Discussion Am I a cuck for paying my mom's expenses?

[Uglyme]

I don't live with her but I pay for the electricity bills, water, gas, groceries and some medicines. She's not old enough to retire but hasn't worked for two years. She still needs to work about 10 more years to get pensioned. She gets mad at me when I drink and sometimes stops talking to me for days. So anyways, am I a cuck for helping her?

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Idk hard to say tbh

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

She sounds terrible just from your post. The way you describe it, unless she has some disability that keeps her from working, she is just being lazy and expecting you to pay for her shit.

And not only that, she gets mad at you for how you spend your personal time in your own personal apartment/house and she is so immature that she just stops talking to you because she disagrees with your life choices even though you are her son and are helping her so much.

Its not about being a cuck, it just seems like she is not someone you should have anything to do with. Even if she does have a disability of some sort that keeps her from working its not your job to support her. You are your own person and without you she would have no help at all so you are only making thighs better for her

 

[Norton]

Idk if cuck is the right word.
But I voted yes, because this situation sounds unacceptable. Why is she not working for that long?
Why does she not talk with you? Is it some abusive bullshit?
A lot of important information is left out here.

Overall IMO unless parents have a legit reason to be "crippled" (e.g. too old), kids should not be in charge of their parents.
Parents should be in charge of their kids.

 

[Animecel2D]

She should at least treat you with a bit more respect because you pay for all that stuff. Maybe tell her you will cut it off unless she changes her attitude towards you.

It just sounds like your being used tbh.

 

[Iwanttolive]

Is it taking a toll on your own income? Does she have enough money but wants you to pay? Anw, paying for certain expenses sounds fine but paying for almost everything sounds a bit too much, especially when u r not living with her

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

It’s your mother

 

[ThisHasToEnd]

I don't think there is anything wrong with helping your mom out as long as she isn't dragging you down.

 

[Monk of Failure]

No, she's your mother in the end.

 

[Deleted member 19971]

She DID spend a lot of money raising you, IF SHE WORKED during that period.
Why can't she work ?

 

[Words2_live_bye]

She sounds terrible just from your post.

 

[FinnCel]

Stop paying for her shit

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Yeah its cucked tbh. She's the main reason you're a loser incel why do you not resent that?

 

[PluralSpaceRace]

Can she get financial aid?

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Yeah its cucked tbh. She's the main reason you're a loser incel why do you not resent that?

 

[NEETard]

You are a cuck for having a mother

 

[Deleted member 6018]

Majorly cucked. Tipping a waitress $500 is less cucked than that

 

[Deleted member 6470]

The real question, what did she do while younger?

 

[WawelDragon1683]

Cucked is not the the right word, but it is pretty unfair.

 

[Deleted member 24125]

kek you pay for her shit and she still gets pissed at you?

 

[Deleted member 4159]

She sounds terrible just from your post. The way you describe it, unless she has some disability that keeps her from working, she is just being lazy and expecting you to pay for her shit.

This. Also, the fact that she gives you hell over drinking shows how entitled she is.

 

[Deleted member 19079]

??

she paid for yours growing up its not like ur one of her orbiters jfl

 

[Deleted member 19236]

She doesnt accepts you for who you are and you still give her money. Very cucked.

 

[LastGerman]

I don't live with her but I pay for the electricity bills, water, gas, groceries and some medicines.

Wait... How can you afford this in the first place?

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

Volcel if your mom doesn't pay for your expenses until late 30s/40s