She has a nice voice and a good personality. He's lucky to be dating her in a post tinder world.
We always talk about how a girl's looks match killed themselves long ago. But this time I went down a rabbit hole to find her looks matches:
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pRjxhpFoFQ
(above) He's not been able to get a girlfriend but when he realized how confident he was able to be, he became outgoing and was able to make friends. His friends might be the kinds of people who would have no friends otherwise, but it's still friends.
quote from him "I want to be the person who changes other people's minds that they can be comfortable in their own skin if I can be"
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ST9vj2PAScY
(above) He says he has a girlfriend and use to be a player. He is popular at his school. His school is a school for the blind and visually impaired. So I guess his girlfriend is blind and the girls he's talked to were all blind. I know there's studies on how blind women care even more about the physical appearance of their partner, but maybe he's convinced them not to feel him.
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VkAlD0Phkc
(above) Former Chad, became burn victim around 19. Got a girlfriend after becoming a burn victim. Girlfriend seems nice and normal. He still has his chad facial proportions. He seems depressed regardless. His gf claims he was funny and outgoing, but you can tell from the video he has the personality of a door nob but is dark triad. So the chad looks he kept, combined with his dark triad could have helped.
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s51jhNuFKTs
(above) Likes to dance, it makes him happier. No girlfriend.
Quotes from him "Self acceptance is big, people got to learn that." "Every challenge in life is there to make you stronger." "Nothing can embarrass you unless you let it embarrass you."
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tjejy_qr8Hs
Female burn survivor. Not as physically attractive. 17. no boyfriend.
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GxOG9I7YIvU
Female burn survivor. Stacy who was dating shorter Chad before she got burned. Chad stayed with her.
Quotes: "It's very easy for us to get caught up in the narrative our life. And it's very easy for people to start making excuses." "Bad stuff happens to good people everyday but that's not what defines you, what defines you is how you respond to it." She doesn't seem happy in life.
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOohbrwr6nc
Female burn survivor. Not Dating any one. Was Stacy before accident. No boyfriend.
Quotes: "When you're real, real recognizes real."
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Commonalities/Trends:
Despite them all saying "positive" stuff for the video, the ones who were the happiest were burned as children and never experienced being Chad or Becky. Chad's and Becky's being burned, even if they can keep dating are the most depressed.
The ones who danced and moved around a lot seemed to be the happiest and most socially successful. The ones who didn't move much while talking, and were possible less into fitness and were less happy.
