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The rise of voluntary celibacy: ‘Most of the sex I’ve had, I wish I hadn’t bothered’
More and more people are choosing to go without sex. And, in many cases, they’ve never been happier
www.theguardian.com
Yeah, "choosing" and "happier". But I'm getting ahead of myself...More and more people are choosing to go without sex. And, in many cases, they’ve never been happier
I'm 25 and haven't even kissed or held hands with a foid yet, meanwhile this chick at 23 has already had so much sex that she's stopping with it.Caitlin didn’t set out to become celibate – at least not in the beginning. Three years ago, she was coming out of an abusive relationship and wasn’t ready to meet someone else. Then Covid happened, and the lockdowns made it impossible anyway. “I thought during that time I needed space to heal and reflect on what I’d been through,” she says. Towards the end of 2020, the 23-year-old artist started therapy.
WAIT, I WAS WRONG, SHE STOPPED AT 20.Caitlin’s celibacy, three years in now, became intentional.
Typical. You want a guy that wants a relationship instead of sex? Just fucking give a chance toany of the orbiters your prime, young adult ass definitely has, you dumb bitch!!! Oh, wait, of course, they aren't Chads, I forgot...She had been on dating apps, but found it hard to meet men who wanted a relationship, rather than just sex. “I found they would stop talking to me if I made it known I wasn’t going to hook up with them on the first date. I found a lot of men would put on a bit of an act to appear as if they wanted a relationship, then as soon as you took sex off the table while getting to know them, they disappeared. It’s tricky when a lot of dating is around hook-up culture, which I’m not interested in.”
I... I don't even know what to say. For years we, not just "incels" calling themselves that but male virgins in general, were painted as the greatest threat to ever exist, and now non-virgin normies who are choosing not to have sex and fuck around anymore are being praised for it. Just kill me at this point.On TikTok, voluntary or intentional celibacy has become a trend – the #celibacy hashtag has had more than 195m views – with those who practise it claiming it has improved their focus, mental health and energy. In January, it was reported that there was a 90% increase in Google searches for celibacy that month.
Just fucking lol!! Here it is, the open admission that this is a femcel article. A mainstream one.While celibacy is for many a positive personal choice, it can also be viewed as the result of, or a reaction against, a messed-up sexual culture, just as some of the second wave feminists chose political lesbianism decades ago. Last year, the “femcel”, or “female involuntary celibate”, went mainstream. “They feel the same sense of ‘humiliation and exclusion’ that ‘incels’ do,” as a piece in the Atlantic put it, “but they react to those feelings differently.”
AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Unlike the notorious misogynistic incels who blame women for not wanting to have sex with them, femcels posting in online groups tend to blame their celibacy on the soul-destroying sexual landscape and a society that, for all its hollow talk of “body positivity”, is still obsessed with looks and beauty conventions.
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This bullshit lmao. "Muh hook-up culture actually hurts women".Louise Perry, author of The Case Against the Sexual Revolution, says that many young heterosexual women “now feel as if they have to run the gauntlet of hook-up culture if they want to have any kind of sexual relationship. I think a lot of them, quite fairly, would rather not have any sexual relationship at all.” The influence and availability of pornography, she adds, “has had a really destructive effect on sexual culture.” She says surveys show that “most women don’t get that much out of casual sex. The problem is, because our sexual culture is so oriented towards a more masculine style of sexuality, a lot of young women in particular don’t feel as if they are able to demand commitment from their partners. Increasing numbers are opting out of the sexual culture altogether.”
Of course the only other people they have there are a faggot and another woman lmao. I bet they literally couldn't find a normal guy to interview for this.Stephen gave up sex more than 20 years ago, when he had just turned 40. “I’d become disillusioned with the gay scene, and too much casual sex with strangers.
For Hope Flynn, 31, head of content for iPlaySafe, a home-testing STI kit and app, her eight-month stretch of celibacy – she had been having sex about three times a week, so it was intentional rather than a mere dry spell – was about resetting her attitudes to sex.
They even admit it lol.
Ya think?While voluntary celibacy seems less popular among non‑religious heterosexual men