It's Over Accepting that im truthfully ugly is bittersweet

[Gymcel25]

I used to beat myself up for being so quiet and not making moves with women. I hated that I was shy with no confidence and everytime I tried to self improve I would fail. It turns out it was all out of my control. Women decide if they want to be with me within a few seconds and nothing I say or did matters. I didn’t have the look to meet their requirements. Looking I can forgive myself because I was dealt with inferior genetics. It’s a relief from the torment of shame and regret I put myself through these years. Except now the future looks bleak. There’s really no hope for me that things will get better and no reason to think it will.

 

[Gymcelled]

Melvin effect, you would have been confident and low inhib had you had positive life experiences

The melvin effect - Why chad is low inhib and incels are high inhib | Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate

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[Joker]

Melvin effect, you would have been confident and low inhib had you had positive life experiences

The melvin effect - Why chad is low inhib and incels are high inhib | Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate

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the Melvinpill was fucking brutal to swallow
But it just makes so much fucking sense, it's ropefuel

 

[omnigold]

Sadly NT standards are still very high.

 

[Mainländer]

Nothing you DO really matters when it comes to romance and sex. This is the hard pill to swallow, most men can't do it.

 

[Iwanttolive]

In a way, I'm relieved I did not approach all the girls I had crushes on in school.