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In 1887 a phenomenon called photoelectric effect was observed. In brief it was emission of electrons when light hits a material.

One characteristic property of this phenomenon was that electrons were only released if the light had a particular frequency or higher. If it was lower than this particular frequency no electrons were released no matter how much the intensity was increased , but if a light of the particular frequency or higher hits the same surface electrons would be emitted even if the intensity was less.

The "Sexual market" is pretty similar. You must have a particular facial characteristics/height/body to get involved with a girl/woman. If you don't have those traits you will not have a girlfriend/wife no matter how hard you try. Conversely one with the particular looks would find it easy to get a girlfriend/wife without much effort.
 
This doesn't explain it though? It just says "It'll never work, give up." How do I know if my face/height/body isn't the right light frequency? Throwing around scientifical sounding analogies doesn't strengthen the argument.
 
This doesn't explain it though? It just says "It'll never work, give up." How do I know if my face/height/body isn't the right light frequency? Throwing around scientifical sounding analogies doesn't strengthen the argument.
True. I didn't meant the analogy to be precise but rather to be taken in a broad sense.
 
This doesn't explain it though? It just says "It'll never work, give up." How do I know if my face/height/body isn't the right light frequency? Throwing around scientifical sounding analogies doesn't strengthen the argument.
It explains it perfectly. Approaching is bluepill cope if youre a sub7 male.
 
This doesn't explain it though? It just says "It'll never work, give up." How do I know if my face/height/body isn't the right light frequency? Throwing around scientifical sounding analogies doesn't strengthen the argument.
How many approaches before you can declare it over? 50? 100? 1000? 10,000? What is the probability of failing 50 times in a row but succeeding after 10,000 times?
 
It explains it perfectly. Approaching is bluepill cope if youre a sub7 male.
sub8 male to be honest.
your analogy works OP.
approaching wont do shit for you unless you're a 7/8+ male
 
This doesn't explain it though? It just says "It'll never work, give up." How do I know if my face/height/body isn't the right light frequency?
:soy:
How many approaches before you can declare it over? 50? 100? 1000? 10,000? What is the probability of failing 50 times in a row but succeeding after 10,000 times?
Honestly i feel like this guy should be riding the short bus to all his destinations.
It explains it perfectly. Approaching is bluepill cope if youre a sub7 male.
Cope

5/10 and 6/10 males can also cold approach. Hell even 5/10 males can get approached once in a blue moon. You only believe sub7 because you're a borderline failed normie.

"Game" only works for 5+/10 males.
 
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Go talk to a few women, it doesn't have to be more than 10. Notice their body language around you, if they look you in the face and how much effort they are putting into the conversation. If five or more of them reject you than you can just give up right then and there. Remembering how you were treated in highschool by foids will also help. I'm sure that tall, handsome football Chad in highschool who was getting lays left and right sure did have a good personality right. Must have been all the hobbies he took up.
 
The problem with the numbers game is there are actual consequences to getting blown off now.

Before they could keep doing it and no one would care. I suspect this is coz most PUAs are like 6'2 with good features so that's already cheating.

If you try doing it now as a non-chad, people are going to start noticing after you get blown off for the 5th time and call the police for harassment.
 
It explains it perfectly. Approaching is bluepill cope if youre a sub7 male.

This is not "blackpilled." Too many people are using the blackpill as an excuse to be cowards, yet when people accuse us of not putting in effort we wanna say THEY'RE the ones who are wrong. We can't have it both ways. We can't criticize our detractors when they say we don't put in effort, but then not put in effort.

How many approaches before you can declare it over? 50? 100? 1000? 10,000? What is the probability of failing 50 times in a row but succeeding after 10,000 times?

As long as you're trying, that's all that counts. As long as you're presently in your life putting in effort to be happy, you're allowed to be unhappy and blame the world for it. Because you're doing your part, something else must be missing.
 
Just keep running at a brick wall bro
 
In reality the way it works is either every woman likes you or none likes you.
 
avogadro's number iq post
 
This doesn't explain it though? It just says "It'll never work, give up." How do I know if my face/height/body isn't the right light frequency? Throwing around scientifical sounding analogies doesn't strengthen the argument.
If it was the right light frequency, you'd have been successful within the first few approaches.
 
your analogy works OP.

Not to mention that for some reason people think you can approach foids and get rejected 100 times without it affecting your energy/strength/outlook. Every rejection is a slight injury/diminishment. I imagine energy also gets weaker with increased failures.

Cliffs: How does one remain positive upon x rejections? Sad.
 
