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Story A conversation with my father I had little while ago

First loss

First loss

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I'm not very close with my father. He's a Chad and in his late thirties.

He never states it, but I see that I failed him. He expected a strong masculine son, but got me. A failure. I see dissapointment in his eyes every time I screw something up.

He is also constantly bringing up me not having a GF.

One day my father and I were driving home and he asked why I don't have a girlfriend and suggested I invite some gf to a date. I didn't want to fail in even that aspect in his eyes, so I constantly say I am not interested in such things.

So, we are driving and he says: "Why wouldn't you find one? You are handsome (JFL), tall ( i legit chuckled when he said this ) and smart and you can find a pretty gf".

I just replied that I don't want to and concluded the conversation.

Why is he so bluepilled? I mean he was a good looking Chad in his youth and he expects the same from me but doesn't he see the obvious?

Fuck this.
 
How the fuck does he think you’re tall? Aren’t you 5’2? :dafuckfeels:
 
How the fuck does he think you’re tall? Aren’t you 5’2? :dafuckfeels:
I don't know. He was a tall lad though he shrinked and got quite a bit of weight now but he easily heightmogged me when he was my age.

He was probably trying to motivate me or something.
 
Whats your height OP?
 
Just tell him how you feel. He needs to face reality.
also,
How the fuck does he think you’re tall? Aren’t you 5’2? :dafuckfeels:
this
bro I think your father is making fun of you...
 
5'2

I don't want to. I shared my feeling once with him when i was like 12 and it didn't go well.
ye its over.

But in my opinion you should be sincere with your father and tell him all the truth.
 
ye its over.

But in my opinion you should be sincere with your father and tell him all the truth.
I don't know man. He already sees me as a failure.
 
My dad is very neutral he never make comments about me being a failure. He is proud of me in some aspects,though. He is also blackpilled but never critize me about not having gf (guess it's because of my culture)
 
5'2

I don't want to. I shared my feeling once with him when i was like 12 and it didn't go well.
Just delude your turbomanlet son that he's tall theory.
 
They want to pass their shitty genes on no matter what.

Do you have siblings?
 
idk, close relatives suffer a complete mental retardation when it comes to their own kids' appearance (mine say that I look like a male model despite being sub4). On the plus side that means you're a volcel if you have a sister
 
It seem s to me like he is trolling you.
 
how the fuck did your father said to you that you are tall at 5'2 wtf are you lying to people here about your height or your father is huge delusional idiot
 
He is also constantly bringing up me not having a GF.

So, we are driving and he says: "Why wouldn't you find one? You are handsome (JFL), tall ( i legit chuckled when he said this ) and smart and you can find a pretty gf".

LOL my mom is like this as well. My dad just doesnt give a shit because he used to be beta too so he understands to some degree (my parents marriage was more or less arranged)

The worst is there is no right answer to that question. If you answer that you want a gf but cant get it you will get labaled a virgin loser but if you say you dont care about getting a gf now you will be called gay

I just literally pull out my phone or walk away whenever this topic gets brought up, there is no way to win that I know off
 
He'll probably think you're gay if you tell him you're not interested in getting a gf, maybe you should just tell him the truth.

My dad just doesnt give a shit because he used to be beta too so he understands to some degree (my parents marriage was more or less arranged)
Same for me, he got married really late (for his culture's standards at least) too.
 
idk, close relatives suffer a complete mental retardation when it comes to their own kids' appearance (mine say that I look like a male model despite being sub4). On the plus side that means you're a volcel if you have a sister
I don't. Are you from Alabama?

how the fuck did your father said to you that you are tall at 5'2 wtf are you lying to people here about your height or your father is huge delusional idiot
Easy there, newfag.
 
That's sad tbh I hate those conversations when the parent desperately try to cheer up his child but deep down even he knows it's over :feelsrope:
 
My dad is very neutral he never make comments about me being a failure. He is proud of me in some aspects,though. He is also blackpilled but never critize me about not having gf (guess it's because of my culture)
My father dosent give a shit about my dating life
 
I'm pretty sure my family considers me gay at this point tbh.
 
Good for you i'm a slav literal white niggers I hate some people of my kind.
The Generalplan Ost (German pronunciation: [ɡenəˈʁaːlˌplaːn ˈɔst]; English: Master Plan for the East), abbreviated as GPO, was the Nazi German government's plan for the genocide and ethnic cleansing on a vast scale, and colonization of Central and Eastern Europe. It was to be undertaken in territories occupied by Germany during World War II. The plan was partially realized during the war, resulting directly and indirectly in the deaths of 9.4 to 11.4 million ethnic Slavs by starvation, disease, ethnic cleansing, mass murder, or extermination through labor, including 4.5 million Soviet citizens,[1] 2.8 to 3.3 million Soviet POWs,[2] 1.8 to 3 million Slavic Poles,[3][4][5] 300 to 600 thousand Serbs[6][7] and 20 to 25 thousand Slovenes.[8]Its full implementation, however, was not considered practicable during the major military operations, and was prevented by Germany's defeat.[9][10]

 
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Film your approaches and show him results.Or ask him to be your wingman on them or smth.Otherwise these :bluepill:parents just won't understand.
 
my dad has made fun of me for not having a gf too, it makes me feel so sad
 
my parents stopped asking , they know its over for me
 
Fathers shouldn't be like mothers. They should be truthful with their sons. Mine is a similar way.
 
How can a guy that was chad & comes from a time when standards were lower understand the position you're in, was he in that situation? Nope, so he ain't gonna get it.
 
The Generalplan Ost (German pronunciation: [ɡenəˈʁaːlˌplaːn ˈɔst]; English: Master Plan for the East), abbreviated as GPO, was the Nazi German government's plan for the genocide and ethnic cleansing on a vast scale, and colonization of Central and Eastern Europe. It was to be undertaken in territories occupied by Germany during World War II. The plan was partially realized during the war, resulting directly and indirectly in the deaths of 9.4 to 11.4 million ethnic Slavs by starvation, disease, ethnic cleansing, mass murder, or extermination through labor, including 4.5 million Soviet citizens,[1] 2.8 to 3.3 million Soviet POWs,[2] 1.8 to 3 million Slavic Poles,[3][4][5] 300 to 600 thousand Serbs[6][7] and 20 to 25 thousand Slovenes.[8]Its full implementation, however, was not considered practicable during the major military operations, and was prevented by Germany's defeat.[9][10]


:feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek: exterminates me
 
Easy there, newfag.
JoinedDec 3, 2018
I'm just not postmaxxing cut the shit now and tell me are you larping or your father is huge brainlet ?
 
JoinedDec 3, 2018
I'm just not postmaxxing cut the shit now and tell me are you larping or your father is huge brainlet ?
I'm LARPing. I'm actually a 6'2 gigachad and me and my stacy harem made this account to laugh at your misfortune.
 
I'm LARPing. I'm actually a 6'2 gigachad and me and my stacy harem made this account to laugh at your misfortune.
ok dude seriously JFL :feelskek:
 
My parents don't bother me with that, I guess they know it's over.
 
If you're 5'2 and 16 then why aren't you on HGH
 
He sounds like a bad father
 
tell him to fuck off, and that he is being naive and that foids are hypergamous whores if he doubts this show him some online studies proving this if he refuses to believe this he is delusional and you should never talk to him again
 

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