theinvenntor
63 Year Old - Only Laid 5 Times As A Adult
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I am a male, 63 years old and still struggling in finding a girlfriend. I talk well with women and have 7 that are my best friends. I am still astonished by the fact that, for my entire adult life that I have never had one except for the wonderful one I had at the age of 17. Her name was Lisa and we had sex every day for at least 4 hours. Those were the days. I am still amazed that I have not taken my own life by now. I came very, very close on 3 occasions in my late 20s. The 3rd time I realized that God must have some purpose to all of the rejections I have received by well over at least a thousand of women that I have met and pursued during my life. I am still searching for a reason why and fix that. So far in my adult life, I have only had sex 5 times! While I do not have the face of a male model, mine is about average. I am a heathy 5’ 10” with an athletic body. I am far more fit and healthily looking that most if not all males my age and still have all of my hair.
It's not like I don’t know how to talk with women nor do I have any issue with walking up to any woman and starting a conservation with one. In my search to find any answers to my problem, I found tons of material on dating, how to seduce women form the internet and all other sources possible. To date, I have saved a total of 638 GB so far and I still keep looking for more. These include 1,863 articles, 122 e-books, 908 Audiobooks files, about seduction study curses, 2,721 video files, and hundreds of podcasts. I have read, listened, or watched every single one of them, some several times.
I am currently a member of about 50 single oriented MeetUp groups and attend at least one event per week, sometimes as many at 5 per week. While I have had no success with these, they are by far the best way to meet women that I have found so far. I have been on almost any dating site you can imagine. Facebook dating, eHarmony, Plenty Of Fish, Silver Singles, Zoosk, Tinder, Bumble, and Adult FriendFinders, just to name a few. At one time, I was a member of 5 different online dating sites at one time. On average for the 70 to 100 emails I sent out each week, I usually got a single reply to the order of thanks but, I don’t think we are match or that there was no chemistry. I even hired a female dating coach to help enhance my profiles on these sites. FaceBook dating however, is a good one that I have had numerous first dates but, no second ones.
And yes, I did see a consulter. She thought everything I was doing in searching for a girlfriend was the right way to go about it. She did help me with a horrible self-esteem issue I was having at the time. Other than that, she thought I was most well-adjusted patient she had ever had and could not see any reason of why I could not find a girlfriend and advised that I keep looking. The courses I read and watched on seduction basically teach the same thing. That being, to fell, look, and act like the Alpha Male. While they have not let me score, I a very sure that such material like this would help many others in this predicament.
If you had other things that were successful, I would love to hear what they are.
It's not like I don’t know how to talk with women nor do I have any issue with walking up to any woman and starting a conservation with one. In my search to find any answers to my problem, I found tons of material on dating, how to seduce women form the internet and all other sources possible. To date, I have saved a total of 638 GB so far and I still keep looking for more. These include 1,863 articles, 122 e-books, 908 Audiobooks files, about seduction study curses, 2,721 video files, and hundreds of podcasts. I have read, listened, or watched every single one of them, some several times.
I am currently a member of about 50 single oriented MeetUp groups and attend at least one event per week, sometimes as many at 5 per week. While I have had no success with these, they are by far the best way to meet women that I have found so far. I have been on almost any dating site you can imagine. Facebook dating, eHarmony, Plenty Of Fish, Silver Singles, Zoosk, Tinder, Bumble, and Adult FriendFinders, just to name a few. At one time, I was a member of 5 different online dating sites at one time. On average for the 70 to 100 emails I sent out each week, I usually got a single reply to the order of thanks but, I don’t think we are match or that there was no chemistry. I even hired a female dating coach to help enhance my profiles on these sites. FaceBook dating however, is a good one that I have had numerous first dates but, no second ones.
And yes, I did see a consulter. She thought everything I was doing in searching for a girlfriend was the right way to go about it. She did help me with a horrible self-esteem issue I was having at the time. Other than that, she thought I was most well-adjusted patient she had ever had and could not see any reason of why I could not find a girlfriend and advised that I keep looking. The courses I read and watched on seduction basically teach the same thing. That being, to fell, look, and act like the Alpha Male. While they have not let me score, I a very sure that such material like this would help many others in this predicament.
If you had other things that were successful, I would love to hear what they are.