except I've had more than just a bad day and I have some sanity left.
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didn't waste anything. I lived my genetic potential. I was born to fail.
 
The fact that I'm attracted to younger girls makes me feel even more pathetic, lol.
I think all guys like younger girls (girls in their prime fertility years). You can be 80 and still want 18 year olds. But the desire may be much more pronounced in us, since we kind of got stuck at about that point of development.

Wish there were some smart psychiatrist here to explain all that brain stuff to us!
 
Oh every day. I wouldn't say I quite stopped at middle school like you said, I would say I've grown, and any not growing is more to a stubbornness to peoples shit than say like a peter pan syndrome. I can't say I feel like a child in a man's body, but I still fee like I did when I was 16-17 when all this shit started for me.
 
Does becoming a psychiatrist currently count for something? Finished my bachelor's a while ago.
I think all guys like younger girls (girls in their prime fertility years). You can be 80 and still want 18 year olds. But the desire may be much more pronounced in us, since we kind of got stuck at about that point of development.

Wish there were some smart psychiatrist here to explain all that brain stuff to us!
 
Also, I have seen chicks my age and older I would fuck if given the chance.
 
Does becoming a psychiatrist currently count for something? Finished my bachelor's a while ago.
Oh really? That's good. I'm surprised you can't help yourself, or that coming onto a misogynist incel forum is the best cure.

So what is this chronic feeling of waste we all experience, and how does it stunt someone's development when they stop being a part of their peer group?
 
Yes. I wasted it playing World of Warcraft and other games inside a dark cold room in front of a screen. That's why I'm killing myself next year if I don't make it this year.
 
Yes. I wasted it playing World of Warcraft and other games inside a dark cold room in front of a screen. That's why I'm killing myself next year if I don't make it this year.
"Make it this year"? How so?
 
I went out constantly in my early 20s and still got nothing.

You were all better off LDARing and play WoW
 
Oh really? That's good. I'm surprised you can't help yourself, or that coming onto a misogynist incel forum is the best cure.

So what is this chronic feeling of waste we all experience, and how does it stunt someone's development when they stop being a part of their peer group?
I was actually about to post some stuff about mentalcels in a bit especially my own experience if you're interested. When you say waste I assume you mean wasted youth. Well it comes from evolution in my mind, our fertility and highest value is during teenage years. That's our peak procreation period and our body makes frantic efforts to achieve the goal of copulating. Failure to copulate means you have failed and that leads to depressive episodes. We should understand that depression is an evolutionary method of problem solving. Where one focuses on the issue and shuts everything out looking for a solution. It is a mechanism for self reflection created from feelings of shame that arise from failing in a social circumstance. Considering how important a tribe was to a person a long time ago, it was crucial that one fix the failure. But mental illness is after all a coping mechanism taken to far and to it's reasonable extreme. So while shutting down for some time and reflecting can help. But once it becomes a chronic mechanism then you will slowly become less and less adaptable. That feeling of failure intensify in order to make you adapt but you will just become more depressed. That's why you see depressed people depressed about feeling depressed. Things shouldn't ever be taken to extremes if you want to survive is the lesson but I never learned it in time lol.
 
"Make it this year"? How so?
Well, my inherent self-preservation set a very low bar. I simply have to become social, low inhibition, and get friends both male and female. In other words, I have to defeat autism spectrum and schizoid/avoidant personality disorder. If I do this then I'm allowed to live on.

If I don't, then I will kill myself, or if even then I'm too much of a pussy I'll quit my job and university and go homeless until I expire. This is a pact I made a long time ago with myself, so I have to keep it. Can't back out of it.
 
Well, my inherent self-preservation set a very low bar. I simply have to become social, low inhibition, and get friends both male and female. In other words, I have to defeat autism spectrum and schizoid/avoidant personality disorder. If I do this then I'm allowed to live on.

If I don't, then I will kill myself, or if even then I'm too much of a pussy I'll quit my job and university and go homeless until I expire. This is a pact I made a long time ago with myself, so I have to keep it. Can't back out of it.
Hm, I see. No easy task.. but good luck to you.
 
Nothing to waste. If girls weren't trying to get with you in your youth, it was already over.
 
