Experiment Anybody have anxiety when they go outside?

[WhyMe?]

I always feel like people are watching me and shit

I think people generally only watch people that are really attractive or really ugly, so it has to just be in my head. So it's a mental illness of sorts

Anybody else have anxiety as well?

I love wearing sunglasses cause it minimizes it to an extent

 

[Deleted member 10234]

Yeah. I have anxiety going out because I'm disgusting and people look at me mean and bully me always.

 

[WhyMe?]

Yeah. I have anxiety going out because I'm disgusting and people look at me mean and bully me always.

How disgusting?

 

[Deleted member 1410]

no. I'm actually looking for a fight or rather a fight waiting to happen.

 

[Deleted member 10234]

How disgusting?

Does it matter? I'm sub8.

 

[WhyMe?]

Does it matter? I'm sub8.

Yes, because you must be bottom 20th percentile at least to elicit such negative reactions

 

[Deleted member 10234]

Yes, because you must be bottom 20th percentile at least to elicit such negative reactions

Cope.

 

[WhyMe?]

Cope.

People care about themselves. Why would they care about some random slightly ugly dude? They pass tons of them anyway

 

[Anger]

Yes, i feel like everybody is watching me or laughing at me

 

[wasted12years]

I only get anxious of drivers. I don't have a car/license. Alot of drivers drive faster when they are near me, especially when i'm biking on the countryside. I can't have eye contact with drivers. I despise them.

 

[Moustachcel]

Yes I'm also a mentalcel going outside is Suicidefuel

 

[Newbite]

You get looked at if you deviate from the norm in any way. People like to classify things and they do this by recognizing patterns. If you dont fit any set of patterns that they're accustomed to they wont know how to classify you and they will stare at you. how long they stare at you depends on how much you've deviated from the norm. If its a slight deviation such as looking unkempt they might just look at you that extra second longer. If its a big deviation, they'll outright stare at you. How your looks deviate from the norm also comes into this.

In my experience to minimize stares you have to dress and groom in a way thats the norm for your:

a)ethnicity
b)socioeconomic background
c)age group
d)locale

Dont look unkempt.

Also dont virgin walk. It also causes stares. just puff your chest up (not ridiculously, but enough to get rid of bad posture) and move your hands when you walk.

You basically have to look, walk and talk like a normie to not get stared at otherwise they notice something is off and it causes them to stare. Even newborn babies do this if they notice something has changed.

 

[acnescarcel]

yee b0i

 

[hugh3437]

Yeah , it's weird... I also have the feeling that people are watching me all the time it gets worse when you're in a place that there's some kind of mirror and you see yourself

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Yes and when I feel that way I automatically switch to virgin walk mode

 

[gymcelben]

yes I get anxiety even thinking about going outside, JFL its over for anxiouscels

 

[Deleted member 13322]

I get anxious when I’m around other humans period. I feel bad that they have to witness my subhumanity.

 

[Insalsa]

I used to have anxiety but I destroyed my inhib and it's very little anxiety now

 

[MinorityNoOneCares]

I avoid going out unless out of necessity. And yeah, sunglasses do help when I do.

 

[Frottbott]

People care about themselves. Why would they care about some random slightly ugly dude? They pass tons of them anyway

Not young ones who are supposed to be finding girls and getting married. That's prime torture real estate. You are the freak. Also, this is the only generation facing this crisis so it will continue on into your older years as the younger generation will be able to avoid this mess after the bubble bursts.

Think of it as, they are only looking at you because women don't get with you. Not because of your appearance.