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Pengwin

Pengwin

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  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.
  • You hate having to get a haircut.
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.
  • You're very fluent in the english language.
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.
  • You have an autistic friend.
  • You're a porn addict.
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.
  • You're a mother's child.
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.
  • Your favourite color is green.
  • Your music taste is outdated.
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.
  • You overthink everything.
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.
  • You're obsessed with anime.
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.
  • You can't drive
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.
 
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probably just you traits
 
I'm everything except the Green part and Anime
 
Also crooked or ugly teeth should be listed. My lower third is fucked because of that.
 
Pengwin said:
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.
  • You hate having to get a haircut.
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.
  • You're very fluent in the english language.
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.
  • You have an autistic friend.
  • You're a porn addict.
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.
  • You're a mother's child.
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.
  • Your favourite color is green.
  • Your music taste is outdated.
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.
  • You overthink everything.
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.
  • You're obsessed with anime.
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.
  • You can't drive
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.
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17/25
 
Pengwin said:
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.
  • You hate having to get a haircut.
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.
  • You're very fluent in the english language.
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.
  • You have an autistic friend.
  • You're a porn addict.
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.
  • You're a mother's child.
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.
  • Your favourite color is green.
  • Your music taste is outdated.
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.
  • You overthink everything.
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.
  • You're obsessed with anime.
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.
  • You can't drive
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.
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  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better. :yes:
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever. :yes: (used to anyway)
  • You hate having to get a haircut. :no:(indifferent)
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible. :no: (I like to looksmaxx and fashionmaxx now)
  • You're very fluent in the english language. :yes:
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''. :yes:
  • You have an autistic friend. :yes:
  • You're a porn addict. :yes:
  • You don't understand why people like soccer. :yes:(or any sport for that matter)
  • You spend most of your time in solitude. :yes:
  • You're a mother's child.:yes:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside. :yes:
  • You're continuously failing Nofap. :yes:
  • Your favourite color is green. :no:
  • Your music taste is outdated. :yes:
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you. :no: (only because I make it obvious that I like them)
  • You overthink everything. :yes:
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here. :yes:
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever. :no: (I have a small, but tight circle)
  • You're obsessed with anime. :yes:
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens. :yes:
  • You can't drive :no:
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't. :yes:
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be. :yes:
  • You don't celebrate your birthday. :yes:
19/20
 
ShySaxon said:
This is the worst incel trait of all.

@LastGerman
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It took me seven attempts to pass my driving test, I didn't learn to drive until I was 24. My own fault really but also my parents did absolutely nothing to encourage my independence (they are both obviously sociopaths). But what has made me an incel really is my height, looks and living with my parents throughout my 20's saving up for a house + now a total lack of romantic experience.
 
caniwin said:
Yeah, I don't get this one.
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I remember some blind kid (blind all his life) at school telling us his favourite colour was green because he liked the smell of grass which he was told was green. I want to die.
 
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.
  • You hate having to get a haircut.
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.
  • You're very fluent in the english language.
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.
  • You have an autistic friend.
  • You're a porn addict.
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.
  • You're a mother's child.
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.
  • Your favourite color is green.
  • Your music taste is outdated.
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.
  • You overthink everything.
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.
  • You're obsessed with anime.
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.
  • You can't drive
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.
 
DarwinsDisgrace said:
It took me seven attempts to pass my driving test, I didn't learn to drive until I was 24. My own fault really but also my parents did absolutely nothing to encourage my independence (they are both obviously sociopaths). But what has made me an incel really is my height, looks and living with my parents throughout my 20's saving up for a house + now a total lack of romantic experience.
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Seven attempts? Brutal drivers license pill right there. @LastGerman what are your thoughts on this?
 
I agree with a few.
 
