Discussion Am I the only one who thinks having "teen love" is just cope?

[Clockcel]

I know it sounds like heavy cope, but I dont really believe you are missing out on anything more than you are missing from regular love. Missing out on teen love doesnt make your life any harder; its just that people who miss it often have more difficult lives to begin with, and the lack of teen love is more of a correlation than a direct cause.

I think this is just something people are saying to make them more miserable due to the comfort they find in misery, I never hear even normies talking about their girlfriends during their teenage years. Lets be honest we ALL have bigger problems than crying how we didnt experience that "disney love" in our teenage years.

Kind of an response to @ihatefemcels thread, but also just in general curious to talk about the topic since I have seen the word thrown around alot in here.

TLDR: teen love is cope, chad gets even if he has negative experience with women somehow, hell its probably a halo to most foids.

 

[14Kaiser]

I think the biggest issue with missing out on teen love is that it usually means that you have less relationship experience than your peers.

 

[ihatefemcels]

Keep huffing copium. Teen love is your whole life, without it you’ll never know what true love feels like, and the odds of you finding a partner drop dramatically.

 

[Clockcel]

I think the biggest issue with missing out on teen love is that it usually means that you have less relationship experience than your peers.

My point is that even if you have less experience than your peers it really doesnt matter. Lets say you and your peers are all handsome and tall etc, just in general high value men in the dating market but you were the only one to miss on teen love, I could actually argue that you would gain more value from that due to it making foids feel more special. Your inexperience could make them feel like they are your first real connection, which adds a layer of emotional value to the relationship.

 

[ihatefemcels]

I could actually argue that you would gain more value from that due to it making foids feel more special

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEuCa01iKZg


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjQ-bTL-3AA

 

[14Kaiser]

My point is that even if you have less experience than your peers it really doesnt matter. Lets say you and your peers are all handsome and tall etc, just in general high value men in the dating market but you were the only one to miss on teen love, I could actually argue that you would gain more value from that due to it making foids feel more special. Your inexperience could make them feel like they are your first real connection, which adds a layer of emotional value to the relationship.

I feel like it's the other way around. It also depends on age. If your like late teens or early 20s then it could probably seem cute to a foid if shes your first. Once you get to mid 20s and beyond it'll probably start raising red flags as to why you haven't been in a relationship yet and you'll probably get thrown out for it. Most people at this point have good relationship experience in terms of communicating, expectations, etc. If you do end up in a relationship despite this then your more vulnerable to being manipulated because your unaware of relationship dynamics.

 

[Clockcel]

and the odds of you finding a partner drop dramatically.

I doubt it. Its fair to say that women want what other women want, but if you are already highly desired by other women being unexperienced wont be a major factor. You could easily play it off by saying you’ve been waiting for the "right one" or something along those lines.

 

[14Kaiser]

Also, I'd add that teen love is important but it's probably not 100% over if you dont experience it. A lot of people get their first relationship after high school.

 

[ihatefemcels]

but if you are already highly desired by other women

Dude your on .is, do you think a single woman desires any of us? Sure chad gets his way every time, but for us teen love is crucial

 

[Razielcel]

You miss on everything as truecel so of course you 'miss' on teen love too. I don't get this obsession unless you had a chance to begin with aka fakecel.

 

[Dollfucker]

Teen love requires less stuff compared to adult dating
-no need for a car (since they can't drive)
-no need to buy her shit (because you both have no money)
-no need to have experience (because they don't either well that's debatable)
-slightly less competition because they can't go on tinder and instantly get a Chad

 

[Clockcel]

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEuCa01iKZg


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjQ-bTL-3AA

I mean theres a stigma around virgin men so the first thing they imagine is probably more of an sub-5 than a good looking one.

I feel like it's the other way around. It also depends on age. If your like late teens or early 20s then it could probably seem cute to a foid if shes your first. Once you get to mid 20s and beyond it'll probably start raising red flags as to why you haven't been in a relationship yet and you'll probably get thrown out for it. Most people at this point have good relationship experience in terms of communicating, expectations, etc. If you do end up in a relationship despite this then your more vulnerable to being manipulated because your unaware of relationship dynamics.

Fair point. I didnt think of the age thing as a youngcel and now that you say it it makes total sense. I now acknowledge that dating becomes alot harder if you are virgin and 25+. I still dont think that teen love is something mythical though compared to regular love.

Dude your on .is, do you think a single woman desires any of us? Sure chad gets his way every time, but for us teen love is crucial

Of course not, but same reason I dont think teen love is crucial to us since none of us could have acquired it regardless.

You miss on everything as truecel so of course you 'miss' on teen love too. I don't get this obsession unless you had a chance to begin with aka fakecel.

Agreed.