Getting socially rejected affects the same part of the brain as actual physical pain. I seriously don't understand how people can think it's a good idea to approach women and have your already fragile self esteem and ego destroyed. You're either hot or not. If you're average looking, just looksmax and see what you can get from there
 
If it was the right light frequency, you'd have been successful within the first few approaches.

I don't think that's true. Because plenty of normies go through "dry periods" and "rough patches." In fact, that's the gatekeeping tactic we use to keep them out. "You're not incel!" we say. "Just because you've been broken up for a few months and haven't gotten laid in those few months doesn't make you one of us!"

We're so proud to tell women and normie men they're not trying hard enough. But when they tell us we're not trying hard enough, suddenly we wanna be like "The Blackpill says if pussy doesn't fall into my lap over the next few days, It's Over and I should LDAR!"
 
b-but i know a ugly friend of mine that has a girlfr~
 
I don't think that's true. Because plenty of normies go through "dry periods" and "rough patches." In fact, that's the gatekeeping tactic we use to keep them out. "You're not incel!" we say. "Just because you've been broken up for a few months and haven't gotten laid in those few months doesn't make you one of us!"

We're so proud to tell women and normie men they're not trying hard enough. But when they tell us we're not trying hard enough, suddenly we wanna be like "The Blackpill says if pussy doesn't fall into my lap over the next few days, It's Over and I should LDAR!"


You seem peculiar and angry...maybe you should find another forum that is more aligned with your beliefs. I'm sure many others here would agree with me. Good luck on your quest.

Cliffs: GTFO
 
You seem peculiar and angry...maybe you should find another forum that is more aligned with your beliefs. I'm sure many others here would agree with me. Good luck on your quest.

Cliffs: GTFO

Do people wanna have discussions here, or live in echo chambers?
 
Do people wanna have discussions here, or live in echo chambers?

The latter tbh. Most people hear of the concept of looksmaxxing and flip shit because of a "crabs in the bucket" mentality. Kinda sad ngl
 
You seem peculiar and angry...maybe you should find another forum that is more aligned with your beliefs. I'm sure many others here would agree with me. Good luck on your quest.

Cliffs: GTFO
^^^^^THIS
:soy:

Honestly i feel like this guy should be riding the short bus to all his destinations.

Cope

5/10 and 6/10 males can also cold approach. Hell even 5/10 males can get approached once in a blue moon. You only believe sub7 because you're a borderline failed normie.

"Game" only works for 5+/10 males.
Cope. Even 7/10s struggle with cold approaches. Why would 5s & 6s have a chance? Remember that holes are hypergamous. They do not want average men.

Also I can already tell that 5/10 men getting approached is bullshit jfl. What is this, bluepill.co? :feelshaha: :feelshaha:

Its chad(lite) or nothing in 2020+. Anything else is delusional.
 
^^^^^THIS

Cope. Even 7/10s struggle with cold approaches. Why would 5s & 6s have a chance? Remember that holes are hypergamous. They do not want average men.

Also I can already tell that 5/10 men getting approached is bullshit jfl. What is this, bluepill.co? :feelshaha: :feelshaha:

Its chad(lite) or nothing in 2020+. Anything else is delusional.
Dude, do you even go out and see the general public?
 
Dude, do you even go out and see the general public?
I go to school 5 days a week, 7 hours a day, if that counts. (Except winter break Dec-20 to Jan-6) Only the good looking guys get approaches and have girlfriends. Most average looking guys at my school are incel in denial.
 
What if you're like 4-7/10? I think people in that range can get something from mass approaching. The betting average is extremely bad anyway of course.
 
I don't get this community's obsession with analogies. Inceldom is one of those things where you have to experience it to really understand it. We don't need to justify ourselves to outsiders. Giving them the finger is plenty.
 
I go to school 5 days a week, 7 hours a day, if that counts. (Except winter break Dec-20 to Jan-6) Only the good looking guys get approaches and have girlfriends. Most average looking guys at my school are incel in denial.
Hmm this is going to end up being a pissing contest so I won't indulge any further. I've had plenty of experiences that contradict what you say about sub8 or nothing. Its major Cope.

Average looking guys do get laid, they're not "incel" they just have to work harder than 6+males and have to settle on sub5 foids. The only average guys who dont get laid are shut ins who can't even look people in the eye.
 
Hmm this is going to end up being a pissing contest so I won't indulge any further. I've had plenty of experiences that contradict what you say about sub8 or nothing. Its major Cope.