Pengwin said:
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.:yes:
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.:no:
  • You hate having to get a haircut.:no:
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.:no:
  • You're very fluent in the english language.:yes:
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.:yes:
  • You have an autistic friend.:yes:
  • You're a porn addict.:yes:
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.:no:
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.:yes:
  • You're a mother's child.:no:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.:yes:
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.:yes:
  • Your favourite color is green.:no:
  • Your music taste is outdated.:yes:
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.
  • You overthink everything.:yes:
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.:yes:
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.:yes:
  • You're obsessed with anime.:no:
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.:yes:
  • You can't drive:yes:
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.:yes:
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.:yes:
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.:yes:
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  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better. :No:
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever. :no:
  • You hate having to get a haircut. :Yes:
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible. :Yes:
  • You're very fluent in the english language. :No:
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''. :Yes:
  • You have an autistic friend. :No:
  • You're a porn addict. :Yes:
  • You don't understand why people like soccer. :No:
  • You spend most of your time in solitude. :Yes:
  • You're a mother's child. :No:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside. :Yes:
  • You're continuously failing Nofap. :Yes:
  • Your favourite color is green. :No:
  • Your music taste is outdated. :Yes:
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you. :Yes:
  • You overthink everything. :Yes:
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here. :Yes:
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever. :Yes:
  • You're obsessed with anime. :No:
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens. :Yes:
  • You can't drive :no:
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't. :Yes:
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be. :Yes:
  • You don't celebrate your birthday. :Yes:
Edit: ffs it didn't work
 
I do have many of them, but I don't watch anime and I know how to drive, lastly, I'm not a porn addict anymore.
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better. :yes: I could be one of the best in my class, as I could be one of the last, depending on my environment, which was mostly driven by moods...
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever. :yes: I don't follow "fashion", though I like the wears of the 1980s and 1990s.
  • You hate having to get a haircut. :no: Actually, I like it.
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.:yes:
  • You're very fluent in the english language. :no: Not so fluent, but I try to since English became the lingua franca of the West.
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''. :yes:
  • You have an autistic friend.:no: I don't have friends at all.
  • You're a porn addict.:no:
  • You don't understand why people like soccer :yes: and :no: I watch it sometimes, but I don't follow it. I'm not a football fan.
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.:yes: Almost, my whole life.
  • You're a mother's child.:yes:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside. :yes: I spend most of the time indoor, at home, and do get lots of trouble recently when I wanted to travel through Europe to visit "my own" continent.
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.:no:
  • Your favourite color is green.:yes: I love this color.
  • Your music taste is outdated.:yes: Mostly, the 1930s-1990s music.
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.:yes:
  • You overthink everything.:yes: And, what's important or what most other people think is important, I often ignore it. Though, you shouldn't, and I am more observative nowadays than I used to be in the past.
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.:yes: That's obvious, if not I couldn't post.
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.:yes: Almost never.
  • You're obsessed with anime.:no:
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.:yes: Very depressed and anxious.
  • You can't drive:no: I drive well and enjoy it pretty much actually.
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.:yes: That's the truth, especially as a Wizzard.
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.:yes: I hate violence, though many people think I'm a racist, misogynistic, violent person, I'm not. But, I am and was mostly a victim of other people violence, mostly mental violence -- I have seen bullies through my entire life.
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.:yes: What to celebrate, when you don't have friends to be within the first place, and see death at the end (which is unavoidable)...and sometimes as your ultimate goal?

+ Incel traits:


  • You have childish traits and character (which isn't so negative when you look at the world but is certainly very negative to be treated like a child even as you're fully grown man, legally responsible person). :no: I try to put my childish way away, but this society crap is treating people as they are children, just look at the advertisements or hypocrisy on-going as if everyone was blind.
  • Naivety (for those that aren't Blackpilled yet).:no: I hope so, not anymore. Naive people are the best targets for becoming scapegoats, which is what follows:
  • You're often seen as a scapegoat.
  • You hate this world. :yes: :yes: :yes: You can't imagine how I hate this society, especially the Western one, as I believe to be one of the few to see its dark agenda and its destructive paths, sucking the blood of the weak and naive like a vampire literally, Babylon the Great Whore, and I know she will fall very soon.
 