 

[Clockcel]

Teen love requires less stuff compared to adult dating
-no need for a car (since they can't drive)
-no need to buy her shit (because you both have no money)
-no need to have experience (because they don't either well that's debatable)
-slightly less competition because they can't go on tinder and instantly get a Chad

Yes it requires less because teens in general have less. Does not mean anything since none of us could have experienced it anyways. I dont really see why it requiring less would make you somehow miss out on something huge compared to regular love?

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I think this is just something people are saying to make them more miserable due to the comfort they find in misery

 

[Clockcel]

Eh not really. I find myself doing the same sometimes (exaggerating on blackpill topics that apply to me).

 

[EngelCallDell19]

it would be ideal but i highly doubt anyone would feel empty if they never had it despite being in relationships as an adult like some teenlovepillers say, i could be wrong and its an unpopular opinion so i wont defend it that much

 

[DutchCel01]

Stop coping. You can call everything a cope in some way dumb ahh nigga

 

[Friezacel]

Keep huffing copium. Teen love is your whole life, without it you’ll never know what true love feels like, and the odds of you finding a partner drop dramatically.

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

Stop coping. You can call everything a cope in some way dumb ahh nigga

Man this nigga on fire tonight. I like it.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

the only love is teen love

what normalfags call "love" is getting cucked and paying for it

 

[iicc66]

I know it sounds like heavy cope, but I dont really believe you are missing out on anything more than you are missing from regular love. Missing out on teen love doesnt make your life any harder; its just that people who miss it often have more difficult lives to begin with, and the lack of teen love is more of a correlation than a direct cause.

I think this is just something people are saying to make them more miserable due to the comfort they find in misery, I never hear even normies talking about their girlfriends during their teenage years. Lets be honest we ALL have bigger problems than crying how we didnt experience that "disney love" in our teenage years.

Kind of an response to @ihatefemcels thread, but also just in general curious to talk about the topic since I have seen the word thrown around alot in here.

TLDR: teen love is cope, chad gets even if he has negative experience with women somehow, hell its probably a halo to most foids.

Its true love, not the usual cucked stuff

 

[iicc66]

I think this is just something people are saying to make them more miserable due to the comfort they find in misery, I never hear even normies talking about their girlfriends during their teenage years. Lets be honest we ALL have bigger problems than crying how we didnt experience that "disney love" in our teenage years.

Not really, the first part is kinda true in general but its not like teen love is cope in any way, no we dont have bigger problems, what bigger problem do you have

 

[Grodd]

Stop coping. You can call everything a cope in some way dumb ahh nigga

 

[SilentScream]

The lack of teen love is more of a correlation than a direct cause.

Correct. You experienced no teen love because you're undesirable, not vice versa. It's the same when people discuss if being a virgin is a red flag. The truth is, not inherently, but being a virgin over age 18-21 is most likely an indicator that you're ugly because people desire sex and wouldn't voluntarily wait for it so long.

Teen love remains a matter of controversy.

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEuCa01iKZg

Gross fucking roasties.

Teenage love is the ONLY valid love. Why you'd EVER want to have a "relationship" with a used-up foid is beyond me.

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

Also OP is coping so hard it's ridiculous. How on Earth can you not appreciate the beauty of teenage love? It's all about the innocence, and getting to explore each other for the first time, growing old together, sharing all those experiences until death do us apart.

If you marry later in life with an older woman, you will NEVER be her first, you will NEVER have the opportunity to share this intimate journey to maturity together, and you will FOREVER be resentful of missing out on this. Some Chad has put his cock in your wife when she was still a stunning teen and you're left with sloppy seconds till the day you die.

 

[ihatefemcels]

sloppy twelfth’s

Fixed it

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

Fixed it

 

[Razielcel]

sharing all those experiences until death do us apart.

What is this man? You are 2020cel.

Inexperienced foids become experienced even in that age, and a lot of teen relationships fall apart just the same. I saw countless examples around me since I was 13.

You guys act like inexperienced foids are some special beings that won't become your average female all the same just because you had relationship with them first.

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

You guys act like inexperienced foids are some special beings that won't become your average female all the same just because you had relationship with them first.

They won't if you'd hypothetically manage to groom them from an early age.

That is the ONLY way to have a successful marriage, ngl.

 

[Razielcel]

They won't if you'd hypothetically manage to groom them from an early age.

That is the ONLY way to have a successful marriage, ngl.

Nope, grooming doesn't work from what I have observed. Nature wins over nurture.

Also, having that naive mindset would really hurt you if you had a relationship.

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

Nope, grooming doesn't work from what I have observed. Nature wins over nurture.

Cope. The reason you want to believe this is because it's easier to accept your fate when you assume that ideal love (in the sense of having a virgin loyal woman who marries you until death) is nonexistent. Fact of the matter is that it exists, and in fact it's still quite common in conservative regions, where woman's nature is tied down (i.e. groomed) by religion and/or culture.

