Those in the wider society portrait incels as an entitled horrible persons with personal disorders ( such as narcissistic etc ). But imagine escaping 'toxic' incel ideology and completely surrendering to a societal narrative of 'mature', 'grown-up man'. Attending therapy for years ( need to say that really powerful and strong men don't go therapists, they probably don't know that such thing as a 'therapy' exists ), constantly 'working on your personality'. As a result, you will end totally deprived of your manhood, married to an abusive landwhale and working as a male nurse in some lgbt AIDS hospital. I don't have looks, intellectual capability or great physical power to thrive in society. So playing by societal rules will only weaken me.