DarwinsDisgrace said:
It took me seven attempts to pass my driving test, I didn't learn to drive until I was 24. My own fault really but also my parents did absolutely nothing to encourage my independence (they are both obviously sociopaths). But what has made me an incel really is my height, looks and living with my parents throughout my 20's saving up for a house + now a total lack of romantic experience.
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ShySaxon said:
Seven attempts? Brutal drivers license pill right there. @LastGerman what are your thoughts on this?
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It is absolutely brutal, even though some people try to play it down. It is a real issue though. Now imagine, you cannot even get behind of driving simulation despite the fact you had 10 lessons of it.
 
I have many of them.

Pengwin said:
Your favourite color is green.
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What's the reasoning for this one (my favorite color is also green lol)?
 
Pengwin said:
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.
  • You hate having to get a haircut.
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.
  • You're very fluent in the english language.
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.
  • You have an autistic friend.
  • You're a porn addict.
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.
  • You're a mother's child.
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.
  • Your favourite color is green.
  • Your music taste is outdated.
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.
  • You overthink everything.
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.
  • You're obsessed with anime.
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.
  • You can't drive
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.
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Checked every one of those except "green is your favorite colour" orange is far superior imo
 
LastGerman said:
It is absolutely brutal, even though some people try to play it down. It is a real issue though. Now imagine, you cannot even get behind of driving simulation despite the fact you had 10 lessons of it.
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Even though it took me seven attempts before passing I've never been in a crash for the 4+ years I've been driving for. I actually think I was failing my tests for being too cautious and conscientious. Just keep taking tests until you pass bro
 
You have mediocre or subpar grades even :no:though you could do better.
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.:no:
  • You hate having to get a haircut.:yes:
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.:no:
  • You're very fluent in the english language.:yes:
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.:yes:
  • You have an autistic friend.:yes:
  • You're a porn addict.:no:
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.:yes:
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.:yes:
  • You're a mother's child.:no:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.:yes:
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.:no:
  • Your favourite color is green.:no:
  • Your music taste is outdated.:yes:
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.:yes:
  • You overthink everything.:no:
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.:yes:
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.:yes:
  • You're obsessed with anime.:yes:
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.:yes:
  • You can't drive:no:
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.:yes:
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.:yes::yes:
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.
 
Got me
 
DarwinsDisgrace said:
Just keep taking tests until you pass bro
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I even failed at driving simulation. I had 10 lessons of it and I did not get any better. How am I supposed to do the test? In order to do the test in the first place, you need to do all mandatory driving lessons and you can only do your mandatory driving lessons, if you are able to drive and I am not capable of it... but but just keep trying brah...
Also, do not forget that this shit cost a lot of money here in Germany. I literally need to spend all of my money on it without guarantee that I am capable of driving.
 
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.
Only in classes I didn't care for. Like language classes.




  • You hate having to get a haircut.
I do, but I still cut my hair because it gets uncomfortable for me.




  • You don't understand why people like soccer.
I like soccer.




  • You're continuously failing Nofap.
I never tried nofap. I would never try no fap.




  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.
She did because I made myself known and she rejected me.




  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.
I have no phone.



  • You're obsessed with anime.
I like hentai. I don't like anime.




  • You can't drive
I actually know how to drive as my father taught me at a young age. I just don't legally drive or have a license because I don't want to own a car. That and I can't pass the written test, which I already said I don't care as I don't want to own a car.
 
Pengwin said:
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better. :yes:
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever. :yes:
  • You hate having to get a haircut. :yes:
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible. :yes:
  • You're very fluent in the english language. :yes:
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.
    :yes:
  • You have an autistic friend.
    :yes:
  • You're a porn addict.
    No
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.
    :yes:
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.
    :yes:
  • You're a mother's child.
    :yes:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.
    Not if running.
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.
    Don't do that shit
  • Your favourite color is green.
    ????
  • Your music taste is outdated.
    :yes:
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.
    Didn't have one
  • You overthink everything.
    :yes:
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.
    :yes:
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.
    :yes:
  • You're obsessed with anime.
    No
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.
    :yes:
  • You can't drive
    :yes:
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.
    :yes::yes::yes:
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.
    :yes:
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.
    :yes:
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GoffSystemQB said:
I have many of them.


