When he told me i was torn between JFL and compassion, to fight all your life to fuck a girl and then not be able to get it on when you manage to must be hard.
A friend of mine who was also an INCEL finally invited a girl home, but wasn't able to have an erection.
he has ED or was just nervous?
Maybe she was too ugly.
It was probably his looksmatch and so he couldn't get an erection
LOL
To know if you have ED or not you must have sex partners, she's his first.
If he watches too much porn than may be ED. Otherwise you should get an erection unless the girl is extremely ugly and fat
Feels bad
There’s too much pressure to lose it and to make it a good experience.
Performance anxiety I'd imagine. Should of asked for the succ first.
The golden rule is not to fap for many days beforehand if you think there will be problem getting it up..
Or to fap on the day if you think you will only last 2 seconds.
Or to fap on the day if you think you will only last 2 seconds.
If she was DTF he probably wasnt incel...
>girl wants to fuck him
>incel
Pick one, I'd love a girl who'd find me even tolerable to look at.
I wish I could kill myself but I have responsibilities, the LDAR hurts.
>incel
Pick one, I'd love a girl who'd find me even tolerable to look at.
I wish I could kill myself but I have responsibilities, the LDAR hurts.
everyone has that the first time tbh
I've heard of that happening a lot.
want to bet people make some shitty "doctor" experience out of their first time, and that helps this happen
i would definitely just lie down with a girl until i got hard on top of her then just shove it in lightspeed before i get any anxiety, not make some creepy medical examination out of it
i would definitely just lie down with a girl until i got hard on top of her then just shove it in lightspeed before i get any anxiety, not make some creepy medical examination out of it
The best part about ED is that its psychological most of the time, and having one bad experience will traumatize you enough to guarantee ED with every subsequent female encounter. A positive feedback loop of flacidness.
Pretty common
He told me that he did, but she didn't want any preliminaries/blowjob/handjob, just direct sex.
Yeah, i think it's mainly caused by too much porn and performance anxiety.
Damn poor guy. But she was interested though so I'm torn
Uhm no... I'm sure most horny teenagers can get it up the first time a girl undresses for them.
Exactly
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If you can get an erection when you watch porn and masturbate then it's not ED, it is just anxiety and psychological.
Probably was just nerves unless he has ED
Happened to me as well with a hooker.
If you have a penis that looks small when flacid then you want her to only see it when it's hard. So you are pressured to get hard before she unzips your pants - game over. Having a big flacid penis eliminates this problem. Also, a big penis is autoerotic - the large size of your own penis turns you on (small penis has opposite effect). That's why ED mostly happens to people with small penises and almost never to people with big penises
It depends, even people with ED may have erection but have problems maintaining it. The problem with porn is that sex is so intense and there is no "dead time" so even if your dick is constantly stimulated, so you may not have any problems with porn but have problems when putting a condom (dead time).
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