Absurdism is the logical conclusion to Inceldom.

[AnApparentMyth]

Think about it. What are we gonna end up as 40 year olds, if we are only half that now? Are we still going to be chasing girls even thought our youth and prime is 100% over? If we have to think about our futures, what is going to be our reasons for continuing? (If we even do?) Stoicism, and every other self performance boosting type of philosophy doesn't work for people like us. It just won't make sense when we know the truth. Nihilism is good, but I feel like that leads to other paths. There is a big difference between Nihilism, and Absurdism. One embraces it, and the other falls to it. If we fall to it, it truly does mean no copes, no life, not even movement. Just a complete coast with no sense of a single spec of joy left. Absurdism is sort of a combination of Nihilism and Existentialism. It fuels us by knowing that...nothing actually matters, so who gives a shit? Right? If you wanna eat yourself into oblivion, who cares? Or, what about doing something illegal? It's all up to you. And I feel like this is the conclusion to all of us, at some point in time.

 

[AnApparentMyth]

Bumpy road

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Just do whatever wild shit you can in life theory is legit

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Bumpy road

View: https://youtu.be/4AnDtR2v454?si=uGM6mCYn01YjhZPC

 

[AnApparentMyth]

View: https://youtu.be/4AnDtR2v454?si=uGM6mCYn01YjhZPC

HOLY SHIT I USED TO WATCH THIS. AND NIGHT-CORE IN GENERAL!

 

[AnApparentMyth]

Just do whatever wild shit you can in life theory is legit

For real. Such a freeing mindset.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

HOLY SHIT I USED TO WATCH THIS. AND NIGHT-CORE IN GENERAL!

Based I love these

 

[Nullified]

I will never live till 40 I would rather kill myself. The pain of living that long will be unbearable. Live fast die young is my motto

 

[AnApparentMyth]

I will never live till 40 I would rather kill myself. The pain of living that long will be unbearable. Live fast die young is my motto

Same. But what age are you now, then?

 

[Nullified]

Same. But what age are you now, then?

24

 

[AnApparentMyth]

24

And what age do you see yourself making it to, man?

 

[Nullified]

And what age do you see yourself making it to, man?

25 at maximum. Need a quick escape. Looking into methods recently

 

[AnApparentMyth]

25 at maximum. Need a quick escape. Looking into methods recently

Damn man. I can't say that I you shouldn't do it since I myself don't like this place or world. But I hope you can have a moment of fun and pure joy before you go

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

OK.

I'm 43. You learn to make your peace with the life that you have, and the way that the world is.

It helps if you can get yourself a few grown-up goals, like a career or owning your own place. That definitely helps you to look at yourself in the mirror and know the problem isn't you, you measured up, you achieved the things normies want. Therefore the only problem is clearly you don't look like Chad.... and that's women's fault, not your fault.

 

[Nullified]

But I hope you can have a moment of fun and pure joy before you go

Thanks mang i appreciate it. Brutal life

 

[AnApparentMyth]

OK.

I'm 43. You learn to make your peace with the life that you have, and the way that the world is.

It helps if you can get yourself a few grown-up goals, like a career or owning your own place. That definitely helps you to look at yourself in the mirror and know the problem isn't you, you measured up, you achieved the things normies want. Therefore the only problem is clearly you don't look like Chad.... and that's women's fault, not your fault.

Exactly. And damn, I'm like half your age. How did you make it this far?

 

[AnApparentMyth]

Thanks mang i appreciate it. Brutal life

Stay safe bro

 

[Nullified]

Stay safe bro

You too brocel

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

Exactly. And damn, I'm like half your age. How did you make it this far?

Rock bottom was early 30s for me. Made a half-assed attempt at sui but pussied out. Experiencing that showed me I didn't want to die and I wanted to keep toughing it out and keep trying.

I've definitely come to a more peaceful acceptance of it all now.

 

[AnApparentMyth]

Rock bottom was early 30s for me. Made a half-assed attempt at sui but pussied out. Experiencing that showed me I didn't want to die and I wanted to keep toughing it out and keep trying.

I've definitely come to a more peaceful acceptance of it all now.

Yeah, sounds like something I did to when I was a bit younger. I tried twice. It was more scary then I thought. For me, acceptance is like the hardest part. Not necessarily that this is my fault, but the fact that I will be a Chad, or someone attractive.

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

Yeah, sounds like something I did to when I was a bit younger. I tried twice. It was more scary then I thought. For me, acceptance is like the hardest part. Not necessarily that this is my fault, but the fact that I will be a Chad, or someone attractive.

A lot of it is FOMO when you're younger. Fear Of Missing Out. I need to gf my oneitis right now, before she's taken by a jock like all the other girls at high school. I need to meet a GF before my time at university ends and I'm back in normal society. I need to meet a GF soon if I'm going to start a family of my own before I get too old.

It's all FOMO. And eventually, you start to understand that you are too old for that, and even if you met someone tomorrow, you're too old for all of that now and it didn't happen.

The finality of "it didn't happen" is actually better than the fear of "what if it doesn't happen?" believe it or not. It gives you a kind of permission to stop panicking about it.

 

[AnApparentMyth]

A lot of it is FOMO when you're younger. Fear Of Missing Out. I need to gf my oneitis right now, before she's taken by a jock like all the other girls at high school. I need to meet a GF before my time at university ends and I'm back in normal society. I need to meet a GF soon if I'm going to start a family of my own before I get too old.

It's all FOMO. And eventually, you start to understand that you are too old for that, and even if you met someone tomorrow, you're too old for all of that now and it didn't happen.

The finality of "it didn't happen" is actually better than the fear of "what if it doesn't happen?" believe it or not. It gives you a kind of permission to stop panicking about it.

True. I guess that in the end, if you never had a chance, it's better to realize it then keep trying. Do you believe in Nihilism, or MGTOW per chance?

 

[Emba]

Whatever you say Dada

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

True. I guess that in the end, if you never had a chance, it's better to realize it then keep trying. Do you believe in Nihilism, or MGTOW per chance?

I believe in the irony of MGTOW.
Anyone who says he's MGTOW, isn't going his own way, he is seething about being sent his own way by some particular ex foid, so consumed by it that he's joined the group to cry about it.

That's why their forums are full of photos they've taken of pathetic meals they've made themselves, pathetic fish they've caught... they aren't going their own way, they are desperately looking for a replacement source of the validation Becky gave them.

Basically I try to live as though aex doesn't exist, and women don't exist, at least not in the form where any of them are people who I can hope to have any kind of special intimacy with one.

I believe Wilkes McDermid correctly described the blackpill: Women are genetically programmed to seek out mates with certain desireble attributes. If you are a man and you don't have all of those, or at least most of them, then it's game over for you.

Wilkes was very certain that where he lived in London, there were three:
1. Height
2. White (or black... just don't be asian) 3. Wealth, or some other manifestation of power.

I'm not too convinced that there are only ever three, or that those are the three. (As a whitecel, I obviously disagree that being white is a ticket to success with women. )

But his understanding of the big picture was spot on. Women are looking for certain things. They are generally all looking for the same things. You can see this in how they agree with one another when they talk about the men they do desire.
And if you're not what women want, you'll know it. And that won't ever change, no matter how well you try to live your life.

I believe that's how the world is, because I've lived that for long enough to see that that's how it is, and it doesn't change.
That long experience of it is the foundation for a life where I protect myself from the disappointments that love and desire can bring, by having no expectations.

 

[BPmonk]

Very true,

I always felt like absurdism was kind of like a proactive nihilism