Any self-employedcels here? What do you do? Is life better that way?

[Deleted member 7448]

I imagine there's a lot of upsides to it. No coworkers that hate you and you can't stand the presence of, no bosses nagging you and whatnot. It probably has several downsides too but tbh it sounds like a dream.

Although if you have to work more than 8 hours a day just to keep the whole business going then idk if it's worth it.

 

[Incellectual]

It really depends on what you are doing tbh. I'd rather have a job that has more hours but less bullshit than a shorter job that is torture to go through.

 

[micropenis29]

Life is way better.

Every incel's goal should be to eventually become self-employed, or to at least work under a boss that is your friend.

 

[Shin no Shi]

Life is way better.

Every incel's goal should be to eventually become self-employed, or to at least work under a boss that is your friend.

This. Nothing beats doing work that you enjoy with money being secondary.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Life is way better.

Every incel's goal should be to eventually become self-employed, or to at least work under a boss that is your friend.

Yeah it is a bit of a dream of mine too. But it's a hard thing to achieve.

This. Nothing beats doing work that you enjoy with money being secondary.

Gotta have a passion or at least an interest in something for that though. Which an anhedonic/depressed mess like me lacks despite years of trying to find one.

 

[Andy81Kaz]

I'm not yet allowed to have a job, but I believe it might be a good choice.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

I'm not yet allowed to have a job, but I believe it might be a good choice.

So you are not allowed to wagecuck

 

[Andy81Kaz]

So you are not allowed to wagecuck

Yeah. Not yet. But wagecucking is a good way of getting enough money to start your own micro-company.

But it's a hard thing to achieve.

Gotta have a passion or at least an interest in something for that though

No, and no. Just apply the Concept of Abundance. Add practical value to everything you do. If you get 20 bucks to clean a bathroom, clean the entire building for the same 20 bucks, always. You'll be noticed, and it'll be impossible for you not to grow inside your workspace. Eventually you'll be so high up you won't even believe it. Trust me, this always works.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Yeah. Not yet. But wagecucking is a good way of getting enough money to start your own micro-company.

No, and no. Just apply the Concept of Abundance. Add practical value to everything you do. If you get 20 bucks to clean a bathroom, clean the entire building for the same 20 bucks, always. You'll be noticed, and it'll be impossible for you not to grow inside your workspace. Eventually you'll be so high up you won't even believe it. Trust me, this always works.

You are right, I trust you on that one. That's my problem, my personality is the exact opposite of that. I do the minimum and try to find shortcuts even for that. I'm very lazy.

Although sometimes I'm the exact opposite and very hardworking. Ahh it's so weird sometimes I think I may be bipolar or have multiple personalities or something, but I'm most likely just someone who has no strong convictions so my attitudes and actions change according to my mood.

 

[Andy81Kaz]

I'm very lazy.

Although sometimes I'm the exact opposite and very hardworking. Ahh it's so weird sometimes I think I may be bipolar or have multiple personalities or something, but I'm most likely just someone who has no strong convictions so my attitudes and actions change according to my mood.

It's okay, brocel. No one is perfect, and I'm like you sometimes.You see, the only thing keeping you from greatness is your personality. If greatness or at the very least comfort is a major target for you, you should use that as motivation and fuel to fight and change your stance.

There's nothing wrong about being lazy, but it's a negative trait. It's not irreversible though. People can change, and you're no different. be strong, and garner power in yourself to face the world. You can do it.

About being bipolar: I'm bipolar and my entire family is too. It's a disorder, but it is treatable. You should try finding balance in your life with the help of a psychologist.

I hope you'll manage to turn things around. Good luck anon.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

It's okay, brocel. No one is perfect, and I'm like you sometimes.You see, the only thing keeping you from greatness is your personality. If greatness or at the very least comfort is a major target for you, you should use that as motivation and fuel to fight and change your stance.

There's nothing wrong about being lazy, but it's a negative trait. It's not irreversible though. People can change, and you're no different. be strong, and garner power in yourself to face the world. You can do it.

About being bipolar: I'm bipolar and my entire family is too. It's a disorder, but it is treatable. You should try finding balance in your life with the help of a psychologist.

I hope you'll manage to turn things around. Good luck anon.

Thanks bro, I hope things go well for you too.