Average looking guys do get laid, they're not "incel" they just have to work harder than 6+males and have to settle on sub5 foids. The only average guys who dont get laid are shut ins who can't even look people in the eye.
Average includes average height, & average NT. If youre an autistic manlet its over. Especially for autistic manlets who are also sub5 (me)
 
I don't get this community's obsession with analogies. Inceldom is one of those things where you have to experience it to really understand it. We don't need to justify ourselves to outsiders. Giving them the finger is plenty.
Indeed they dont get it. They dont understand that they just got their pussy not based on intelligence or any kind of hard work, but on the fact that foids are attracted to them. Would we have the same looks as them our success rate would be the same for most of us. We were just unlucky that god showed us the middle finger in that regard when we were born. Just 100 hundered years ago this wouldnt have made a difference though, because foids couldnt choose their partner, but almost all marriages were arranged if the socioeconomic status was fitting.
 
All you need to debunk approaching is IOI. You cannot, I repeat, CANNOT change a woman's perceptions of your sexual value by the mere act of talking to her instead of not doing it. You may change her perception about your morals, your intelligence, your social skills. But none of that causes sexual attraction. Every male trait besides looks works only as a bonus in the female mind. You could be a chad in a vegetative state and she will still prefer you over any sub 7 man.
 
Approaching is bluepill cope if youre a sub7 male.
All you need to debunk approaching is IOI. You cannot, I repeat, CANNOT change a woman's perceptions of your sexual value by the mere act of talking to her instead of not doing it. You may change her perception about your morals, your intelligence, your social skills. But none of that causes sexual attraction. Every male trait besides looks works only as a bonus in the female mind. You could be a chad in a vegetative state and she will still prefer you over any sub 7 man.
High IQ
 
Average includes average height, & average NT. If youre an autistic manlet its over. Especially for autistic manlets who are also sub5 (me)
The guy u replied to has no idea how bad hypergamy is from these younger foids.
 
The guy u replied to has no idea how bad hypergamy is from these younger foids.
Factual, it's either Chad or rotting at home with low effort tiktoks for their orbiters to get attention for them
 
5/10 and 6/10 males can also cold approach. Hell even 5/10 males can get approached once in a blue moon. You only believe sub7 because you're a borderline failed normie.

"Game" only works for 5+/10 males.
This
How many approaches before you can declare it over? 50? 100? 1000? 10,000? What is the probability of failing 50 times in a row but succeeding after 10,000 times?
Its a good question. There is no 100% right answer even thought its a crucial question related to inceldom.
I'd argue somewhere between 50 and 500.

Let's say you do 10 approaches in your whole life. Is that a reasonable sample size to conclude its over? Obviously not
An approach doesn't need to be a cold approach either. You can do warm approaches at parties, social gatherings. Friends of friends etc etc.
If you can't do these above, you are not a truecel but a mentalcel.
They do not want average men.
Its chad(lite) or nothing in 2020+. Anything else is delusional.
I'd buy this argument if you are talking about specific contexts like one high school or one town.
You can not literally tell me this applies to whole countries and the general population?
 
The guy u replied to has no idea how bad hypergamy is from these younger foids.
Exactly. Some people on here are still a little bluepilled.
I'd buy this argument if you are talking about specific contexts like one high school or one town.
You can not literally tell me this applies to whole countries and the general population?
I'm talking about western countries. USA, Canada, European countries, etc)
 
Exactly. Some people on here are still a little bluepilled.
I think they’re just old, Snapchat, Tiktok, and Snapchat weren’t around when they were younger, so the girls back then didn’t have as inflated of an ego as they do now, increasing their standards significantly
 
Exactly. Some people on here are still a little bluepilled.

I'm talking about western countries. USA, Canada, European countries, etc)
So you are saying everyone is incel but chad in western countries? wtf man...
I think they’re just old, Snapchat, Tiktok, and Snapchat weren’t around when they were younger, so the girls back then didn’t have as inflated of an ego as they do now, increasing their standards significantly
No, i get that hypergamy is as harsh as it has ever been, especially in younger ages. BUT im not gonna go to the extremes and say 90% of men are incel. Thats just anti scientific and retarded
 
No, i get that hypergamy is as harsh as it has ever been, especially in younger ages. BUT im not gonna go to the extremes and say 90% of men are incel. Thats just anti scientific and retarded
I never claimed 90% of men were incel, but it’s certain that 90% of men aren’t Chads, and women only desire Chads, they tolerate normal men
 
So you are saying everyone is incel but chad in western countries? wtf man...
No. High tier normies and chadlites are not incel. However, they are still struggling but not as much as sub6 males (incels).
 
No. High tier normies and chadlites are not incel. However, they are still struggling but not as much as sub6 males (incels).