 

[Razielcel]

Cope. The reason you want to believe this is because it's easier to accept your fate when you assume that ideal love (in the sense of having a virgin loyal woman who marries you until death) is nonexistent. Fact of the matter is that it exists, and in fact it's still quite common in conservative regions, where woman's nature is tied down (i.e. groomed) by religion and/or culture.

I am just telling you what I saw through my life. It's all the same since intimacy and sex is all that matters to me, not some naive human made concepts like 'true love'.

Idealising teenage relationships and thinking you can groom a girl into fictional character just shows you weren't around it much or at all to observe it.

Only thing teen dating has going for it is sexual inexperience. Also, I even knew a 15yo foid dating a 25yo guy. There were not even rules to it being teen on teen where I lived. Foids are foids, it's to believe in game and controlling their nature.

 

[Wolnir]

If no girls were attracted to you as a teenager (your actual prime) you're probably subhuman and will only ever be betabuxx or an incel.

 

[Subhuman Niceguy]

Go back to Reddit, greynigger.

 

[KHHVcel]

Yeah it's cope. I don't give fuck about teen love, i just want a girlfriend

 

[KHHVcel]

the only love is teen love

Cope, Chads are loved

 

[superpsycho]

true love ends after teen years.

women can no longer love after that.

 

[Travis Bickle]

I know it sounds like heavy cope, but I dont really believe you are missing out on anything more than you are missing from regular love. Missing out on teen love doesnt make your life any harder; its just that people who miss it often have more difficult lives to begin with, and the lack of teen love is more of a correlation than a direct cause.

I think this is just something people are saying to make them more miserable due to the comfort they find in misery, I never hear even normies talking about their girlfriends during their teenage years. Lets be honest we ALL have bigger problems than crying how we didnt experience that "disney love" in our teenage years.

Kind of an response to @ihatefemcels thread, but also just in general curious to talk about the topic since I have seen the word thrown around alot in here.

TLDR: teen love is cope, chad gets even if he has negative experience with women somehow, hell its probably a halo to most foids.

i want to agree but i won't i still want any girl to love me want me like she is a teen doing it for first time ever.
that is crux of teen love is that it is pure

 

[Travis Bickle]

true love ends after teen years.

women can no longer love after that.

100000% agreee

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

Cope, Chads are loved

by teens

 

[Darth Misogynus]

OBJECTIVELY SPEAKING, TEEN FOIDS ARE THE SEXIEST...

WHO CARES THOUGH? THEIR PERSONALITIES ARE HUGE TURN-OFFS...

 

[Blackpill Monk]

Keep huffing copium. Teen love is your whole life, without it you’ll never know what true love feels like, and the odds of you finding a partner drop dramatically.

 

[InternalJizzz]

if you missed out on teen love you missed out on a major developmental milestone and will always be stunted compared to your peers who didn’t

 

[TooSomething]

Teen love requires less stuff compared to adult dating
-no need for a car (since they can't drive)
-no need to buy her shit (because you both have no money)
-no need to have experience (because they don't either well that's debatable)
-slightly less competition because they can't go on tinder and instantly get a Chad

Teen love can also lead to a healthy and long lasting "till death do us paart" relationship and marriage, if taken seriousely.

Nowadays the values have eroded so much that it is used to just fuck around.

My parents met each other as teens and are still together.

While even back then it was an exception, it is ideal imo.

You both meet at a young age, you are both still fertile, full of energy but poor.

You can start building your life, together, at zero. What you manage to build in the end will mean a lot more to the both of you, because you have invested in each other.

The years together will bind you more and more.

But unfortunately, foids aren't willing to put up with actual work / teamwork.

I wonder why in some cultures they are literally sold off or better yet, a price is paid to the groom so he will take the burden. Lol

 

[justuseless]

What makes teen love so appealing is the innocent awkwardness and thrill of exploring your emotions for the first time. Everything feels powerful and pure and like it will last forever.

But teen romance doesnt exist anymore. Its just a bunch of vile sexhavers.

 

[Arkansasmentalcel]

Teenage love is developmental. The rest of your adult love life will be ruined if you don’t get a girlfriend during you’re most important development stage

 

[Blighteous]

Teen love is just another term for Just Be First.

Teenage love is developmental. The rest of your adult love life will be ruined if you don’t get a girlfriend during you’re most important development stage

This is precisely why people met each other during their teens and married in their early 20's back in the past.

 

[SrutalBeggs]

Teen love is just another term for Just Be First.

That shit is long dead. Foids are exposed to chads on jewtok, jewtube and instajew at a young age. Perhaps a bit of tumblr/twitter faggotry. JBF only works for chads.

 

[Blighteous]

That shit is long dead. Foids are exposed to chads on jewtok, jewtube and instajew at a young age. Perhaps a bit of tumblr/twitter faggotry. JBF only works for chads.

Complaining about not having experienced teen love = Complaining about not being born as an attractive male
Both one and the same, and legitimate grievances as well, but people pretend that these are two separate things for some reason.