Any Christian incels here? If so, how do you make sense of the fact that you are a genetic loser, with the Leif in an all-loving Jesus? I am Christian myself and I struggle to rectify the two opposing facts.
It depends on the stance you're looking at it from.
In the eyes of a world, I'm a genetic loser that
should have been aborted at birth (the words of foid i had a crush on).
In the eyes of God, I'm lovingly made in his image.
Genesis 9:6 - Whoever sheds human blood, by humans shall their blood be shed; for in the image of God has God made mankind.
Genesis 1:27 - So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.
This original image has been corrupted; when sin entered the world.
God gave us free will and because of that we created our own image of that which is
desirable, that is completely different to God's original image: hence why we have Incels and so much poor self-value.
I have nowhere to turn too in this world.
Every foid I know treats me like an alien (even foids within the church which is rich).
Every male I try to get to know avoids me.
Yet despite all that, God loved me(us) enough to send his
only begotten son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life (John 3:16).
In the eyes of the world I'm a genetic failure and that won't change, but at least there's someone who cares enough about me and acknowledges the desires of my heart and the pain which people bring upon me.
Christianity is not going to be a smooth sail. In fact, because we won't even conform to the world's
practices etc, we'll even be hated by the world itself.
but
God does have extraordinary plans for us when we put him first in our lives:
"Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen" Ephesians 3:20-21