I know a normtard who complained to me that he meets women on Tinder but the relationships never seem to last. out of politeness, I asked him if its something he did to drive them away and he said "no they seem to like me but then just fade away for some reason??" I wanted to blackpill him and tell him what's going on is that foids are finding better options via their smartphone but figured I'd let him learn for himself. I actually said they probably are going after Chad (forgot I wasn't on the forum) and he said "What???".

So yes, some normies can have some degree of success IRL (but with whom? These aren't Stacies just average 165lbs plainfaced foids) and at what cost (literally how much is he spending on his dates before they fizzle out and what is the psychological cost of having several relationships that only last 6wks if at all?). I know he feels worse about himself and I've seen one of his dates who was not even remotely what someone would refer to as pretty (but in her defense...neither is he!).

Cliffs: It's Over
 
Let's say you do 10 approaches in your whole life. Is that a reasonable sample size to conclude its over? Obviously not
An approach doesn't need to be a cold approach either. You can do warm approaches at parties, social gatherings. Friends of friends etc etc.
If you can't do these above, you are not a truecel but a mentalcel.
I'm both. I've exhausted all my warm approach possibilities, not many female social connections when you are a 23 year old with not even a single friend. I've done roughly 10 warm approaches and 35 or so cold approaches in real life through churches, work, random chicks in stores, coffee shops, ect. My first few approaches were cringe and anxiety filled, but after you do about 5 it comes second nature. The process feels like hitting your head on a brick wall in the effort of knocking it down, it's not going to fall down on it's own but the pain gets worse every time you try.

Meanwhile my normie coworkers approach 2 or 3 girls and they have a girlfriend.
 
Average includes average height, & average NT. If youre an autistic manlet its over. Especially for autistic manlets who are also sub5 (me)
Cope

Where Im at, I see guys I height mog walking around with GFs and having relationships. Just being NT is enough.
I know a normtard who complained to me that he meets women on Tinder but the relationships never seem to last. out of politeness, I asked him if its something he did to drive them away and he said "no they seem to like me but then just fade away for some reason??" I wanted to blackpill him and tell him what's going on is that foids are finding better options via their smartphone but figured I'd let him learn for himself. I actually said they probably are going after Chad (forgot I wasn't on the forum) and he said "What???".

So yes, some normies can have some degree of success IRL (but with whom? These aren't Stacies just average 165lbs plainfaced foids) and at what cost (literally how much is he spending on his dates before they fizzle out and what is the psychological cost of having several relationships that only last 6wks if at all?). I know he feels worse about himself and I've seen one of his dates who was not even remotely what someone would refer to as pretty (but in her defense...neither is he!).

Cliffs: It's Over
This.

Getting one night stands and spreading legs open is one thing for a normie.

The main issue is getting commitment out of a foid.

You're not getting that if you're broke and retarded. There's better looking males who are retarded too.
All you need to debunk approaching is IOI. You cannot, I repeat, CANNOT change a woman's perceptions of your sexual value by the mere act of talking to her instead of not doing it. You may change her perception about your morals, your intelligence, your social skills. But none of that causes sexual attraction. Every male trait besides looks works only as a bonus in the female mind. You could be a chad in a vegetative state and she will still prefer you over any sub 7 man.
The guy u replied to has no idea how bad hypergamy is from these younger foids.
Basement Dweller IQ posts. If you think normtards are as sexless as you are, you're a fucking Retard, point blank.
I'd buy this argument if you are talking about specific contexts like one high school or one town.
You can not literally tell me this applies to whole countries and the general population?
It fucking doesn't apply, you're literally arguing with Basement Dweller logic.

All you need to do is invest a good amount of time bar hopping, analyze the people you see and assess your own perception on the matter and you will see plenty of low tier normies and average guys with GFs and wives. Sometimes the foid mogs the guy in looks and everything else in play can still come down to betabuxxing with a slave wage salary. You can't do this properly if you cant rate for shit.

Ive seen dumbasses on here rate 5-6/10 foids as sub4.

Truecels can't betabux with a wageslave salary.
 
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If you're attractive enough for one girl, then you'll be attractive enough for most of them.
 
Hes going off Einsteins theory of Insanity:

"Trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results"
I don't think that's true. Because plenty of normies go through "dry periods" and "rough patches."
Within the photoelectric effect, if the frequency of the Electromagnetic radiation is ever so slightly above the work function (the Energy required to liberate an electron from the surface of the metal), the electron SHALL be released, but the current detected by the galvonmeter will be minuscule (current is just the flow of charge/electrons, so we use the above equipment to detect the released electrons as they're too small to see).

That's normies.
They'll have to approach 100000s of times to make any noticeable impact.
What if you're like 4-7/10? I think people in that range can get something from mass approaching. The betting average is extremely bad anyway of course.
See above.
 
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