buried_alive
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I see dating as being a lot like looking for a job. The applicants are the men and the interviewers are the women. Men are just sending curriculums, going on interviews, trying and hopping they get hired, or chosen, by the interviewers. Aside from trying and giving his best shot, applicants have no say in the choice. So when an interviewer hires someone who is a bad fit, it's entirely her fault. She didn't evaluate him properly, she let herself be swayed, tricked and/or smooth talked by him because of shallow characteristics (this is analogous to what happens when foids are chad-only and focus only on looks and tingles).
Women who choose to be with a dark triad, pump-and-dumper, psycho, scammer or any other bad fit, while reject guys who actually want relationships and would be good at it (us), all this based solely on looks, are entirely at fault for choosing wrong. People might change through effort, but they certainly won't change if they are achieving success, so foids changing the bad boy to good boy is bullshit. Why would the bad boy change? By being like this women also condone this horrific dating culture we live in today, they created it ffs.
So don't feel bad for her when a relationship blows up in the women's face, she brought it on herself. This is also why women don't get to complain about dating - any complaint should be dismissed. She lost at her own game.
Women who choose to be with a dark triad, pump-and-dumper, psycho, scammer or any other bad fit, while reject guys who actually want relationships and would be good at it (us), all this based solely on looks, are entirely at fault for choosing wrong. People might change through effort, but they certainly won't change if they are achieving success, so foids changing the bad boy to good boy is bullshit. Why would the bad boy change? By being like this women also condone this horrific dating culture we live in today, they created it ffs.
So don't feel bad for her when a relationship blows up in the women's face, she brought it on herself. This is also why women don't get to complain about dating - any complaint should be dismissed. She lost at her own game.