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SuicideFuel After seeing how easy it is for Attractive people, I refuse to put any effort.

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Before I used to delude myself into thinking I "wasn't trying hard enough".

Then I noticed how girls used to dm my Chadlite friend first. How they used to ask me to hook them up with him. How he always seemed to have a new girlfriend every month. How girls ogled at him.

Then I realized I'd never experienced anything close to that. My phone was always dry. Girls never asked my my name. They never showed interest.

My friend doesn't even have to worry about all this. It doesn't even register in his mind to do NoFap, or cold showers, or "put himself out there", or get hobbies. He just gets girls.

After seeing this, I refuse to try. Forcing myself to talk to girls(who quite clearly don't like talking to me) always made me uncomfortable. It's just not for me. If a girl doesn't outright message me asking to fuck, I'm not going to put any effort. It's not worth it. The rejections keep making me feel worse.
 
You are coping by thinking effort gets you results.
You don't have a choice.
 
I went through the same situation.
 
Reading this was painful . Dame son .
 
Yeah, there is no point in even trying if you are not decent looking. I realised this years ago.
 
High IQ thread, and suifuel. It never began for us.
 
Before I used to delude myself into thinking I "wasn't trying hard enough".

Then I noticed how girls used to dm my Chadlite friend first. How they used to ask me to hook them up with him. How he always seemed to have a new girlfriend every month. How girls ogled at him.

Then I realized I'd never experienced anything close to that. My phone was always dry. Girls never asked my my name. They never showed interest.

My friend doesn't even have to worry about all this. It doesn't even register in his mind to do NoFap, or cold showers, or "put himself out there", or get hobbies. He just gets girls.

After seeing this, I refuse to try. Forcing myself to talk to girls(who quite clearly don't like talking to me) always made me uncomfortable. It's just not for me. If a girl doesn't outright message me asking to fuck, I'm not going to put any effort. It's not worth it. The rejections keep making me feel worse.
Daily reminder that if you have to really try, you’ve already lost the game to begin with
 
Your life was set the moment you were born. You and I are essentially watching a movie, and you and I can't fucking do anything about it.
 
If you never made most efforts within your available reach,

F A K E C E L.

I don't care about you jerking off to Chads, my statement is objectively correct. In my case, if effort could compensate, I would put in as much effort as possible. And I tried as hard as I could, but it didn't matter.
 
Before I used to delude myself into thinking I "wasn't trying hard enough".

Then I noticed how girls used to dm my Chadlite friend first. How they used to ask me to hook them up with him. How he always seemed to have a new girlfriend every month. How girls ogled at him.

Then I realized I'd never experienced anything close to that. My phone was always dry. Girls never asked my my name. They never showed interest.

My friend doesn't even have to worry about all this. It doesn't even register in his mind to do NoFap, or cold showers, or "put himself out there", or get hobbies. He just gets girls.

After seeing this, I refuse to try. Forcing myself to talk to girls(who quite clearly don't like talking to me) always made me uncomfortable. It's just not for me. If a girl doesn't outright message me asking to fuck, I'm not going to put any effort. It's not worth it. The rejections keep making me feel worse.
It's over.:feelshaha::feelsrope:
 
Daily reminder that if you have to really try, you’ve already lost the game to begin with

ouch. So true. Wish I would of known that 15 years ago. Woulda saved a lot of time, effort and money
 
The whole try-hard idea seems ridiculous when I step back and think about it.

How would 'trying harder' make a girl find you more sexually attractive lol. Who even came up with that idea.. I guess coping beta males.
 
I agree and have the same sentiment. I have put in absolutely no effort into trying to have sex or get foids. I refuse to put a single bit of effort into it if foids will fuck chads in a heartbeat. I would rather just escortcell instead.
 
Sounds reasonable.
 
You are coping by thinking effort gets you results.
If you're born an ugly male then you either die an incel or you earn enough money to betabuxx a fat 2/10 foid that will cheat on you anyways.
 
I mean... okay. Not really sure what you are planning to do then. At least commit yourself to something if not foids than anything else. Wealthmaxxing is a pretty nice cope to focus on.
 
Your life was set the moment you were born. You and I are essentially watching a movie, and you and I can't fucking do anything about it.

i often feel like the background npc in other peoples stories. always invisible and ignored.

also may is inferior to serena for pokegirl status :dafuckfeels:
 

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