What's the reasoning for this one (my favorite color is also green lol)?
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I recall most failed normies I know have this one as their favorite myself included.
 
Pengwin said:
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.
  • You hate having to get a haircut.
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.
  • You're very fluent in the english language.
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.
  • You're a porn addict.
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.
  • You're a mother's child.
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.
  • You overthink everything.
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.
  • You're obsessed with anime.
  • You can't drive
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.
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17/25
 
fucking hell a lot of these are true for me.

"you look forward to coming home whenever you're outside" hits home. i can only cope infront of my laptop
 
I’m all of them except I can drive and I’m not obsessed with anime
 
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better. :yes:
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever. :yes:
  • You hate having to get a haircut. :no:
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible. :yes:
  • You're very fluent in the english language. :yes:
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''. :yes:
  • You have an autistic friend. :yes::yes::yes::feelskek:
  • You're a porn addict. :yes:
  • You don't understand why people like soccer. :yes:
  • You spend most of your time in solitude. :yes:
  • You're a mother's child. :no:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside. :yes:
  • You're continuously failing Nofap. :yes:
  • Your favourite color is green. :yes:
  • Your music taste is outdated. :yes:
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you. :no: (Noticed in a bad way)
  • You overthink everything. :yes:
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here. :yes:
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever. :yes:
  • You're obsessed with anime. :no:
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens. :yes:
  • You can't drive :yes:
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't. :yes:
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be. :yes:
  • You don't celebrate your birthday. :yes: (Mostly my family does for me)
 
21/25
21/25
 
15 of these traits fit to me
 
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.:yes: bad grades but can't do better
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.:yes:
  • You hate having to get a haircut.:yes:
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.:no: I just don't really care
  • You're very fluent in the english language.:yes:
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.:yes:
  • You have an autistic friend.:no:
  • You're a porn addict.:yes:
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.:yes:
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.:yes:
  • You're a mother's child.:no:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.:yes:
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.:no: I don't even try nofap
  • Your favourite color is green.:yes:
  • Your music taste is outdated.:no: don't listen to much music
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.:no: don't have one
  • You overthink everything.:yes:
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.:yes:
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.:yes:
  • You're obsessed with anime.:no:
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.:yes: my entire life is one
  • You can't drive:yes:
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.:yes:
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.:no: I am violent
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.:no:
 
  • You have mediocre or subpar grades even though you could do better.:yes:
  • You have no sense of style or fashion whatsoever.:yes:
  • You hate having to get a haircut.:yes:
  • You avoid mirrors as much as possible.:yes:
  • You're very fluent in the english language.:yes:
  • You were the ''quiet kid in class''.:yes:
  • You have an autistic friend.:no:
  • You're a porn addict.:yes:
  • You don't understand why people like soccer.:yes:
  • You spend most of your time in solitude.:yes:
  • You're a mother's child.:no:
  • You look forward to coming home when outside.:yes:
  • You're continuously failing Nofap.:yes:
  • Your favourite color is green.:no:
  • Your music taste is outdated.:yes:
  • Your oneitis never even noticed you.:yes:
  • You overthink everything.:yes:
  • You have an account on this site or frequently lurk here.:yes:
  • You rarely get text messages on your phone or none whatsoever.:yes:
  • You're obsessed with anime.:no:
  • You went through a dark period in your late teens.:yes:
  • You can't drive:no:
  • You feel like peers and even younger people are getting ahead in life while you don't.:yes:
  • You're not a violent person contrary to what people believe incels to be.:yes:
  • You don't celebrate your birthday.:yes:
 
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