I was actually about to post some stuff about mentalcels in a bit especially my own experience if you're interested. When you say waste I assume you mean wasted youth. Well it comes from evolution in my mind, our fertility and highest value is during teenage years. That's our peak procreation period and our body makes frantic efforts to achieve the goal of copulating. Failure to copulate means you have failed and that leads to depressive episodes. We should understand that depression is an evolutionary method of problem solving. Where one focuses on the issue and shuts everything out looking for a solution. It is a mechanism for self reflection created from feelings of shame that arise from failing in a social circumstance. Considering how important a tribe was to a person a long time ago, it was crucial that one fix the failure. But mental illness is after all a coping mechanism taken to far and to it's reasonable extreme. So while shutting down for some time and reflecting can help. But once it becomes a chronic mechanism then you will slowly become less and less adaptable. That feeling of failure intensify in order to make you adapt but you will just become more depressed. That's why you see depressed people depressed about feeling depressed. Things shouldn't ever be taken to extremes if you want to survive is the lesson but I never learned it in time lol.
Good sum up! Thanks for posting. Evolution is interesting - it always seems like one step forward, two steps back.

I'll look for the next post. :)
 
what age does youth end?
Youth gradually declines when you reach 25. Your windows to opportunities start closing and you're expected to have a stable career by then. Social circles become more closer and don't welcome anyone new. If you miss out before then it's over. So I would definitely say 25.
 
Youth gradually declines when you reach 25. Your windows to opportunities start closing and you're expected to have a stable career by then. Social circles become more closer and don't welcome anyone new. If you miss out before then it's over. So I would definitely say 25.
so two years from now its over? guess i know what age I'm dying.
 
"Wasted youth" is only a mentalcel thing. If you're ugly, you didn't waste anything.
 
Nothing to waste. If girls weren't trying to get with you in your youth, it was already over.
True but we could've been out there trying. If all of us would've been supplemented with testosterone and HGH 99% would've turned out to an acceptable level of attraction.

what age does youth end?
13-25. After that life is over. Philosophers and others have been speaking for ages that youth is everything. This is confirmed by attitudes. We are youth-obsessed beings.
 
13-25. After that life is over. Philosophers and others have been speaking for ages that youth is everything. This is confirmed by attitudes. We are youth-obsessed beings.
Brutal.
 
True but we could've been out there trying. If all of us would've been supplemented with testosterone and HGH 99% would've turned out to an acceptable level of attraction.
Trying is cope.

You can't convince girls to find you attractive if you're not.
 
I went out constantly in my early 20s and still got nothing.

You were all better off LDARing and play WoW
Besides, having minimized sun exposure and calorie intake slowed down the process of physical aging.
 
True but we could've been out there trying. If all of us would've been supplemented with testosterone and HGH 99% would've turned out to an acceptable level of attraction.


13-25. After that life is over. Philosophers and others have been speaking for ages that youth is everything. This is confirmed by attitudes. We are youth-obsessed beings.
Read The Picture of Dorian Gray, great suicide fuel.
 
considering how often you fall for discord foids minjaze i think you have the numale provider status down 100%
 
Can you tell me what it's about and why it might interest me?
It's about a chad with immortality having fun. On a philosophical level it debates the idea of aesthetics vs deeper meaning as well contextual meaning. It is a rather interesting novel on the importance of physical beauty vs spiritual beauty. I personally enjoy reading it, there's a character called Lord Henry who was my black pill.
 
There is nothing to waste if there exist nothing to lose.
 
Your relentless orbiting seems to confirm that.
 
I feel like that too somewhat, OP. But not everyone here can relate to the agepill, it's not received as well as other pills here.
 
I wasted my youth and I'm never getting it back. It's over for all of us oldcels.
 
wasted, as opposed to what? Going to college and getting brainwashed into being a cultural Marxist liberal faggot? Fuck no. I loved playing video games in my youth and still play PC games even to this day. Path of Exile is my current game.
 
Just because you're not young anymore doesn't mean you can't still do stuff with your life. I'll always be young at heart. I refuse to be a boring old man when I'm older.
 
When American Pie came out back in 1997, I was in middle school and I was devastated that those things would never happen to me. I was crushed. I had no friends in high school and women found me revolting. I wasn't bullied though, cause I could fight, I do BJJ since I was 8.

Now that I'm 33 I realize that the feeling that the golden window has closed is something that young people feel cause they don't know what comes ahead. High school seems like the be-all end-all, then college seems that way.

Truly, it isn't.
 

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