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SuicideFuel A loving family is the breeding ground for success

LostSoulUK

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A loving family is the foundation for success in life, which most of us here have severely lacked, this is the sad reality. Success is of course determined by looks but also that pillar of support from the ground up. It's no coincidence that most successful people in life from celebrities, entrepreneurs to sportsmen have this in abundance and abundance is the pillar of success.

In its absence is deprivation, loneliness, depression, addiction, abuse you name it. Without that critical foundation, all roads lead to ruin, Fuck This Life :whatfeels: .
 
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success is something your born with.
 
Success is all luck. You need multiple successful dice rolls to win. The first major dice roll is where you're born. Statistically you're most likely to be born in India or China so you're lucky if you're born anywhere else.

The second dice roll is family family and upbringing. Whether or not they'll be rich, poor, or just average. If they're nice or abusive. You can get unlucky on this roll but it's possible to escape its negative results with the third roll.

The third and most important dice roll is genes. Even if you're lucky enough to not be born in India or China, you can still end up miserable if you get a bad roll. Most people get an ok roll. Some people get a good roll. However, if you get a bad roll you're incredibly unlucky.
 
Statistically you're most likely to be born in India or China so you're lucky if you're born anywhere else.
There's more than a 65% chance that you're born somewhere else though :lul:
 
There's more than a 65% chance that you're born somewhere else though :lul:
The thing is you're still most likely to be born in some slums you can't escape from. It's over for so many individuals just because of where they spawned.
 
The thing is you're still most likely to be born in some slums you can't escape from. It's over for so many individuals just because of where they spawned.
I don't think that poverty is that important in determining how satisfied you are with your life (I'd rather be a poor, attractive man in some Siberian slum, than a deformed billionaire in a wheelchair), but that's true to an extent.
 
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True, a broken foundation sets you up for failure from the start. Though if you have good genetics you can compensate.
 
I don't think that poverty is that important in determining how satisfied you are with your life (I'd rather be a poor, attractive man in some Siberian slum, than a deformed billionaire in a wheelchair), but that's true to an extent.
If you're being born in some shit hole you'll probably be ugly.
 
Well in terms of success your right its hardly determined by luck. But I would say that you can have one or two bad dice rolls and still be successfull in life. I would even give the Redpillers a point and say that, thinks like econimic wealth can actually be influeced by yourself.

But I would say that overall happiness is completly determined on facts that you cant or just barrely influence

But maybe Im just not blackpilled enough that I think that way.
 
If you're being born in some shit hole you'll probably be ugly.
Mostly only true for shitholes within developed countries. If you've ever seen early 1900s footage of ordinary people, they don't look bad at all, despite living in extreme poverty by today's standards.
 
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Breeding is the breeding ground for a loving family
 
Being an only child with one dead parent and basically no other close family remaining means you have essentially no support. Combine that with lack of friends and gf, and you’re never gonna get out of that pit.
 
Being an only child with one dead parent and basically no other close family remaining means you have essentially no support. Combine that with lack of friends and gf, and you’re never gonna get out of that pit.
:yes:
 
I don't think that poverty is that important in determining how satisfied you are with your life (I'd rather be a poor, attractive man in some Siberian slum, than a deformed billionaire in a wheelchair), but that's true to an extent.
Poor and stupid people have more sex
 
loving family would have gotten you surgical procedures and good mental health to start with.
 
Nah, looks are.

I have a loving family. It's just made me lazy and entitled.
 
It plays a huge role for how well adapted you will be for life.
 
Childhood is also a factor that shapes ur upbringing and childhood is determined by the factors mentioned above. Throughout school I was very withdrawn and often bullied for being so introverted an being a manlet I'm guessin.

In early school, older girls would bully me during break time, taking the piss out of me, even tricking me into believing they was my friend. In secondary school I was often isolated as my 2 so called friends would abandon me.

I hated school so much, often feigning sickness to get time off. College as well was hell as a loner, unable to form connections. At work ive also faced segregation in every working environment. Spoken down to an outright ghosted for no reason.

I've suffered with mental health all my life, specifically anxiety an depression. Even as a kid I was a loner and a worrier. As a recluse maybe a lot of my social issues are self inflicted but I do feel genetics are a factor as I've always been treated differently despite being friendly.

I've had many experiences were people would take the piss out of my big nose an manlet height, including managers. I guess mental health is also genetic considering my dad also suffered from anxiety, but then again he was a drug dealer from what I know.

These circumstances and factors are the manifestation of what we are today. In essence, our very being is by pure chance. If our closest ancestors never gave birth an our parents never met, would we even exist :whatfeels:.

Being an only child with one dead parent and basically no other close family remaining means you have essentially no support. Combine that with lack of friends and gf, and you’re never gonna get out of that pit.
Pretty much me, my dad died when I was 12, I never even knew the fucker. My brother is an abusive sociopath who made my life hell, thank fuck I finally flew the nest last october. I've never been that close with my mum because of how different I am.

And the rest of my aunts, uncles, cousins are the most miserable people who have never bothered with me.
 

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