Advice for extroverts

[Heathcheshire]

Just get yourself out there to the pubs, bars and clubs. Even by yourself.

I used to go the pub alone. I travel alone. Stay in hotels alone. Go to shows alone. At least I'm out there

I also talk to people. Pretty much anyone.

Why let the bullies win? The world is ours as much as theirs

 

[Corvus]

The children on here will insult you for saying that but you are 100% correct.

Any more good advice?

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Show tits

 

[RandomGuy]

Any more good advice?

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[Heathcheshire]

It makes no sense to dwell indoors and miss out on the good stuff outside.

 

[NIKOCADO AVOCADO]

It makes no sense to dwell indoors and miss out on the good stuff outside.

Your advice may work for certain types of incel that are NT and don't have a lot of bad traits mixed in

However, that advice is simply HORRENDOUS for non NT very ugly incels like myself, i've tried, you can't win against a fucked up brain because of mental conditions, the only thing i got after trying to socialize was mockery and tiktok videos against me at my college.

Now, going alone to restaurants, movies to enjoy them if you like?, sure, i've done it, i like going to restaurants when they're not full and enjoy a good meal, but thats another topic on embracing yourself as a social failure.

 

[Heathcheshire]

Your advice may work for certain types of incel that are NT and don't have a lot of bad traits mixed in

However, that advice is simply HORRENDOUS for non NT very ugly incels like myself, i've tried, you can't win against a fucked up brain because of mental conditions, the only thing i got after trying to socialize was mockery and tiktok videos against me at my college.

Now, going alone to restaurants, movies to enjoy them if you like?, sure, i've done it, i like going to restaurants when they're not full and enjoy a good meal, but thats another topic on embracing yourself as a social failure.

I laugh when mocked or stand up for myself. Depends on if it is serious or not.

 

[NIKOCADO AVOCADO]

I laugh when mocked or stand up for myself. Depends on if it is serious or not.

In my case my solution was to isolate myself except when i go out to meet my truecel friend, then its good.

Still i believe most incels should try your advice at least once to see what they manage to get, i don't really consider someone an incel unless they truly tried and failed miserably (with some exceptions of course). I tried my best and it was an horrible mistake, but some incels will try and maybe get some networking going.

I do agree too that there good stuff outside at least if you use it for your copes, im obsessed with blades so for me going to the victorinox shop is very comfy, for me isolation is not about shutting yourself in your room for years and never leaving it, but about understanding your position on the social ladder and learning to give up (after trying)

 

[over_department]

It makes no sense to dwell indoors and miss out on the good stuff outside.

You make a good point