Normal is relative. The construct of normies is meticulously crafted to give you hope, when in reality there's none. You cannot become a normie; you don't have the right biology for it, so to speak.
Define a new normal for yourself. Why would you want to be part of this progressive degeneracy anyway? Try not to desire, I know it's hard, but the more you desire, the more you suffer. Look into Taoism. Stop aspiring to be a normie, it ain't going to happen. Condition yourself to a life of solitude and celibacy. I'm not saying you shouldn't vent about it. On the contrary, get it all out. But at the same time your efforts should be directed towards finding a solution.